I'm terrified to be alone in the dark!
Q. this isnt really a relationship question or what ever but im scared of the dark and want help with it please im litrally terrofide to be alone in the dark or even at night for a 15 year old thats not right. what can i do !!...
A. 29 August 2012: I'm the exact same and I'm much older than you! I never got over it I just learned to sleep with the light on lol... (read in full...)
Au naturale...
Q. I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....
A. 9 February 2012: I shave arms legs and wax the rest. Its cleaner and better to look at. Nothing worse than sweaty curly hair. Although people are led to believe hair is good for you down there but the only time I have ever read is that its actually completely ... (read in full...)
Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???
Q. I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...
A. 11 September 2011:
Bleeding after sex is a sign of chlamydia so is urinating a lot ...... (read in full...)
Boyfriend abruptly deleted his Facebook account and I'm suspicious.
Q. My LDR boyfriend abruptly deleted his facebook account yesterday and I think it's very weird. But maybe I'm just over-reacting ? He didn't even mention it during our conversation. Only later when I text him to ask did he text back that it was...
A. 25 July 2011: Listen to your gut. It all sounds a bit fishy to me xx... (read in full...)
If a man loves you, would he call you a bitch?
Q. Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly ...
A. 31 May 2011: I think people say a lot of hurtful things when they are angry.
I love my partner very much and yes I have called him names and he has called me names. I think you seem very sheltered but it is very common most people call the other names du... (read in full...)
Does body odor matter when you feel chemistry for someone?...
Q. This might sound weird but... do you guys think the smell is part of feeling chemistry with someone? LOL ok, well a guy doesn't have to necessarily smell "bad", but isn't true that when you feel chemistry with someone, their body smell drives you ...
A. 20 May 2011: I have had 3 partners and I could put them in order of who's odour I like the most. And I don't know if this is a coincidence or not but it also works out that is the order of who I found to be the most attractive.
This sounds bad but my man has ... (read in full...)
Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance
Q. i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?...
A. 3 May 2011: I am sure he was only asking incase your infection was contageous so you didn't pass it on to your partner.
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Am I being too jealous?
Q. Why do i get jealous so easily?. I must admit, i am an insecure person. Recently, this woman came up to my boyfriend, and, without saying anything to him, she gave him a hug and he hugged her back, but then she went away from him. I don't know how ...
A. 3 May 2011: I understand why you would be annoyed about this as I would be too. But the way I see it is if there was anything going on or if he fancied her he wouldn't have behaved that way in front of you (unless he is an insensitive sleaze and only you know ... (read in full...)
I suspect my BF is cheating and need some advice as to handling the situation.
Q. This is kind of a long one but i need to tell the whole story in order to get advice. A bit of history first. My boyfriend and i and been going out for 3 years. We are looking for a house to rent in June and this will be our first real home togeth...
A. 3 May 2011: I agree with aunt honesty about the part that he invite you to meet her. I would dismiss the fact that anything is happening between them just yet as if it was friendly chat then he would have no reason to delete all of his texts. I am sure you ... (read in full...)
We've never met but he said he loves me. Is this strange?
Q. On the 7th November 2010, i started to talk to this guy online, he is 19 from California and im 16 from London, it wasnt on a dating site. So, we started talking on msn, it became every day that we would talk for at least 3 hours i asked if he had ...
A. 1 May 2011: I'm sorry but I think its strange and the fact that you came on here asking questions about it shows it is raising red flags in your head too. I don't believe you can truly love someone who you have never met
Maybe you are in love of the idea of ... (read in full...)
Should I let this guy know that his fiance sleeps around?
Q. There is a girl who works in my office who is getting married in less than 6 weeks time. However, she continues to sleep with other men. Friends of friends and men she works with. She does this when her fiance is working(a policeman so does his ...
A. 1 May 2011: I think you should let him know anonymously hopefully with names or as much proof as you could possible provide.
People always say "don't shoot the messenger" but most people do. Its very difficult to find out such life changing informat... (read in full...)
Why do women need to constantly be in contact?
Q. My girlfriend wants some sort of daily contact, but me I'm fine if a go a week w/o so much as a text. Why do women seem to need to remain in constant contact?...
A. 1 May 2011: I don't think that its more women in general but each specific person. I am like you I would be quite happy with little contact from most people close to me even seeing or speaking on the phone once a week is fine.
It just depends how much att... (read in full...)
He had thoughts of his ex, and a missed call from her, should I worry??
Q. my boyfriend just told me that he thought of an ex girlfrend whom he dint talk to for many years this morning,then when he got home today he received a missed call,he called back the person and it was her...he says it was spooky...y is this ...
A. 1 May 2011: It depends on how he has reacted to this to whether you should be worried. At least he is being honest with you and told you he had thought of her and that she called. If he didn't know who the number was when he called it back then he can't really ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a friend who hates lesbians
Q. hey I'm 15 years old and i think i am a lesbian but i am not realy sure i hevent had a boyfriand or ever liked a boy so i am a bit confused i am from bulgaria so if you find any mistakes sorry so if any of you can help me i would be really thankful ...
