Does my girlfriend have a clit?
Q. hi, my girlfriend seems to be lacking a clit. {white american female}. i looked but cannot find one, even a small one. she lacks a hood that protects the clit. she is very highly stimulated by oral, and will orgasmn many times. she also orgasms 5 to ...
A. 24 April 2008: It sounds like there's nothing wrong with her at all if she has that many orgasms!! Not having a clitoris would make it more difficult. I'm sure it's impossible 'not' to have one, though - and it isn't something that is really noticeable - it's more ... (read in full...)
We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...
A. 23 April 2008: Fun? No. Not for you, as you say. Does he reassure you that he loves you, etc.? I hope so.
Basically, I think he's one of those men who needs to flirt with too many women, and he likes his exes when they're ex ... suddenly they become interest... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 23 April 2008: Yes, totally know what you mean about those negative comments, too - my ex has done that for YEARS, although he's getting a bit better now (10 years - he should be!). It's like they only see what you do wrong, and they blame EVERYTHING on you.
... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: ps One big piece of advice, though: never ever let your daughter know that you think he cares more about his other children. That really would be a terrible emotional burden for her to bear. Personally I've hidden my ex-husband's failings from my ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: Sure ... sorry if I seemed a bit one-dimensional, but it's hard when you don't know all the facts. I TOTALLY agree that he has to behave properly in the way he is involved in your daughter's life. The partying, drinking, etc. is completely wrong and ... (read in full...)
We have dissention amongst our friends due to a newcomer's strange comment - should we ignore the incident or ban the newcomer?
Q. I have a question for all you guys/girls out there. I have a close male friend who owns a vacation property (cabin) on a lake with his wife. A few times a year he has an all guy weekend, There's a lake, a boat, a shooting range, etc. Lots of ...
A. 21 April 2008: I think the guy is gay or bi or strange, yes. A straight guy just wouldn't suggest strip poker in a group of guys, unless he's a real idiot and/or was stupidly nervous about fitting in with the group - but even so, that's highly unlikely. Nope, I ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 21 April 2008: Glad you got your period. Please be careful in future, for your sake!... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand but claims it meant nothing. What shall I do?
Q. I am very unhappy. I have been going out with my GF for 2 and a half years. A while ago she got a new job - she did not think she had a chance of getting it - was not going to apply - but I encouraged her and helped her and she got the job. She's ...
A. 21 April 2008: Blimey. Well, I don't agree with the guys here. I think you shouldn't act rashly. I think you should:
1) ask her why she did it
2) ask her if she still wants to be with you
3) forgive her and see how it goes
I think it was a crazy act - and wa... (read in full...)
They both raped me and he still won't leave me alone.
Q. I had been dating this guy for a year, until about 3 months ago i broke up with him. He instantly started calling and harrassing me, asking me why I broke up with him and telling that he loved me and that he wanted me back. I told him it was over ...
A. 21 April 2008: Absolutely just tell your parents and call the police. This guy is extremely bad news, and needs to be locked up.
Then also you will get the love and support you need - how terrible you've suffered this all alone. Tell your parents now, swee... (read in full...)
Fake tan gone wrong - how do I get it off?
Q. heya i put this fake tan on yeah. its not a wash off tho, its one that wers off...it looked great last night bt thismorning it has gone to dead blothchy on knees, ankles, wrists and stuff.. how do i get it off before waiting for it to wear off..bec...
A. 21 April 2008: Get some good (really good - expensive) body exfoliator and get scrubbing ... seriously, you need to scrub that stuff off!!!! Don't go too crazy - you don't want to damage your skin - but i would get scrubbing ... it works, too. : )... (read in full...)
5.75 inches. Average?
Q. I have a 5.75 inch penis, about 1.5 inches wide, is this considered small? I've never had any complaints in the past, I was just wondering if women consider this to be small or average?...
A. 21 April 2008: Sounds completely average and perfectly fine to me. And if you've had no complaints, I'm sure it's fine. Dicks can be too big, you know. Best to be average, really.... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: He doesn't want to leave her and have nothing to do with her, does he? He wants his rights back. That means HE WANTS TO BE HER FATHER.
OK. You've got two things going on here:
1) your relationship with him - your love for him - your anger at him... (read in full...)
Health problems and I don't want to see my doctor. Please advise.
