Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?
Q. I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...
A. 12 November 2008: Really sorry ... that was an unfortunate experience. But I can't see how it means you are useless at reading people ... it simply means she was a bit mixed up. She wanted you - that's why her 'relationship' ended so quickly. But then she witheld ... (read in full...)
Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...
Q. okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of ...
A. 4 June 2008: no need - just say 'vibrator' in a phoney French accent - it's the same word : )... (read in full...)
Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?
Q. I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...
A. 26 May 2008: ps sorry - just saw your second post. OK: so you only want sex to be part of the human race. Well, approach it with an open mind: you mind find out why people fall so madly in love and end up in monogamous relationships ... whilst being v ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?
Q. I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...
A. 26 May 2008: Ask your friend. There is an option C: she says 'Hell no' but still continues to be your friend ; )
I don't agree with those who say it's ok to be 32 and a virgin. You're right. You want to join the rest of the human race. Don't beat yourself... (read in full...)
I have thought of asking my BF to shower with me and get him to masturbate me with the shower jet. Guys, do you find this odd?
Q. This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate... I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it,...
A. 26 May 2008: Anything you find amazing can't be bad!!
OK, it's simple: you don't have a problem at all.
Using the shower head: loads of women do it, and men do it for women, and it won't harm you at all (but as you say, don't squirt the water inside you... (read in full...)
Could this be a pregnancy or just late/missed period?
Q. ok..question...It's been like 2 weeks since i last had since and i used protection...my period usually comes in the middle or last of the month...there are only seven days left in the month and i still haven't had it yet..i am not on birth control ...
A. 25 May 2008: Simple answer: yes, you could be pregnant, but you won't usually get a positive result until at least 14 days after conception, and in some cases later. Count 14 days after you had the sex. Do one of the most sensitive tests. If it is negative you ... (read in full...)
Was it his fingernails that made me bleed?
Q. okay so before i ask my question i want to state that i am not a virgin. ive had sex plenty of times, ive been fingered plenty of times exc. okay so last week my boy friend was stimulating me manualy. about twenty minutes after he was through i ...
A. 24 May 2008: p.s. I meant 'absolutely' it's happened to someone else - not 'absolutely' you should be worried!!!... (read in full...)
Was it his fingernails that made me bleed?
Q. okay so before i ask my question i want to state that i am not a virgin. ive had sex plenty of times, ive been fingered plenty of times exc. okay so last week my boy friend was stimulating me manualy. about twenty minutes after he was through i ...
A. 24 May 2008: Absolutely. It's totally possible, and has happened to me not once. I think it's also to do with the position of your cervix, and the time of the month. At certain times the cells on the cervix are more sensitive/liable to bleed. And if you're ... (read in full...)
Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...
Q. okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of ...
A. 23 May 2008: WE are crazy????!!!!!... (read in full...)
Pregnancy problems.
Q. im trying to get pregnant now for quite some time. i ovulated from 5/4 to 5/7/2008 and i had sex on 5/2 and 5/5 and 5/7 im experience light stomache cramps and dark nipples are these signs of pregnancy? i did both blood and urine tests on 5/13/200...
A. 17 May 2008: You tested too early. You have to wait 14 days after you think you conceived (ie, should be around about when your period is due). I had signs after 7 days: first were feeling tired, then going off my food - feeling just a bit like I had a stomach ... (read in full...)
I've never met a guy who's wanted this much sex... and I start doubting myself if he's just using me for sex. Men's opinions?
Q. I met my bf about 2 months ago, and I've noticed that he lovessss to have sex. In the beginning of our relationship, we would have sex atleast 5 times a day, and then it eventually went down to 3 times a day, and at the least twice a day. He treats ...
A. 17 May 2008: I'm not a guy but it's clear he really likes you, and certainly not just for sex. ENJOY!!!... (read in full...)
Emotionally unfaithful and it's hurting my conscience
Q. Please Help! I'm married with 2 beautiful kids and husband is working abroad. We are quite different in alot of ways. I'm a very affectionate and loving person where he isn't even though I've tried again and again but to no avail. He does look at ...
A. 17 May 2008: my honest thoughts? leave your horrible husband and be with the nice guy. just do it carefully, and fairly, and don't be unfaithful, as you'll feel bad about it, and it wouldn't be right.
life's too short not to be with someone you really love. no r... (read in full...)
We are ready for sex. Recommendations?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...
A. 17 May 2008: Intercourse definitely feels better the way nature intended - ie, no condom, no nothing. However, you need contraception, so these are my thoughts:
condom - quick, easy to get and use, but a barrier between you and him, and not always reliable... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: I think the fact that you exacted a promise of 'longer than 30 seconds' is a big sign that she wants to work this out. BUT YOU'RE GOING ABOUT IT THE WRONG WAY!!!!!!!!!
