14, pregnant and terrified!!!
Q. Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...
A. 9 April 2009: CONGRATULATIONS! So glad to hear you have a beautiful baby girl! : )
Don't worry - I'm sure she will be fine in a few months time, and at the moment she is getting the best care possible.
As for your life - I am impressed : ) It is great that y... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 4 March 2009: I was also thinking of you yesterday (3 March). I can't help thinking you told yr parents and general force of opinion has led you to terminate the pregnancy. Whatever has happened, hope you're ok.
nxx... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he followed through when all the signs say he likes me?
Q. I'd really like a guy's perspective on this please? Why would a guy meet a girl, tell his friends he likes her, give her his number, act like he likes her when he's around her but...not reply to her text asking to meet up or ask her out himself?...
A. 25 February 2009: If he is 'mature' and has no ex-wife and no children, then there also must be a reason for that. How mature is he?
You have to think that if a guy has got into his 40s with no baggage, then he has been avoiding life on some level ... or it has b... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he followed through when all the signs say he likes me?
Q. I'd really like a guy's perspective on this please? Why would a guy meet a girl, tell his friends he likes her, give her his number, act like he likes her when he's around her but...not reply to her text asking to meet up or ask her out himself?...
A. 25 February 2009: I too think more info is needed. Does he have any family? Ex-wife? Children?... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 25 February 2009: Hope you are ok and everyone is being nice to you : )... (read in full...)
When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?
Q. My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right? By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!...
A. 25 February 2009: Well, it just seems kind of practical then. You can't really be going into their house through a back entrance without having been introduced to them! I wouldn't read too much into it. Just see how it goes ... (as with everything in life!)... (read in full...)
When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?
Q. My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right? By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!...
A. 24 February 2009: I think it means that right now, he is serious about you, and wants to bring you home for his parents' approval. I don't think you can read any more than that into it. He wants to socialise fully with you, in all areas of his life, and obviously his ... (read in full...)
My partner feels nothing when we have sex
Q. I have been with a guy for about 4 months now (my first gay relationship) and we are very much in love. I have a fantastic time with him, except for the fact that he 'feels nothing' when we have sex. He says that he has been like this for around 3...
A. 24 February 2009: He has effectively switched off his emotions, because they were (a) too painful and (b) his subconscious learnt the hard way that being open and loving basically means you can end up horribly hurt. He had to cope with the knowledge and thought of ... (read in full...)
My partner feels nothing when we have sex
Q. I have been with a guy for about 4 months now (my first gay relationship) and we are very much in love. I have a fantastic time with him, except for the fact that he 'feels nothing' when we have sex. He says that he has been like this for around 3...
A. 24 February 2009: He has effectively switched off his emotions, because they were (a) too painful and (b) his subconscious learnt the hard way that being open and loving basically means you can end up horribly hurt. He had to cope with the knowledge and thought of ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there
OK, now I have a bit of time to write ... :D
It made my day to read yr post first thing, because you are actually listening to what is being said, and taking it on board, and thinking about the consequences of what you do now. You don... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there : )
I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!)
but i will soon - ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there : )
I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!)
but i will soon - ... (read in full...)
My partner has genital warts..what does this mean for the future?
Q. My patner and I recently had sex tests as we both wished to have unprotected sex, thankfully my results came back clear but he was diagnosed with HPV (genital warts)From research on the internet I understand that this is a highly contagious ...
A. 21 February 2009: As I understand it:
- He needs them treated immediately, to get rid of them.
- They are only infectious when there are warts or some other symptoms (but you'd need to check this with the doctor).
- Although the warts can be got rid of, he will ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and wanting a 2nd child... I'm having trouble conceiving, help!
Q. i am 18.as of sept.08 i got preg. with my first child when i was 16 with my ex of 3 years.my son just turned 1 feb 10. i have been datin my new man for almost 2 years now and i am wanting another child but i am having problums conciving. my boyfr...
A. 21 February 2009: I say well done to you, Cee Cee Baby, for being a young mother and doing what you want to do ... I think there is NOTHING wrong with that, and, in fact, everything RIGHT. I'm really glad you've found a nice guy now who loves and supports you and ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and wanting a 2nd child... I'm having trouble conceiving, help!
Q. i am 18.as of sept.08 i got preg. with my first child when i was 16 with my ex of 3 years.my son just turned 1 feb 10. i have been datin my new man for almost 2 years now and i am wanting another child but i am having problums conciving. my boyfr...
A. 20 February 2009: I don't think you were asking whether you should have a child or not, were you? You both want one, and you're trying to have one. You are 18. You've been physically able to conceive probably for at least 4 years, and more likely 5 or 6 ... and you ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 20 February 2009: I hope you're ok - you've gone all quiet ...... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and wanting a 2nd child... I'm having trouble conceiving, help!
Q. i am 18.as of sept.08 i got preg. with my first child when i was 16 with my ex of 3 years.my son just turned 1 feb 10. i have been datin my new man for almost 2 years now and i am wanting another child but i am having problums conciving. my boyfr...
