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14, pregnant and terrified!!!

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

A.   9 April 2009: CONGRATULATIONS! So glad to hear you have a beautiful baby girl! : ) Don't worry - I'm sure she will be fine in a few months time, and at the moment she is getting the best care possible. As for your life - I am impressed : ) It is great that y... (read in full...)

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

A.   15 December 2008: I am too just so so happy you told your mum - i thought she would understand, because she had you when she was young, and i bet she has never ever regretted that!! : ) It will all be lovely, I am sure ... am just so happy your mum and boyfrien... (read in full...)

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

A.   7 December 2008: ps How to tell your mum: Mum, I need to talk to you. Something has happened and I need your help. Please don't be cross with me. .. ... (read in full...)

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

A.   7 December 2008: You're 15. I'm nearly 40. Let me tell you what I've learnt since I was 15 ... (because you just do learn stuff as you go along, and that is what advice is - giving someone else the benefit of what you've learnt the hard way : ). OK. First thing, y... (read in full...)

Is it okay to masturbate while on your period?

Q.   Hey this is more a question for the girls but any help is great! Ive recently started exploring my body and have stated masturbating I was wondering when you're on your period is it still okay to do? Thanks x...

A.   5 December 2008: It's fine. It just might mean (sometimes) that the flow gets a bit heavier after you orgasm, but then it calms down again. And that might not be the case for you, anyhow.... (read in full...)

Any techniques that will help me last longer?

Q.   Hey there, I just wanted to ask you guys if you knew any tips or techniques on how to make sex and masturbation last longer. It doesn't take me very long to cum, and I was wondering what I could do to lengthen the pleasure. ...

A.   5 December 2008: I think at your age you just need to repeat it all again half an hour later. : )... (read in full...)

Is it normal to enjoy giving BJ?

Q.   is it weird to enjoy giving head? my boyfriend says its strange for a girl to enjoy giving a blowjob, but i really do, although i hate the taste when he cums, i love actually doin it.. is it normal? ...

A.   16 November 2008: what kind of boyfriend have you got there?!! of COURSE it is 110% normal and as it should be that you should enjoy giving someone a BJ. i am pretty much at a loss as to what to say re: your boyfriend, apart from that he has some weird hangups,... (read in full...)

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

A.   12 November 2008: Really glad it turned out like that, and that talking sorted it out. TO ALL OF US WOMEN: LET THIS BE A LESSON! It looked pretty much to all of us that he was UP to something, but in fact he was just being useless, and it meant nothing. We sh... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?

Q.   I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...

A.   12 November 2008: Really sorry ... that was an unfortunate experience. But I can't see how it means you are useless at reading people ... it simply means she was a bit mixed up. She wanted you - that's why her 'relationship' ended so quickly. But then she witheld ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to tell my friends about my "older" boyfriend.

Q.   I'm 17 and I'm dating a man 20 years older than me. Although when I first met this man he thought I was 18. I don't think that it's immoral as I am mature for my age and it is never an issue between us, I enjoy our mature conversations and he makes ...

A.   11 November 2008: I don't know whether I think it's wrong or not. The thing is, if you were 35 and he was 55, nobody would have a problem with it - there are lots of relationships like this (well, quite a few - many more like this than where the guy is 35 and the ... (read in full...)

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

A.   29 October 2008: You don't split up with someone because you're needed to look after your mother. You do it because you don't want to be with them. I don't want to be alarmist, but are you SURE she knows he's split up with her?? Are you sure he hasn't been con... (read in full...)

I feel turned on by my uncle!

Q.   Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...

A.   21 October 2008: To add to what someone said: no man or boy should be being sexual with you IF HE IS YOUR CLOSE BLOOD RELATION!!!!! So yes, it is sick, and you need to make it very clear you aren't interested, because he is behaving in an unacceptable way. You're ... (read in full...)

Could I be prosecuted for this?

Q.   I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...

A.   21 October 2008: Who was underage? You?... (read in full...)

I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!

Q.   I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I...

A.   16 October 2008: ps and yes, you should make sure this never happens again!! Because inviting someone to have sex with your boyfriend is always going to cause problems later, if it's someone you know and see all the time. You can't undo what's done, but you can try ... (read in full...)

I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!

Q.   I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I...

A.   16 October 2008: I think that by inviting her to have sex with him (which you did), you kind of opening the door a bit. You two were very drunk, and did something you probably wouldn't normally have done. She was still very drunk on the way home, and horny. She ... (read in full...)

