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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey chick, just read what you said.. if at any time you decide you dont want to have sex, dont! if he is using this type of attitude towards somethin like this which is hurtin u.. explain that you cant deal with the differences. I hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get a brazilian, but I dont think I want to
Q. My boyfriend wants me to get rid of my hair in the genital region. I'm not too sure about this. I feel like I have to because he won't find me atrractive if I don't but at the same time, why should I HAVE to do it? The main reasons why I don't want ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hey babe, who is sayin u HAVE to do it? if ur boyfriend is.. he doesnt care about u as much as hes making out.. you dont HAVE to do anything. You most likely will get a shaving rash as most people do (easy way to reduce redness is to wash over the ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, but is still sleeping with me
Q. I think i already know the answer to this but i wanted advice anyway... i came out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago. My boyfriend dumped me because i'd slept with someone else at uni. He was very understanding but still couldn't be with me. ...
A. 30 June 2007: Babe u did wrong and now he is using u.. tryin 2 make u think ur payin for it.. if u get me.. move on for him.. he aint worth ur time.. u both deserve better.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x x... (read in full...)
I don't take my contraceptive pill regularly, I think I could be pregnant
Q. Ok, I am 18 I am on the pill but I do not take it regulary, I only take it when I think of it. Me and my boyfriend have sex alot and we love each other and have talked about what we would do if i became pregnant. anyway, recently I have been having ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hi babe yea, u could be pregnant, go to ur doctor and/or, get a pregnancy test, babe if u cant rely on u taking the pill, u need diff methd ov contraception, ive got the implant for 3 years.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont buy my car, but I think she should
Q. I recently suggested to my girlfriend that she could buy my car off me in about a year or so when she has passed her test. She hasn't even started learning yet. The car itself is in perfect condition and everyone who sees it wished they had a car ...
A. 30 June 2007: umm girls dont always get what they want.. but i dont understand if ur planning on gettin a new car, then just share it or share ur current car.. she may not like ur car, may have bad memories.. there are plenty of reasons, just dont jump to the ... (read in full...)
He's not interested in sex; is it hopeless?
Q. My bf of three years has had not much interest in sex for the second half of our relationship. For months I didn't say anything as he was busy and tired so just put it down to that. After a long while I raised it and he said was that he didn't know ...
A. 29 June 2007: Babe if he doesnt want sex, he doesnt want sex, its like that. if you have such a high sex drive (like me) leave him for someone else. honestly you both would be happier. hope i helped, mail me if u want to talk x x x x x... (read in full...)
I felt it was too early in our relationship for sex, now he's mad at me
Q. I just started dating a guy 2 weeks ago when he tried to have sex with me. I told him no but he did not stop. I thought it was too early. Now he is mad at me for not having sex with him. Am I at fault or is he. ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi babe, there is no chance it is your fault AT ALL. you said no, and thats it. leave him. he is NOT worth it. i cant stress enough what you could be getting yourself into.. hes angry because u wont have sex.. he is NOT worth ur time. mail me if u ... (read in full...)
I felt it was too early in our relationship for sex, now he's mad at me
Q. I just started dating a guy 2 weeks ago when he tried to have sex with me. I told him no but he did not stop. I thought it was too early. Now he is mad at me for not having sex with him. Am I at fault or is he. ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi babe, there is no chance it is your fault AT ALL. you said no, and thats it. leave him. he is NOT worth it. i cant stress enough what you could be getting yourself into.. hes angry because u wont have sex.. he is NOT worth ur time. mail me if u ... (read in full...)
I'm eighteen and he's sixteen, should we wait to have sex?
Q. i am 18 and my boyfriend is 16. we have been together for 5 years, we think we are ready to have sex but i don't want to get in trouble. should we just wait or wat?...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi babe, it depends on the laws, if u get into trouble or not. 5 years is a long time, and u still seem happy. as long as u both want it, go ahead, as long as its legal ;) mail me if u wanna talk x x xx... (read in full...)
How do I introduce her to my family?
Q. i am having an affair with a girl since from my seventh standard and im still having the relation with her and she loves me very much. she even says that nobody should come into my life except her. if i happen to leave her she says she will commit ...
A. 29 June 2007: Um hi babe, she says she will commit suicide, if u leave.. ive been in SOO many relationships like that, and they dont do it, thats just the blackmail to try and keep you. honestly if u EVER want to end it, dont hesitate. Now i know u dont want to ... (read in full...)