A. 1 May 2011: Maybe she doesn't hate lesbians but just doesn't understand them. I know she is your best friend and you don't want to stop hanging around with her but maybe spend more time with other friends or join a club and meet new people. I am sure that... (read in full...)
Why does she not trust me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now and I really trust her in every way. However she has major trust issues, they are not over anything major but just little things. It gets to the point where she won't leave her phone ...
A. 30 April 2011: I'm sorry to be the negative one about this I really am but she sounds pretty untrustworthy. She won't leave her phone, isn't fully honest about what she's doing and she doesn't trust you.
This would ring alarm bells for me if this was my relat... (read in full...)
My 55 year old mother is dating my ex boyfriend for sex!
Q. I am really peed of with my mother. i am not proud of her tbh. she goes out on weekends wearing short skirts or leggings and wears a top that shows off her sagging boobs (she is 55 years old and divorced). she loves the attention of men but what she ...
A. 27 April 2011: Oh god I feel so sorry for you :( some women do not have any class or dignity and its such a shame that you are related. She should have been more sensitive about your feelings and seeing your ex is just a horrible thing for a mother to do. ... (read in full...)
What does this mean? Has he blocked me on MSN?
Q. Hi This is a question about msn really. When i first met my bf we talked lots on msn every night we werent seeing each other and it progressed to skype about 5 months ago. Now and again i pop onto msn to see if he's added anyone and check him ou...
A. 27 April 2011: Hi there! Sorry it does sound like he has blocked you but I'm afraid there is no definite way to find out unless you ask him.
But to be honest if he has blocked you and is avoiding you he will probably deny it.
Sorry ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 26 April 2011: If he won't even introduce you to his ex then maybe there is something else going on. I think your friend might have a point. If his children are grown and mature enough to understand that he is seeing someone then there is definetly more to his ... (read in full...)
Dating my best friends ex, and she doesn't know about it!
Q. One of my best friends has an ex boyfriend that she dated for about 2 years. Everyone kept telling me that me and her ex would make a good couple and i considered it becaise i like him. I brought it up to her and she said that she dont think she ...
A. 26 April 2011: I think you should let your friend know. She already told you she would not be comfortable with you making a move on her ex but you did anyway so by keeping her in the dark she will feel even more betrayed. Also the fact that you are keeping this... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 26 April 2011: I believe that a parent should ALWAYS put their children first (unless they are fully grown and have children of their own). I have great respect for this man continuing to see his children and wanting to make them happy. You should accept th... (read in full...)
Would you want a future with a girl who keeps in contact with everyone she's had sex with?
Q. Girlfriend of 11months.. stilll close friends with her past flings and guy friend who she had a drunk one night stand with.. Disgusts me.. To know that she is still friends with people who have seen her nude.. who she has blown or been humped b...
A. 25 April 2011: Sorry I misunderstood the situation. No I do not keep daily contact with my ex's but I am friends with them still. I would never meet up with them for coffee as an example. If I happen to bump into them I will have a conversation with them or ... (read in full...)
Would you want a future with a girl who keeps in contact with everyone she's had sex with?
Q. Girlfriend of 11months.. stilll close friends with her past flings and guy friend who she had a drunk one night stand with.. Disgusts me.. To know that she is still friends with people who have seen her nude.. who she has blown or been humped b...
A. 25 April 2011: I don't think you should be with this girl she has different values from you. I am in contact with my ex's because they meant a lot to me at different times in my life and I would never cut them out for anyone. If your girlfriend disgusts you why ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but she's too fat. How do I break up?
Q. me and my gf got together about 3 years ago. we both weighed 17 stone. we had a good relationship but in the last 12 months we said we would go on a diet. Now i weight 13 stone. she however weighs 18 and 1/2 stone. i am attracting the attention of ...
A. 15 April 2011: I think you should just say that you don't feel the same way about her anymore. This way you are at least being mostly honest.
Most people will tell you that you are shallow but I agree with you and think it is difficult to respect and love som... (read in full...)
Am I the only person who believes you should give advice if you have experienced a situation?
Q. I have been a member of this site for a long time and have been reading a lot of the advice that is given. A lot of it varies and not everyone has them same answer which is to be expected. A few aunts or uncles I have been following give q...
A. 9 April 2011: I am actually 29 not 18-21 as it suggests ... (read in full...)
How can he be kissing other girls and texting and then say I'm the one for him?
Q. So last weekend my boyfriend and I were at his friends house for the week end living it up... The first night I only had a little to drink, and decided to go to bed, my boyfriend told me to take his phone with me and plug it in, and that he'd be ...
A. 9 April 2011: I am sorry but this guy does not love or respect you. If he did he would not treat you this way. The point of being boyfriend and girlfriend is that you are exclusive and you do not need nor want to be with any other.
You do not deserve to be tr... (read in full...)
Should I confront my girlfriend on this?
Q. My friend has being a mean girl lately and i am not liking it. She tells everybody i am a _______ and i am not. She has been starting rumors about me and my other friends to and i want to what's going on because the other day i found a note with her ...
A. 9 April 2011: The people who start rumours are usually just people seeking attention. I would not consider this girl as your friend. Do not confide in her or tell her any of your secrets as she has made it clear as she cannot be trusted. Try and distance you... (read in full...)
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