What's your definition of love?

Q.   Can someone please define love for me? Because I have this strong feeling for someone and I don't know if it's love or just infatuated love *-) xxx...

A.   7 October 2008: Love is a lot of different things. And it often starts with infatuation, so I wouldn't worry!... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant?

Q.   I'm only 15 years old and I know the consequences but I was curious. Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant because I am having many symptoms of pregnancy but I have had a period after the possiby date of ...

A.   3 October 2008: It could possibly be, but at the same time your periods can be quite variable at your age. The only way to know is, of course, to take a test. Just do it. Get the best test you can (a sensitive one), and just do it. Then you'll know. Then you can ... (read in full...)

Does multiple partners (60 plus) "tear up" a womans vagina?

Q.   Does multiple partners (60+) "tear up" a womans vagina?...

A.   3 October 2008: I'm not quite sure what you mean by 'tear up'. I presume the vagina is designed to be used, and whether that's 60 times by one partner or 60 times by 60 different partners, maybe it wouldn't make much difference to the vagina (in terms of cervical ... (read in full...)

My gran is very ill, she's the most special person to me, I can't see her go through this, how will I go on without her?

Q.   someone please help. i recently posted asking for advice after being told doctors had found a tumor in my gran's liver. on friday i was told it's cancer, i can't handle it. i am so close to her. she's 77, they won't operate, it's in her liver, going ...

A.   24 September 2008: I know how you feel, because my dad was very ill when I just started uni, as well. I know how hard it is, and how sad you feel, and how it seems impossible to get through. Please listen: it is possible to get through it, trust me, and you will. It's ... (read in full...)

My lesbian partner has no sex drive, what can I do??

Q.   I'm a 32 yr old lesbian, and i've been living with my partner for 4 yrs. We are 12 yrs apart, she is older. My question is; my partner has no sex drive, what can i do??...

A.   23 September 2008: Well, a whole host of suggestions spring to mind, the main one being find someone different who does have a sex drive. But of course if you love her you won't want to do that, probably. I wasted 7 years of my life on an unsuitable older partner (a ... (read in full...)

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

Q.   I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

A.   23 September 2008: ps and it's also a question of how little love you can live on ... yes, it is possible to have a platonic marriage, but people often end up going outside it for all the physical closeness they are missing.... (read in full...)

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

Q.   I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

A.   23 September 2008: I think you at least need some kind of support or counselling. How did you feel about your husband when you married him? How long have you been together? When did you start crying when you have sex? (by the way, that is NO good at all - you must ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is masturbating to little girls and no longer seems interested in sex. I fear he's not attracted to me, what do I do?

Q.   Hi im 23 and my boyfriend is 26 we have a son that is 7 months old and we had a few up's and downs in the beginning of our relationship, he messed me around with a 16year old girl that was in april 2007 and i forgived him for it and things where ...

A.   23 September 2008: Sorry, I think we need clarification here: when we say 'little' girls, do we actually mean 16 years+ here?? (you said 'teenagers', but there's a difference between, eg, 13 and 19 - a big difference)... (read in full...)

Do we have a realistic chance of rebuilding our family after an affair?

Q.   has any one been in my situation or can anyone give me some advice.Can a marriage survive an affair which resulted in a baby.I dont love my wife i had affair with an old flame and fell in love with her,i got caught out and i chose to stay with my ...

A.   21 September 2008: You had the affair because your marriage was in a bad way. You have, somehow, to leave aside the issue of the affair and the baby, and focus on your relationship with your wife. Will it work? Do you want it to work? You have to talk about this with ... (read in full...)

Is it common for women to cry during or after intercourse?

Q.   I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after sex. Is this common? What does it mean? I appreciate your time....

A.   21 September 2008: It is true. I don't know how common it is in terms of how many women it affects, but in terms of how often it might happen to one woman, in my own experience it has always been very rare, apart from my most recent relationship, which is very ... (read in full...)

My fiance wants to have a really expensive stag party in America. I don't like the idea. What actually happens at stag parties?

Q.   I just want to know what both you male and females think about this. I am getting married in 2010, and me and my partner have been together for 3 years. He said to me the other day that his mate (who i dont really like because ever since i was intr...

