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reader, carebear  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 natasia
read another post this girl has written about telling her mother!
Alot of aunt/uncle answered her post and got abuse, her saying it was unhelpful, but in my opinion she wants to be pregnant at 15?!
There is something seriouly wrong with thse children,that want babys at this age they are only kids themselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you,natasia, someone with sense
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reader, natasia +, writes (7 April 2008):
 What's the matter with you guys? A young girl came on here and asked, in confidence, what the possibility was of her being pregnant. She DIDN'T ask if we thought it was ok to be pregnant at her age, and she HASN'T said it's a problem that she is actually pregnant.
We need to stick to giving the advice asked for, and not gang up on a poster because of their situation or opinion. If she wants this child, she will be a good mother, I'm sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): There go the next 18 years of your life. Maybe you'll teach your kid that attitude of yours. Delightful...
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reader, carebear +, writes (6 April 2008):
well you were asking for advice for cheeky monkey, it wont help any baby you have if you act like a little kid with no manners yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshut the h*ll up i know how to get pregnant and i tried and i did so know what your talkin bout before you start talking (well typing) dumb *s*
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reader, carebear +, writes (6 April 2008):
You came on here to get advice thats a good one according to you updates. Didn't you know that having unprotected sex even just once you can get pregnant? Apparently not! but you also say you are trying for a family! So dear you have got what you wanted. They didn't post my other responce to this post Collaroy and Leanna are 100% correct
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUPDATE!
I took a pregnacy test Friday April 4 and it said that i AM pregnant....I came on here to get advice and all i got was put-downs from people who thought they knew what they were talking about...seems like they didnt....i didnt ask if this was a good decision i asked if its possible for me to be pregnant and turned out it was and i concieved the friday that i said i did so thanx anyway for that one person that answered my question....IM OUT
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I said "the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day" so seems like you cant read after all...THEN i said: "Plus I think we concieved one Friday which was a week before that day and when my period came down" so obviously im still thinking that NOW...HENCE my reason for asking about it.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): You said: "The day I think we concieved my period came down"
THEN you said: "Plus I think we concieved one friday"
'Thought' is the word you were looking for. Past tense, meaning you know better in hindsight.
Not 'think' meaning you're thinking it presently.
And I can read perfectly well thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANX for a true comment and GOOD advice natasia thats what i needed to know not about how my decision will affect me but i just wanted an answer to my question...thank you
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reader, natasia +, writes (31 March 2008):
Sorry - have just come into this discussion and am confused! Was your question could you be pregnant? Yes, you could, but it's unlikely. You're usually fertile about 14 days before your period starts, but I think you said you had unprotected sex about 7 days before it. Anything's possible, believe me, but I think you're more likely to be pregnant if you have sex when fertile and if you don't get your period after.
As for the comments about when/if you should start a family, you didn't ask people about that, so I won't give my advice. No need for people to be nasty to you, though - ignore that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno you learn how to read if your gonna give somebody advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Well learn some proper grammar and punctuation if you're going to post a question then lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAND I didn't say I "conceived" twice I said I THOUGHT I conceived once then I thought I didn't conceive that time but I conceived the second time... read between the lines if you're gonna comment something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG this so soo wrong! okay thats all i wanted to know...the comments can stop im not gonna sit here and read about how immature i am..its my choice and my decision and not yours' I want it and im keeping it...case closed
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Sweety to make it short and sweet......you're tooooooo young to be trying to get pregnant. I got pregnat by mistake when I was 15 and had an abortion.when I was with that guy I thought I was in love and actually wanted 2 b pregnant 4 him although he was 10 years my senior. When I found out I was pregnant I was so happy and scared @ the same time.when I told him I was pregnant all the sudden he didn't "love" me anymore and wanted me to kill it. I still wanted to have it though cz I didn't believe in abortions but It wasn't until I saw my sonogram that I realized I wasn't ready 2 have the babies. I was put to sleep 4 the procedure and when I woke up I knew what I did and wanted my babies back so badly but it was too late....I was devastated but as time went by I realized I did the right thing. If I had kept my twins my life would of been very different and I would not have been able to provide for my kids. And by the way ur boyfriend is only taking advantage of you.boys don't like to use condoms sex feels better without 1 for them(and us too).he knows that u want a baby so he acts like he wants 1 too and uses that as an excuse. Most guys have to convince girls to do it raw he doesn't have to. He's lucky(no offense) think it over sweety.ur just NOT ready...... xoxoxoxo ----mrs.charles2b
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Oh my god, where are your parents?
What are you doing playing happy families when you are still a young girl.
Geez I too am getting tired of trying to offer advice to these young girls who want to play grownups.
But take some advice, get ready to raise this child on your own, if you think a teenage boy is going to stick around to play daddy you will learn soon enough the reality of that situation.
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reader, fairygurl  +, writes (30 March 2008):
Seriously girl what are you playing at? Start a family at what age 13-15... your only a child yourself. Stop being so careless
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): And for the record you didn't concieve twice like you say you think you did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Ok so I'm sick of giving safe sex lectures to silly, immature little girls - I'm not even gonna bother with this one. You're not going listen anyway, are you?
If you're getting your period then its unlikely you have concieved.
There are only certain times in your cycle when it is likely that you will concieve. The day before your period is most definately not one of them.
If you can't even grasp that then god help the poor child who's eventually going to be born to the immature children that you are.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-15-and-pregnant-but-im-afraid-that.html
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