A. 20 February 2009: Does he want a baby as well?
If you both want one, you need to make sure:
1. You are trying at the right time - you're only fertile for about 5 days max. per month, so if you miss those days, there's no chance.
2. Has your guy had his sperm co... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 19 February 2009: Hi there.
Going and talking to your aunt is absolutely the best idea - go! Do it! I hope you have already.
As for your boyfriend ... sensitive as he may be, he is just scared, and needs to understand that he, and you, now have the power of lif... (read in full...)
Why do some women hate their men watching porn?
Q. why do some women have a problem when they find out their man enjoys a little porn? i don't get it. we all know men need something visual to get them excited, so what is the difference between a woman reading an erotic novel or having a fantasy...
A. 18 February 2009: To my mind the main problem is always jealousy and insecurity.
It is not nice, if you are worried, eg, about your weight, or if your BF tells you you are too fat, and then you see him watching women with perfect tiny bodies having sex. If he sat i... (read in full...)
I'm married but in love with a relative who is my ex, please advise.
Q. I`m happily married, after 9 years i met my childhood boy friend, who`s in love with me without telling it to me coz we`ve blood relation, and i`m in love with him as well..but i`ve keepng it for ages...now his telling me it all...and i can`t fade ...
A. 18 February 2009: But how close a blood relation is he? Cousin? ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 18 February 2009: ps
OK - just seen that Starfish said pretty much all the same as I did in about 5% of the words!! ; )
Wanted to add that Starfish is right - your BF will settle down and live with it, and it is a common reaction in young-ish men to freak out at... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 18 February 2009: Hi there
I knew it too ... I was certain, from what you said.
Ok. Here's the bit where you mustn't panic, or make any snap decisions. You are in the middle of your 7th week of pregnancy according to when your period started, which is why you... (read in full...)
I don't know what he will say about my feelings, what can I do?
Q. i have slept with this guy twice nearly two months ago now i cant stop thinking about him i really like him to the point where i think i love him,i havent told anyone this because i dont know what he will say about it but what can i do??? Please...
A. 18 February 2009: What kind of contact have you had with him after sleeping with him? I think maybe if he felt the same way he would have pursued you and wanted to sleep with you more : (
... (read in full...)
I'm married but in love with a relative who is my ex, please advise.
Q. I`m happily married, after 9 years i met my childhood boy friend, who`s in love with me without telling it to me coz we`ve blood relation, and i`m in love with him as well..but i`ve keepng it for ages...now his telling me it all...and i can`t fade ...
A. 18 February 2009: How close a relation is he?... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 17 February 2009: ps
oh, and my advice for the actual practicalities of doing the test : ) ...
- Make sure you are somewhere kind of pleasant and relaxed, and not where someone is going to walk in on you(!)
- Take a deep breath before you do it, and another one ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 17 February 2009: I'm v glad if anything I've said has helped : )
You sound very calm and sensible and there's no doubt that whatever happens, you will be fine, I think. And also a good idea to focus on the classes and midterm and then do the test.
Let me know wha... (read in full...)
Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?
Q. do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have hea...
A. 16 February 2009: one tiny word of warning, though: when i was younger i too used to kind of just carry on normally, even if i had my period (although now, like everyone else, it has to be under exceptional circs, as not really worth the mess and does make you feel a ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 16 February 2009: ps
And as for your dad - I understand, all too well - mine was a great dad, and loved me very much, but he had his views, too, and he went through the roof when I got accidentally pregnant. I was too scared to go ahead with something he was so angr... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 16 February 2009: OK. I think Starfish is totally right - if you are pregnant, it will all be ok - it always is. But, are you? For me I have to say that the strange tiredness - like, total tiredness where you really have no choice but to lie down - that and the ... (read in full...)
Is this Nyphomania? Do I need help?
Q. I am 22 yr old female and have been having sex since I was 14. I don't have enough fingers or toes to count my sex partners. I think about sex the majority of my day and have had sex with plenty of men that I did not care about or had any feelings ...
A. 15 February 2009: It sounds to me like there are two things happening here - you are a highly-sexed person (which is perfectly normal for some people - i am, too - i also think about sex many times during the day, and think about it at night to help me go to sleep) - ... (read in full...)
Having sex with another girl, don't want my parents to know, don't want to stop either, what do I do?
Q. I need you help. Im 13 and i am having sex with another girl (16). I dont know what i shall do. I cant tell my parents, but otherwise, I cant end it because im so horny and i like the sex with another girl. I am afraid my parents could find out....
A. 15 February 2009: I agree with what others have said - it is simple:
1) Don't tell anyone at all under any circumstances - this is your own private business - but don't feel guilty about it, either - again, it is your business
2) Plan to try (at some point) a bo... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 15 February 2009: i think the breast soreness is a possible strong indicator. i have had lots of months where i wanted to be pregnant and almost imagined i was, but wasn't. but the 3 times i HAVE been pregnant there was no doubt - i felt different, and the sore ... (read in full...)