A.   21 September 2008: I know exactly what is making you uneasy, and I do think that in the scale of things, wanting such an extravagant trip - 2 weeks, on another continent - sort of suggests he thinks he isn't going to get the chance to do this once you're married. Why ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is masturbating to little girls and no longer seems interested in sex. I fear he's not attracted to me, what do I do?

Q.   Hi im 23 and my boyfriend is 26 we have a son that is 7 months old and we had a few up's and downs in the beginning of our relationship, he messed me around with a 16year old girl that was in april 2007 and i forgived him for it and things where ...

A.   21 September 2008: I think without DOUBT you aren't the problem, and he doesn't want to leave you - he wants to be with you. Why he has diverted into this inappropriate porn I don't know, but it really needs sorting out. He should go to a counsellor or someone else to ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will want contact with his child in the future?

Q.   i dont want anyone telling me how evil i am for having an affair as the other woman i am quite aware that the other woman always gets the blame. i had an affair with a married man ,we fell in love with each other, i also went out with him when i was ...

A.   19 September 2008: I would also look into child support and the whole legal side. She can't stop him seeing his children with her, and she can't stop him seeing his child with you. He is, it sounds, terrified of losing contact with his first children, and therefore ... (read in full...)

He has a history of cheating and many opportunities to cheat at work, should I trust him?

Q.   hey aunties and uncles... i need some advice on something that is bothering me... so here goes recently ive got together with this guy after a long winded journey due to his ex still being in the picture, never the less we've been together for abo...

A.   16 September 2008: ps and if he loves his job, you have to be a trusting fool and let him do it. If you tell him not to, he will start to feel you are not on his side. Tricky, but that's the poisoned chalice of being with someone who cheated on someone else to be wi... (read in full...)

He has a history of cheating and many opportunities to cheat at work, should I trust him?

Q.   hey aunties and uncles... i need some advice on something that is bothering me... so here goes recently ive got together with this guy after a long winded journey due to his ex still being in the picture, never the less we've been together for abo...

A.   16 September 2008: If you want to be with him, you have to ignore it. Yes, he could well cheat. Yes, he might. Or he might not. You don't know. That's what you have to live with if you want to be with him. I wouldn't pressurise him. Better that you are lovely and he ... (read in full...)

I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?

Q.   ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...

A.   14 September 2008: Yes, as you can see from comments below, it's wrong. You're underage, and while somehow two 15 year olds having sex seems sort of ok, a 41 year old and a 15 year old girl is definitely NOT. And as for the stretching question ....!!!!! You don't ... (read in full...)

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

Q.   I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

A.   13 September 2008: Does your pregnancy show at all yet? ... (read in full...)

I hate my dad. Please help!

Q.   hey i really need some help and advice.. im 13 years old and i apsalutly h8 my dad!! my mum is desabled and for instance my mum fell out of her wheel chair when i was younger.. and my dad was drunk on the sofa. so my mum had to crawl her way t...

A.   13 September 2008: I completely understand. Is it possible to take a break from seeing your dad for a while? Who organises it? Would he go mad? He needs to know that he needs to change how he behaves in front you. Talk to your mum about it first, and see what she ... (read in full...)

He's ignoring me after we made out and I feel horrible! Since he has a girlfriend, is this cheating?

Q.   I did something terribly wrong last night. I went to a club with some friends and a guy last night. This guy and i have a past but i thought it was over since he now has an out-of-province girlfriend. That seems to be a problem tho because i got pr...

A.   13 September 2008: Sorry ... I'm English, and not quite sure what 'making out' covers! Did you have sex with him? I think he is the one who has behaved badly, because he has the girlfriend and it is up to him to be faithful. If he presents himself as free to you, then ... (read in full...)

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

Q.   I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

A.   11 September 2008: ps and WOW! I've just read the other comments here - don't listen to that nastiness. OK, yes, you've ended up in a tricky situation, but you are only 13. I have a son who is nearly 13, and if he did something like you, I would only blame myself as a ... (read in full...)

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

Q.   I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

A.   11 September 2008: It's simple. You go to your doctor and you get treatment for the herpes. Then you don't have to tell your parents about that. You just tell them that you are pregnant. You don't say about the 10 men. You don't say about the triplets, for now. You ... (read in full...)

How can I over come my hate to my own parents, especially my mother?

Q.   Hello Everyone, Here is my question. How can i over come my hate to my own parents especially my mother? since i was a little girl I already experince of what they called emotional abuse until im now 36 and still i feel the pain inside of my heart...