Q. hello to all, ok. im 36 at 16 had a mis-carriage(didnt know i was pregnant).hospital did urine said i was still pregnent. well i seen my fetus in the toilet so being 16 i thought it was twins and i only lost 1. well almost a year later no baby i a...
A. 21 April 2008: I understand you're feeling scared. The thing is, going to the doctor will probably help sort all this out and stop you feeling scared. Many of the things you mention could be completely unrelated. For example, I recognise several of them, and have ... (read in full...)
We only dry hump so his penis has never even been near my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Now, I SWEAR to you, I’ve never had a penis in my vagina. My boyfriend and I have done just about everything else though. We commonly dry-hump in nothing but our underwear… and I give him hand jobs, but he’s never cum anywhere near my vagina. ...
A. 20 April 2008: Well, underwear is completely safe against sperm. It's just if some of it happened to get round the edge ... : )... (read in full...)
I touch myself in public which is embarrassing. Why am I horny?
Q. why are we horny all the time! i dont get it. i look at porn enjoy it and still in public i have to mess with myself. its embarrasing. HELP!...
A. 20 April 2008: ps and you're horny because you're a young male not getting enough sex. simple.... (read in full...)
I touch myself in public which is embarrassing. Why am I horny?
Q. why are we horny all the time! i dont get it. i look at porn enjoy it and still in public i have to mess with myself. its embarrasing. HELP!...
A. 20 April 2008: Agree with anonymous male - you need a sexual focus. Have you got a girlfriend? If not, you need one, and quick.
In the meantime, DON'T do anything in public - just don't. Imagine a crocodile is about to bite your dick off, or something - anything... (read in full...)
We only dry hump so his penis has never even been near my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Now, I SWEAR to you, I’ve never had a penis in my vagina. My boyfriend and I have done just about everything else though. We commonly dry-hump in nothing but our underwear… and I give him hand jobs, but he’s never cum anywhere near my vagina. ...
A. 20 April 2008: You need to do two things:
1) take a pregnancy test (buy one over the counter)
2) see a doctor about your missed period if you aren't pregnant
It is extremely unlikely from what you've said that you could be pregnant, but stranger things ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 20 April 2008: There's NO WAY ON EARTH that the feelings you're having in your tummy mean you're pregnant. You only feel movement in your tummy from about 18 weeks of pregnancy onwards, and you would/could only be about 3 weeks pregnant. The baby would be a tiny ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 20 April 2008: Yes, I have thought that way - and am now divorced. Sometimes in life there's no right answer, unfortunately - all the options are flawed. We're programmed to think that if we just do the right thing, find the right key, then everything will be ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 20 April 2008: Yes, I have thought that way - and am now divorced. Sometimes in life there's no right answer, unfortunately - all the options are flawed. We're programmed to think that if we just do the right thing, find the right key, then everything will be ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have relationship with my aunts ex husband?
Q. is it wrong to start an extra marital relationship with my aunts ex husband? is he still legally classed as my uncle?...
A. 18 April 2008: Who's extra-marital - you? (as he's her ex, he's not married now?)
Extra-marital is ALWAYS A TERRIBLE IDEA. If you want someone, you should wait till your free. Probably.
As for him, it depends how they split, and how your aunt feels about him.... (read in full...)
I'm 7 months pregnant and I feel unloved, used and worthless!
Q. Im now 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend has become more distant as the pregnancy has progressed. I have tried absoloutely everything to 'fix things' from being as attentive as possible to accepting all the crap he puts me through (arranging to meet ...
A. 17 April 2008: I hope it's all OK, hope it has worked out for you and the baby. He was being an idiot - he's not the only one. You won't feel so alone now you have the baby, whatever has happened, I think. It's so scary facing birth without the security of the ... (read in full...)
I really need to know how early into a pregnancy you can miscarry
Q. hey guys, well this might sound a bit stupid but i have a question. im on the pill, had my period about 2 weeks ago. i had sex most recently on sunday night, its now thurs. i have been having abdominal pain and cramps and today experienced some ...
A. 17 April 2008: Seems weird to me. Sorry, i don't know, but i think you should be checked out by a doc, because you shouldn't have breakthrough bleeding when on the pill. Worth checking it.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list
Q. I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Great idea - it's the one thing that I've found missing on the site, because I always want to find questions I've replied to, and see what others have said, but could only do so by scrolling through again (unless there was feedback from the actual ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering because of my husband's lack of affection towards me!