Should we keep this as just a fantasy?
Q. My husband and I have a fantasy we want to act out. I want him to go out and sleep with another woman and then come home and talk dirty to me about it. Should we do it or keep it fantasy?...
A. 12 February 2009: I would DEFINITELY keep it as FANTASY.
As soon as it comes reality, you will be horribly jealous, you will never know what exactly happened between them (or if it happens again, if they want to keep it from you!) and you will be miserable.
Don... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex..strange symptoms & pregnancy concerns!
Q. hi. im 17 years old and had unprotected sex 5 times in the last week (stupid thing to do i know). im due my period in two days . i am now experiencing -nausia-fatigue-cramps-pimples-light headaches-etc.....someone told me that it could be my hormo...
A. 11 February 2009: It's v likely you're pregnant, I'd say, especially at your age ... and with all that unprotected sex, well, you've given it a good chance!!
Please go and do a test. And yes, you're right: when you're pregnant you do feel different, and it is poss... (read in full...)
We're trying for a baby but the problems we have are a stress to our marriage, please advise.
Q. I've been married for last 10 yrs and have a 4 yr old son. 1st problem: We were planning on having a 2nd baby through artificial insemination(we had to do that for 1st child also). The doctor told us that I can get pregnant but would be better i...
A. 10 February 2009: I hate it when men are mean about how 'fat' we are. I don't know how tall you are, but 160 lbs is 11 stone 6, which, while if you are an average sort of height, means you are a bit fatter than you should be, it doesn't mean you're horribly fat. (I ... (read in full...)
Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish?...
Q. Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish? If my wife and I have sex and she doesn't achieve an orgasm, she wants more. But if she achieves an orgasm, we can go days without her desiring more. And God forbid, she has ...
A. 10 February 2009: I don't think it's a condition. I think everyone has their individual sexual identity/responses/etc., and that's just the way it is. Personally I wouldn't probably want 4 orgasms in one night - one (max.2) good one(s) would do me! But my reaction to ... (read in full...)
Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?
Q. do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have hea...
A. 10 February 2009: Me too. I know it is about to start because 24 hours before I too am suddenly v much up for it ; ) ... and during ...... (read in full...)
Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?
Q. Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for ...
A. 9 February 2009: the most important thing to me would be that the guy was happy to have the excuse to show/tell me how much he loves me.
what i personally specifically would like would be:
- him all day holding my hand/kissing me/being particularly rom... (read in full...)
Will my BF mind if his GF isn't great in bed or incredibly forward?
Q. I know there's no straight forward answer to this, because everyone is after all different but I was hoping I could get some advice on here. My question is more or less 'do guys like virgins?' but specifically 'will the boyfriend mind if his ...
A. 9 February 2009: I don't think he will mind at all - and remember, what you have to deal with is not what guys in general do, but what your own personal individual guy does. That is a crucial point, because from everything you say, it sounds like your guy really is ... (read in full...)
Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?
Q. So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and ...
A. 9 February 2009: i think his hormones are probably going crazy ... so yes, i think it sounds like he is generally very horny ... but i also think it sounds like he does like you.
the only problem is that if you were with him, i don't know if he would be able to ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to consider sex with a single mother?
Q. I’m single. I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is a single parent of three. We had a lot of good times together. A few months ago she moved out of the area. We kept in touch. She said that if I was interested in getting away that I s...
A. 4 February 2009: Wow. Your approach sounds quite calculated!! And you don't say anything about liking this mother, or wanting a relationship with her - so it is just how to have sex with her without upsetting her or the children?!
I can't judge that - and certainl... (read in full...)
I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed.
Q. I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed. It points upward and I can't try any positions because it hurts my girl. I have to beg her for it because every time we do it it hurts her, and although she says its her I know ...
A. 13 January 2009: Have to agree with pvtguy below - surely it is supposed to point upwards?? You are 18 - 21 - you should enjoy the fact that it does that, because it won't forever!!!!!!!
OK. Joking aside, I think you need to
(a) love yourself - it's yr body... (read in full...)
14, pregnant and terrified!!!
Q. Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...
A. 15 December 2008: I am too just so so happy you told your mum - i thought she would understand, because she had you when she was young, and i bet she has never ever regretted that!! : )
It will all be lovely, I am sure ... am just so happy your mum and boyfrien... (read in full...)
14, pregnant and terrified!!!
Q. Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...
A. 7 December 2008: ps
How to tell your mum:
Mum, I need to talk to you. Something has happened and I need your help. Please don't be cross with me. .. ... (read in full...)
14, pregnant and terrified!!!
Q. Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...
A. 7 December 2008: You're 15. I'm nearly 40. Let me tell you what I've learnt since I was 15 ... (because you just do learn stuff as you go along, and that is what advice is - giving someone else the benefit of what you've learnt the hard way : ).
OK. First thing, y... (read in full...)
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