My father is blind and I worry for him since he can't seem to keep a relationship
Q. Hi, I am writing for the sake of my father, who is totally blind in both eyes because of diabetes. He is independent, has a job and can live easily on his own with little help. but in spite of all that, he is very unhappy. he cannot hold a potential ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi baby, i couldnt imagine what you are dealing with.. this is extremely strong for both u and ur father.. babe, maybe go out with him to find someone, or however he now meets these women.. maybe talk to them to make sure they get involved for the ... (read in full...)
He was very generous financially to his ex wife but doesn't help me with our bills
Q. Hi all and hope your well. I need some advice from the ladies really. I have kept my boyfriend for the past 18 months, while he was sorting out finances with his ex wife. Its all sorted now, they sold their house, and he brought her a new one so...
A. 29 June 2007: Erm first off, your struggling for money and your boyfriend is throwing all that money at his ex, so she doesnt worry??!?? babe that isnt right, explain ur struggling for money, and he needs to put it or it isnt working because u cant pay for the ... (read in full...)
We keep arguing, he clicks his fingers and I run back. What can I do?
Q. Hi guys i have an issue with my boyfriend...weve been together for nearly 2years and well he likes to be in denial about our arguments..but all we do is argue and im sick of it. Its complicated because i can get over things quite quickly because i ...
A. 29 June 2007: Babe u no wot uve gota do, or u wudnt be on here.. you need to leave him alone.. honestly.. it isnt working.. find someone else, you both deserve it.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
He says he can't be with just one woman anymore
Q. Very confused asked for space from boyfriend of over 5 years because of commitment issues and him wanting an open relationship (hes 45!!! im 42. we both have been married before and had children from our previous marriages) We are best friends and ...
A. 29 June 2007: um you said ''hes thinks i don't want sex w/him and keeps asking if i'm seeing someone else'' umm you want to have sex with him?? he will be having sex with other people.. let him go.. honestly he sounds like my grandad (60) he cant keep a ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be uncircumcised?
Q. I havent been circumsized. is this normal? I'm 15. kinda makes me think it is the problem why I don't hve confidence to have a gf. Help!...
A. 29 June 2007: Hey babe, theres nothing abnormal about it. different people are different. my boyfriend is uncircumcised and it doesn't make a difference to me.. honestly babe there's nothing 2 worry about. mail me if u wanna talk xx xx... (read in full...)
He never pulls out before he ejacualtes and I don't want another child right now!
Q. My boyfriend always ejaculates in me, unless I tell him specicfically every time "pull out" And it can be that we have sex and I tell him to pull out, and he does then 5 min. later he is ready again, and if I don't tell him to pull out that time ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi babe.. some of these answers are so wrong! ahem, its up to you if you have a child before marrige.. i was born and my brother and my parents never married.. get with it! ok, babe, what about other forms of contraception.. for instance, i have the ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and my period has stopped. What should I do?
Q. I have never had sex so why havent i had my periods for nearly 3 months now why?...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi babii, ur periods, havent become regular, and you havent developed a cycle.. go to ur doctors, and explain to them. they will help you. dont worry you wont be pregnant. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
Is it normal for us to enjoy filming eachother having sex with other people?
Q. I have always talked about my girlfriend have sex with other guys as a turn on. i met a girl 6 months ago and brought up this during sex. she started describing scenarios of what she would do with another guy. one day she asked if i would like her...
A. 29 June 2007: erm this isnt a relationship that is going to last. you are both having sex with other people, she is having lads hands all over her, and pleasuring her.. and your just gona sit there and watch. this will destroy your relationship. you both deserve ... (read in full...)
We both cheated, but she got pregnant--she was the worst, right?
Q. My girlfriend has always screwed up things in the relationship and we seperated but still lived together. I cheated a few times and she knew because I stayed out all night. We got back together and started new then we broke up for a week. She ...
A. 28 June 2007: Erm ok, my opinion on this is, you are both as bad as each other, only she ended up pregnant. stay away from each other, that is not a relationship worth working on. x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me and has now he's with my best mate! I still love him...
Q. My boyfrend dumped me about 4 months ago,he is now dating my best freind...I am not talking to either of them and they both hate me. But the problem is I still love him. He cheated on me wit my other mate but i forgave them both for it...what do i ...