Q. My husband is not affectioniate towards me now that i am pregnant, i feel so alone and not loved, What should i do? please help...
A. 17 April 2008: I had the same thing with my partner. You poor thing. I know how it feels - awful. But remember: your beautiful baby is growing inside you all the time, and he or she will be with you always, and will always love you. When you feel very rejected by ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral?
Q. How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral? I've been giving my long term boyfriend oral for months now, but I still don't seem to be able to keep going without my mouth really aching. It gets so uncomfortable that I have to stop after ju...
A. 14 April 2008: The angle makes a big difference - lying on your side facing him, with him also lying on his side, is often the easiest angle and hurts least. But in the end it also comes down to how big he is, and the size of your mouth. It may be that having him ... (read in full...)
Out of the blue he says that he needs to experience life without me! This is like a bad dream.
Q. I was just told two days ago by my, now ex-boyfriend, that he doesn't like me like he should. He says that he needs to experience life without me! All of a sudden, me and my son (from a previous relationship) have to move. My "ex" and I were toge...
A. 14 April 2008: This must have come as a terrible shock - I am so sorry. He sounds very determined, though. I know this is painful, but it sounds to me so like he's met someone else - that might not be true, but people in a happy stable relationship VERY rarely let ... (read in full...)
Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...
Q. Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...
A. 14 April 2008: ps Sorry - just read your post properly!!! So you WOULD be happy to be pregnant - well, sounds to me like you probably are, so GO AND GET THAT TEST!!! (I was the same - I didn't want to test, because I didn't want to see a negative, but my bf ... (read in full...)
Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...
Q. Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...
A. 14 April 2008: Sounds very likely to me that you are pregnant - particularly the exhaustion and feeling off your food are early symptoms (well, I certainly always had those symptoms first, plus a feeling that 'something was going on' with my boobs : ).
Go an... (read in full...)
My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.
Q. my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: Pity you reacted guilty - you could have just said it was a joke, and left it at that (and dealt with yourself yourself - because yes, it is pretty sick, and you shouldn't be exposing yourself to that kind of thing - just don't do it - simple). Can ... (read in full...)
My wife likes endless fondling and foreplay with no sex. Any advice?
Q. My wife likes to fondle. She loves to play with my penis (teasingly, really) every chance she gets. On my days off, she would want me to sit with her for hours sometimes just to talk and fondle. I accommodate her a lot. Playing with my penis, she ...
A. 14 April 2008: It sounds to me like she hasn't had sex before. And although she is intrigued by your penis, she is also scared of it. I think you need to talk to her and establish exactly what's going on before you can move things on (which you need to do - it ... (read in full...)
14 and a virgin, I feel lonely and inadequate because all my friends have already had sex!
Q. I'm 14 and from Hampshire, England. all my friends have had sex. i feel lonley because i'm still a virgin. they arn't saying i MUST pop the cherry but i don't fit in anymore eg. i'm not invited to party. i've always been a bit awkward around p...
A. 12 April 2008: I know just how you feel, because when i was 14 all my friends had had sex, too - and I hadn't even used a tampax!! I was 16 and a half when i first had sex, and actually I was really pleased it was then, because I was old enough to know what I was ... (read in full...)
Am I somehow in the wrong? Girlfriend gets emotional when I try to talk about sex!
Q. hi i am having a problem with my girlfriend. recently i told her that i wanted to talk to her about our sex life. i feel that we do not have as much sex as i would like which averages about once a month. i talked to her nicely about it and she...
A. 12 April 2008: No, I don't think you're in the wrong - in fact, I think you're very right that this is a joint problem. The thing is, it's obviously so difficult and upsetting a topic for your girlfriend that she feels she wants to keep it to herself. That she ... (read in full...)
Should I have the baby when I'm not sure who of the three is the father??
Q. Im 2 months pregnant and i dont know who the father is there is 3 possible dads and i dont know wat to do. please help me !!!!!! its ethier my exs a one night stand or my mate that i had sex with once or twice PLEASE help i know if been stupid but ...
A. 11 April 2008: Of course have the baby. Then, when he or she is here (and you will be over the moon with him/her!), if you still don't know who the dad is, get a DNA test done. But you might be able to tell as soon as you have the baby who the dad is, because ... (read in full...)