I think it's perfectly possible that she will end up giving you blowjobs... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: pps oh and I forgot the bit about no drop of your semen can touch any part of her body - WHAT IS THAT? It is supreme rejection of you, and it is a serious serious psycho-sexual problem, as far as i'm concerned. She should adore your semen - it is ... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: No, they AREN'T right - you CANNOT equate giving a blowjob to submitting to violent anal sex!!!! It really isn't the same thing. What is wrong with everyone??? Surely if you love someone in the way you should in marriage, for life, then you love ... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: I can't believe the comments people have written here - I am so SORRY that they are being so nasty and simplistic and (unkindly, I think) judgemental! Don't listen to them, honestly. I understand why you might feel desolate at the thought of a life ... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: I totally understand, and it is a really difficult situation for you. I completely agree that facing the rest of your life with no oral sex is basically untenable, and unrealistic, and unfair. However, it's also impossible to get her to do something ... (read in full...)
I feel this man is a control freak, can our relationship survive?
Q. hi there, i dont know where to start with this. last year i was violently assulted by a partner resulting in many injuries including scaring to my eye and loss of teeth. it was on the return from one of the dentist trips that i met my partner. i ...
A. 16 May 2008: You're completely right - let him go. And quick. You really don't need this sort.
I think it's probably unlikely that your life is in danger, but certainly your emotional health is, and that of your poor daughter. You need to get yourselv... (read in full...)
Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...
Q. okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of ...
A. 15 May 2008: blimey, 3 inches long and you think you might have lost it in there??!! no way, I'd say. And you couldn't possibly have done anything like lose it up through the cervix and into the uterus, as that's all closed (and it would have hurt like nothing ... (read in full...)
Girls only, please! I'm having a heavier than normal period...
Q. Girls (only plz) i been havin periods for a while now and they havnt been bad i never had pain or anything like that. however this time its alot heavier and i dont know why ? Is this normal for it to change or does it does depend on the perso...
A. 15 May 2008: Yep, I think it's normal. I remember some of my teenage periods being horrendously heavy, with period pains coming in contractions, but they weren't always like that. And the first weren't as bad as that - I think it was about the second year of ... (read in full...)
I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?
Q. i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...
A. 13 May 2008: In terms of how he feels about you, I think he's probably pretty much moved on from what happened - he told you himself that you were going to move on from the past, which was very nice of him, and also shows he really cares for you. Basically, if ... (read in full...)
What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.
Q. Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...
A. 11 May 2008: Thank you, 15purple, for your kind words ... yes, I know that being a single mother is hard. You pretty much dedicate your whole life to your child. I know because my ex-husband and I divorced when our son was 2, and I pretty much did everything ... (read in full...)
What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.
Q. Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...
A. 9 May 2008: I think if you don't want him and HE wants out, you have to let him go. It is so unbelieveably painful to live day to day with someone who once let you in and now has shut you out. I am doing that at the moment, and that's with someone i loved very ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: ps sorry if I sound a bit Victorian in my advice, but i think porn is a bit bad - it is addictive, and it's a bit like the Macdonalds of sex - when you're hungry you really think you want it, then when (in the case of MacD's) you've had it and ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes, it's perfectly normal, and doesn't mean you're in any way gay. Your body is just responding to sexual images (it imagines itself in those situations). Lesbian porn is all about the female body, and yours is just responding to that.
Havin... (read in full...)
Do you think I should just leave him be, and get on with my life?
Q. HEY I broke up with b/f of a year approx 2 months ago, he wanted to stay friends, that didn't work out as i was hurting too much. So we ended up having cross words. We haven't spoken in 2 weeks and i am really missing him. I want to call him as I...
A. 9 May 2008: It's hard to say. It depends why you broke up. Did you end it? If so, and you think you made a mistake, worth getting back to him.
If you honestly know it isn't going to work, just stay put and don't call him for a while. Or even just text him... (read in full...)
He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?
Q. Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too....
A. 7 May 2008: It's really simple. Tell him how you feel, and that you want to be with him. The only thing is, he has to finish with his girlfriend first, and then he can be with you. Better he chooses now than gets more involved with you and ends up hurting both ... (read in full...)
When did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it?
Q. Hi, just for curiosity, when did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it? I am 36 but stopped when i was about 20ish. Also, when did everyone start. Males and females should answer...
A. 4 May 2008: I started when I was 13 and I am now 39 and have never stopped, apart from occasional periods of time when I was feeling down. When I am fine and all is well, usually at least once a day - it is GOOD for you!!... (read in full...)
I'm 5 weeks pregnant...am I miscarrying?
Q. Hi everyone i have a question, i'm a little freaked out, i think i might be miscarring! I've looked online for the symptoms of miscarring and you have cramps like your on your period, sharp pains in your lower abdomin, and bleed alot for 4 days - up ...
A. 4 May 2008: I'm not quite clear on what symptoms you're having? If you feel a bit sick, off your food and have a slight stomach ache, that's all normal for early pregnancy. Violent stomach pains - well, maybe you have got a bug or something?? It would only be ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't...
