I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?
Q. I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I ...
A. 20 March 2008: Carebear makes a very good point - yes, he has lied about the girl online - but the question is what to do with that fact now. Since then, it sounds like he's turned a corner, as the relationship has been 'wonderful. So for me the issue is, although ... (read in full...)
Pads vs. tampons
Q. Okay well im just curiouse. I just started using tampons, and I actualy like this better than pads. There much easier to deal with, and the pads bunch up and I get uncomfterable. I asked some of my friends and they said none of them liked tampons, ...
A. 20 March 2008: I didn't mention TSS in so many words because I didn't want to make too big a deal about it - but I did say it's very important to change the tampon every 4 hours or when it's soaked, and not to leave bits of fluff inside yourself. That's why - ... (read in full...)
At times he is nice, at time he calls me nasty names. What do you think?
Q. I am seeing guy who is like two people sometimes he is very nice and then later he calls me a s___ and a w____ and says that I am fooling around which I am not. Is there any hope of him calming down and being always nice?...
A. 13 March 2008: Nope, it's not going to get better - it's going to get much, much worse. He's started by trying out calling you names, and it will go on from there. I'm so sorry to tell you this, but it really is a definite pattern. Stand up to him NOW. Tell him he ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know that I am still waiting for him?
Q. My ex-bf and me have been together for 5 years and during these 5 years, he has been a very loving bf. He loves me alot and we really wanted to be together forever. However, during the 5th year of our relationship, he found out that I was cheating ...
A. 13 March 2008: If he really is unhappy in the new relationship, you should let him know you'll wait for him. He sounds very angry with you, though - I don't know if you'll win him back. You need to be completely contrite, but also remind him of the strength of ... (read in full...)
I thought her religious upbringing frowned upon premarital sex, but her almost inexistent desires continued to be a problem after our marriage!!
Q. I have been married now for almost 3 years. Prior to marriage, we dated for a few years and during that time there was a gradual decline in our sexual relationship. I spoke to my wife about this and she said it was a moral issue since we were not ...
A. 13 March 2008: This is really sad. You deserve a normal sex life. You can't stay in this situation - it's obviously, and understandably, making your life a misery. And I know how sexual rejection feels - it really is a miserable, abject, lonely feeling. I wonder ... (read in full...)
Pads vs. tampons
Q. Okay well im just curiouse. I just started using tampons, and I actualy like this better than pads. There much easier to deal with, and the pads bunch up and I get uncomfterable. I asked some of my friends and they said none of them liked tampons, ...
A. 13 March 2008: You're not weird at all. Why do you think they sell so many tampons?! : ) You're luckier than your friends - if you don't have a problem with tampons, take advantage of that and use them.
They certainly do feel much less cumbersome and horrible... (read in full...)
I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me ...
A. 13 March 2008: Go straight to Stacey, tell her what happened and ask her who the hell this guy was and what he was doing naked in your bed!!!! You've done nothing wrong (so long as you're sure he didn't have sex with you while you were in a drunken coma??? But ... (read in full...)
How long do hand jobs and blow jobs take?
Q. 2 questions how long does a handjob take (on average)? and how long does a blow job take (on average)? (both until the guy comes) I know it differs from guy to guy obviously but Id just like to hear some averages and opinions thanks...
A. 13 March 2008: It all depends on several things, ie:
- how turned on he is before you first touch him
- how much he fancies you
- how he's feeling (tired, etc.)
- when he decides to let himself go - he might hold back to enjoy it longer
Handjobs always... (read in full...)
How long do hand jobs and blow jobs take?
Q. 2 questions how long does a handjob take (on average)? and how long does a blow job take (on average)? (both until the guy comes) I know it differs from guy to guy obviously but Id just like to hear some averages and opinions thanks...
A. 13 March 2008: It all depends on several things, ie:
- how turned on he is before you first touch him
- how much he fancies you
- how he's feeling (tired, etc.)
- when he decides to let himself go - he might hold back to enjoy it longer
Handjobs always... (read in full...)
Does our ages and age difference count?
Q. hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex ...
A. 13 March 2008: Hang on there!! Slow down! I know it might seem like sex is the thing to do - there's so much talk about it, everywhere. But you're both still really young. You've got so much time in front of you. I think you should calm down and forget about sex... (read in full...)
I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?
Q. I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I ...
A. 13 March 2008: I'm going to give you some different advice. I know where you're at, because I did the same - snooped, actually expecting to find nothing, and was shocked at what I found. Mine was only slightly different in that I snooped on his correspondence with ... (read in full...)
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