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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 months and my boyfriend got everything for himself. He's not a virgin so he was telling some ways he had sex.(He only had sex 4 times)He said that the 3 ones that might be less painful were: Missionary, me on top, or doggie style. (hit'n the front from the back)I'm really just concered about how it's gonna feel and it I make any odd faces. lolHe said that going doggie you don't really see the person's face so no worrys.He just doesn't know which one is less painful for a girl. Yeah I know that sounds dumb but that's just how I am. Can someone tell me what's the least painful way to have sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Help and be helped. +, writes (30 March 2008):
I am 18 and I have only been with 1 girl but we were very sexually active for over two years. About the faces if anything he will love them all guys do. Don't be ashamed it is really sexie just let lose. About the pain I would probably get some lubracation so the friction won't bother you as much. And I think you on top would be best cause guys love it even if your not expirienced I think it is because some1 else has power over us. And you will be able to control the speed and intensity. If he insists on being on the top then he might not care if it hurts so don't do it at all. If he says what ever you want he probablywill go slow so I don't know it is up to you. I would stick to those to for the first times..But don't be on top all the time switch it up the same thing will get boring. Don't do it if your not ready cause it can mess up a relashonship and your life. If he loves you he will wait. Always stay in power of your life don't let a guy pressure you into anything. My sister is fifteen and pregnant cause I guy talked her into it. So stay on birth controll.
Sincerly,
Steven
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): You are clearly not ready for sex dear or you wouldn't be asking this question. me thinks you b/f is maybe putting a wee bit of pressure on you. If you have tlked about it his responce should have been I love you, I will take it slow, I will not hurt you and you should trust him enough to believe him.My own experiance I didn't feel pain it was more the closeness and the love I felt for my b/f at the time who was very special,I trusted him completly and thats what makes it unque. I would advise he take the lead as you say he's done it before and if you do experiance any pain take a rest or stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Chances are it will hurt the first time, best get used to that idea.
It gets better after that though.
Flynn 24
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reader, natasia  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Sorry - have to say I didn't notice your age - yes, I would have said no if you were 13-15! But OK if you're 17. I guess. Never any harm in waiting, though :)
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Sorry it says you are 13/15 years old.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (29 March 2008):
You are too young for sex, wait until you are of legal age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBTW I'm 17.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Not to have it all, you are too young to be having sex. You being so young puts you at a greater risk of contracting HPV a virus that leads to cervical cancer. You don't have to have sex more than once, or with mutiple partners in order to get the virus. Condoms do not protect against HPV. There is a vaccine for HPV but studies are out as to how effective it is against it.
I think you are too young emotionally to handle sex and too young to support a baby if the pill fails and you become pregnant. I guess your mom getting you on the pill was her way of keeping that unwanted pregnancy from happening, but I am wondering if she talked to you about the other complications of having sex at such a young age.
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reader, natasia +, writes (29 March 2008):
I think you on top is the best way to start. You can completely control all the movements, and make it as gentle as you like. And he can just lie back and enjoy it : )
As for worrying about what your face will look like ... don't, ever ... you'll be far too into what you're doing to be thinking about that, and he will think you're adorable anyhow, whatever you look like.
Good luck!
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