A. 1 May 2008: OK, here are my thoughts. There are, I suspect, two kinds of guys: those who love giving oral sex to a woman, and those who do it pretty much only if they really have to, or at the start of a relationship, but as soon as they can avoid doing it, ... (read in full...)
How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?
Q. Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...
A. 1 May 2008: ps Also must agree with LazyGuy - the one thing you must NEVER EVER do if you want to give a woman an orgasm is to think about, mention or in any way count how much time it takes!!!! For damn sure if you even start thinking 'hmm, is this taking too ... (read in full...)
How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?
Q. Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...
A. 30 April 2008: Very good answer from Tisha-1. Yep, she's said it all there. Remember that women are VERY EMOTIONAL and if it's not working in their head, you can bet it won't be working anywhere else ...
The most important thing to remember is that your gir... (read in full...)
Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?
Q. My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits ...
A. 29 April 2008: For me, the definitions would be:
Friend with benefits = a (usually good) friend who you occasionally have sex with
Fuck buddy = a person who you just have pretty much exclusively for occasional sex as suits you both
In both cases, be car... (read in full...)
Woman on top advice needed!
Q. Ok my boyfriend of 9months asked me about 3 months ago would i go on top during sex just for a change, i said no cause i havent a clue what to do and he was ok with that.but personally i tried it with my ex and it just didnt work for us. I would ...
A. 28 April 2008: Well, it's pretty easy, and pretty damn nice, I can tell you.
Simple method: he is lying down on his back. You get on top of him (one leg either side of his legs). You can just get used to that position for a while ... if you position yourself agai... (read in full...)
Can casual sex end up as the real thing?
Q. Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...
A. 28 April 2008: Of course. The attraction that made you jump into bed on pretty short acquaintance is exactly the kind of chemistry you need for 'the real thing'. Plus someone being decent, rather than a complete bxxxxxd - be careful about that one! : )... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?
Q. Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...
A. 27 April 2008: What the heck are you doing? Stop sleeping with him. Don't let yourself fall in love with him - it will only end in tears, probably yours. Honestly, if he has a wife and a new baby, he will always put them before you. That's really hard, but it's ... (read in full...)
You made me realise it is too early to have a baby, but what if we are expecting at such young age?
Q. Hi my name is mar mar and we want to have a baby......But I been hearing some suggestings and i think now that i don't want to have a baby.........But i already came in her more than 10 times......And what if she is? Please help and give me tips on ...
A. 25 April 2008: If she's pregnant, well, she's pregnant, and there's not much you can do about it. Although you're young, I'm sure you'd cope. Since you started out actually wanting a baby, I REALLY don't think you should consider abortion - it is a very brutal ... (read in full...)
I can't climax through masturbation recently, what could be wrong?
Q. recently i have ran into a little problem when i masturbate i cant get off now matter how hard i try and i cant figure this out any help woould be great....
A. 25 April 2008: I'm not a guy so I don't know, but I know that if this were my problem (as a woman), it would be psychological, not physiological. Basically, you've probably developed a small mental block. It could even be that after just once of not being able to ... (read in full...)
My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated fo...
A. 25 April 2008: I think that if he says it isn't working out, and doesn't want any contact with you, then really you won't be able to salvage anything. Guys tend to make their decisions and then that's it, really. I know it would feel better if you were able to ... (read in full...)
Was this checkup done inappropriately by my wife's gynecologist?
Q. I went to a gynocologist when my wife was of 3 month pregnancy.Ultrasound done on his lab in presence of me and doctor asked my wife to meet his chamber which was 30 meter away from his lab for further checkup.Everything was ok.As per our turn I ...
A. 25 April 2008: I think it could be perfectly innocent, but it sounds a bit strange to me. The strange things are:
- Why did you have to go to a different room where you were separated from your wife? The only reason I can think of is that maybe they needed the ... (read in full...)
My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated fo...
A. 25 April 2008: Starlight, I'm really sorry he's being like this ... it is really painful, and I totally understand, having been there myself. You want to keep him, but he is torturing you with what he does.
I'm afraid I don't think there's a really easy answ... (read in full...)
How do I pull myself out of this black hole?
Q. I've always been such a strong and independant person. But the break up of a relationship in December seemed to start the beginning of a downward depression cycle. My ex boyfriend and I lived together, and I left the house we shared to move...
A. 24 April 2008: I know exactly how you feel, and it is a scary feeling - but please believe you can and will get out of this.
I won't go into details of how I got to feeling the same, because in a way the reasons don't help - yes, it's awful he dumped you like... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend have a clit?
Q. hi, my girlfriend seems to be lacking a clit. {white american female}. i looked but cannot find one, even a small one. she lacks a hood that protects the clit. she is very highly stimulated by oral, and will orgasmn many times. she also orgasms 5 to ...
A. 24 April 2008: It sounds like there's nothing wrong with her at all if she has that many orgasms!! Not having a clitoris would make it more difficult. I'm sure it's impossible 'not' to have one, though - and it isn't something that is really noticeable - it's more ... (read in full...)
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