A.   10 September 2008: ps I have a different perspective to cupid guy. I don't think that we can say a child 'let it happen'. I have children, and I know how vulnerable they are. It is up to the adults to be decent, to control themselves, to behave the very best they can,... (read in full...)

How can I over come my hate to my own parents, especially my mother?

Q.   Hello Everyone, Here is my question. How can i over come my hate to my own parents especially my mother? since i was a little girl I already experince of what they called emotional abuse until im now 36 and still i feel the pain inside of my heart...

A.   10 September 2008: You poor thing. It is terrible that you have been left with this hatred, and not able to have the comfort parents should bring you. I think your best choice is to find a good counsellor - get some professional help. Really. Letting go is somethin... (read in full...)

Please help!! How can me and my husband get pregnant!?

Q.   Hi, me and my husband been married for 1 year now and I can not get pregnant. Everything is ok with our health there is no problems. I need any ideas, or anything that you might think would help us. I don’t really know when is my ovuluation days ...

A.   10 September 2008: Stop alcohol, fast food and going to bed late. Get up early. Take daily exercise. Eat healthily. If you are fat, diet. Cycle 5 miles a day. Become a fit physical being. Be happy to be alive. Have sex twice a day every day. Drink lots of water. Don't ... (read in full...)

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

A.   7 September 2008: ps forgot to say: have you tried something other than him??? sorry - sounds a bit technical - but, for example, a finger? You could build up the number of fingers until there wasn't much different between that and him!! That way you can gently get ... (read in full...)

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

A.   7 September 2008: I don't think you're too young at all - you're a young adult in the prime of your life, and it's quite ok (as far as I think) for you, in your very secure, monogamous situation, to want to do this. And trust me, what is a strong relationship will ... (read in full...)

Anybody have any advice on what I should do?

Q.   I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just ...

A.   6 September 2008: you poor guy. sounds like they're all being pretty unsympathetic. you do need to find a girl, and quick, so i suggest you get on some dating websites and fix yourself up with some dates - some of the girls on there will definitely say yes. and then ... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   6 September 2008: that is fantastic!!!!!!!! you are SO brave, and i am so glad you have got your life back!!! albeit you could actually have that bastard in jail as well, because he raped you - it is terrible, terrible, that happened to you - but you have ... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   6 September 2008: WOW!!!!!!!!!! TONI, YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   26 August 2008: You absolutely must leave this man. Please go and call your parents right now. Please. You MUST. There are no ifs or buts or maybes here. There is no doubt at all. You should actually just pack a few things now and go and get a taxi to a friend o... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   15 July 2008: ps and i don't mean to be gross, but do you realise what they will want to do to you if you agree to have his friend round too? At some point they will probably want to have anal sex with you at the same time as the other one having normal sex. You ... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   15 July 2008: Tisha has said it all - she is right. And I know how hard it can seem to escape - especially as he has this hold over you. i had the same thing with a man 16 years older than me, and i wasted 7 years of my life on him. Like you, i met him when ... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   14 July 2008: and DON'T HAVE A BABY WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you can't escape, at least go secretly on the Pill ...... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   14 July 2008: ps and I forgot - a huge FAT grandpa at that!!!! He sounds absolutely disgusting and does not deserve to be having sex with anyone at all, let alone a poor sweet 23 year old who knows no better. But you've worked out it's wrong, haven't you? Of cour... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   14 July 2008: Jeez, get shot of this guy. What the hell is he playing at? It sounds practically like rape!!!!!!!!!! It is WRONG AND BAD. Get rid of him. Is he your husband? Divorce him. This isn't how it is supposed to be - it is very very very bad of him. Of ... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   14 July 2008: Jeez, get shot of this guy. What the hell is he playing at? It sounds practically like rape!!!!!!!!!! It is WRONG AND BAD. Get rid of him. Is he your husband? Divorce him. This isn't how it is supposed to be - it is very very very bad of him. Of ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?

Q.   I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...

A.   26 May 2008: ps sorry - just saw your second post. OK: so you only want sex to be part of the human race. Well, approach it with an open mind: you mind find out why people fall so madly in love and end up in monogamous relationships ... whilst being v ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?

Q.   I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...

A.   26 May 2008: Ask your friend. There is an option C: she says 'Hell no' but still continues to be your friend ; ) I don't agree with those who say it's ok to be 32 and a virgin. You're right. You want to join the rest of the human race. Don't beat yourself... (read in full...)

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