Smelly vaginal discharge, sore boobs, what does this mean?
Q. i have a realley smelly vaginal discharge,my boobs are also sore when i lean or touch them,im very worried about the discharge,ive been with my partner for 5 years and have never cheated on him,he would never cheat on me either.. what is this ...
A. 11 April 2008: or you could be pregnant and also have thrush or a vaginal infection. Sure you aren't pregnant? Sore boobs ... ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 10 April 2008: You're more than welcome. Just get those exams done now - do WELL! - and then who knows, maybe you'll still be a young mother : ) I am going to tell my daughter that it's ok to have a kid when she's 21 or so if she wants - that all the stuff about ... (read in full...)
Should my friend stick with her "dirty" boyfriend or go for someone less smelly?
Q. ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!! she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these ot...
A. 9 April 2008: why doesnt she just tell him to get washed?!... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 9 April 2008: I can't bear to read this. Really, I just can't bear it. I tried so hard to tell you, and it was exactly the same as happened to me. I tried to get it across, and I felt and feel such a failure that I didn't manage to communicate it to you. I'm ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 7 April 2008: Why the countdown? Incidentally, I've just given birth to a beautiful daughter. She is amazing. Now 5 days old, and already looking into our eyes and wondering at the new world she finds herself in.... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 7 April 2008: What's the matter with you guys? A young girl came on here and asked, in confidence, what the possibility was of her being pregnant. She DIDN'T ask if we thought it was ok to be pregnant at her age, and she HASN'T said it's a problem that she is ... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 31 March 2008: Sorry - have just come into this discussion and am confused! Was your question could you be pregnant? Yes, you could, but it's unlikely. You're usually fertile about 14 days before your period starts, but I think you said you had unprotected sex ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 29 March 2008: I don't know why, but it sounds like the end of the road for you with her. She isn't bothered when she sees you; she doesn't want to touch you; there's no mutual attraction or support or anything. And over the years it sounds like you have given her ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 29 March 2008: These are definitely in no way any signs of pregnancy, so don't worry. As Mandy says, sounds like wind.
You are 99.99999999999% not pregnant, as you had sex at the wrong time, only a tiny bit, and your boyfriend didn't ejaculate inside you. HOW... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 28 March 2008: Peaches said only you know if you will be able to cope with having a baby - I think that's the whole problem. You don't, because you've never had that experience. You just don't know what it's like, and you have a choice of a foggy, scary future ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: I too want to wish you all the very best and hope you will come to terms with what, whichever way you had chosen, is a huge and stressful decision to be making on your own. I really hope you have someone good to talk to, who can support you and be ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 25 March 2008: Suggest you read some of the other posts on this site, from girls who've just recently had abortions and are now completely in despair at what they've done. They too thought they were making the right decision.
Try the one 'How do you deal wit... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 24 March 2008: If you can have the abortion pill up to 12 weeks, are we saying that the poster here is beyond 12 weeks? If so, you will have to deliver your baby through induced labour. Can you imagine how bad that is? I think in an earlier post I said 'after 12 ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 24 March 2008: I meant to warn you that doctors often advise abortion - it's almost like they feel they can't advise otherwise, because there's such a taboo about being anti-abortion. Interestingly, I am pregnant now, and it was unplanned and is about as difficult ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 23 March 2008: I'm surprised that you're surprised people feel so strongly about this! They feel so because it's a matter of life and death, and what you do now will affect the rest of your life.
I thought i felt the same as you, and particularly the same re:... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: guys, I don't know if any of you in this heated argument have read my little contributions to it.
I am not especially religious, I am not anything much at all unusual - just a straightforward, thinking, feeling kind of person. I had an abortion... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 21 March 2008: p.s.
and as to your original post about how is an abortion done - it is really, really grim. Really. You imagine it won't be, but it is. And then they take of the remains of your child and either incinerate it or use for medical research, and that... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 21 March 2008: I think what I was trying to say is that what's best for you may well be what's best for the baby as well.
If you have the abortion, you have no guarantee of how you will feel - you may skip off feeling fine, or you may be absolutely devastat... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 20 March 2008: 'Piss off all you pro-life nutters'???? Aren't we all pro-life? If you saw someone dying in the street would you consider it odd to help them?? I am anti-abortion not because of any religious beliefs, but because I trusted the establishment and my ... (read in full...)
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