A. 28 June 2007: Forget bout him babe, i know it will be hard but forget about them both.. hes cheated, and then finished you and ended up with ur mate, that aint a relationship worth fighting for baby.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont buy my car, but I think she should
Q. I recently suggested to my girlfriend that she could buy my car off me in about a year or so when she has passed her test. She hasn't even started learning yet. The car itself is in perfect condition and everyone who sees it wished they had a car ...
A. 28 June 2007: umm my boyfriend isnt making me buy his car, ive got a year before i can start driving.. why does she have to buy it and if she does she may want a different one.. cut her some slack!... (read in full...)
I'm going to the doctor about depression, anybody have any help or advice on the subject?
Q. my mum thinks i have depression because lately ive felt really low and ive lost my appetite and im finding it harder and harder to sleep. On monday ive got to go see a doctor which im quite nervous about (even though i want to get help with this) i ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi babe, there is no reason to be nervous about going to the doctor, its a good way for getting help. the doctor will advise you on what to do in this matter, some give you medication and some work on techniques to make you better. i have been using ... (read in full...)
I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?
Q. I'm in a realtionship, I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?...
A. 28 June 2007: No babe the relationship isnt illegal but if u have sex before ur 18 ( i think its that where u live, where i live its 16) then its ok, mail me if u wanna tlak x x x x ... (read in full...)
When he pullled out, the condom had come off inside me; could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex today. well he came inside me.The problem is that when he pulled out the condom wasn't on his penis.It was stuck in me so he had to pull it out. Now im terrified that i could be pregant because the condom with his sperm ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi babe, first off we cant say, yes u r preg or no ur not.. get a test, yes you could be because the sperm could have come out.. get tested babe n dont worry x x x mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant from 'dry humping'?
Q. This guy and I messed around but I was wearing boyshorts, he rubbed his penis on my vagina through my shorts. Now, my period is late and I'm wondering... Could I be pregnant?...
A. 28 June 2007: Hia babii, we cant tell you if u r preg or not.. there is a chance but a very low chance.. get a test.. and dont worry because like DrPete said, stress and worry can change ur period.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I am female and have hair growing out of my chest on both sides, is this normal???
Q. dear cupid I am 16 under going into puberty. I seem to have a little concern, my chest seems to grow but on my right side of the chest has hair and the other side doesn't. Is this normal and what worries me more is will my left side grows hair ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hia babii, i did write somethin on here, but it hasnt turned up, all men are different, and yes this is normal. mail me if u want to talk babe x x x x... (read in full...)
I caught my friend kissing a teacher--what do I do?
Q. I caught my best friend with another female teacher in a cupboard. They were stood in front of me kissing and I didn't know what to do so I pretended I didn't see. This teacher is engaged and doesn't seem to talk to my best friend--...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, talk to someone, maybe another teacher (but the downside on that is the teacher may not believe you) tell your parents, or if you were even more prepared, go to the police because that isnt a good sign.. for a teacher to be doing ... (read in full...)
Raped when I was 12, told the police when I was 15, now having nightmares!!!
Q. Hi. This is going to be long but i have to get it all out.. When i was 12 i went through a rough time. I'm now 16. When i was 12 i was raped, the rapist has never been caught. I only went to the police when i was 15, i was too scared and ashamed ...
A. 27 June 2007: Thanks for helping =] i also had to do video evidence but that wont be shown to anyone apart from the police department who are dealing with it and the court and veiwers if they find the man.. kay kay, thank you so much, yes i will mail you, and i ... (read in full...)
Raped when I was 12, told the police when I was 15, now having nightmares!!!
Q. Hi. This is going to be long but i have to get it all out.. When i was 12 i went through a rough time. I'm now 16. When i was 12 i was raped, the rapist has never been caught. I only went to the police when i was 15, i was too scared and ashamed ...
A. 27 June 2007: Hiya YummyMummy, i did ask my doc about sleeping tabs and anti-depres, but he said this goes more futher than that and said i needed to talk to a psychiatrist about it, because it is more worse than other people have said.. i have tried with the ... (read in full...)
I think she's sleeping with the teacher and getting better grades than everyone else....what should I do?
Q. Right how do i put this....well, i think a girl at my school is sleeping with one of the teachers and it isn't in my head. This girl is a layabout she sits around, sleeps and smokes her way through school and makes no effort to do anything, testamen...
A. 27 June 2007: Hi im not sure what GTC means, but i think you should maybe go to a higher authority yes. you have clearly done a lot of thinking, but you dont have any hard proof evidence.. without any of them admitting it, it wont go much futher.. the teacher ... (read in full...)
Want to give my new gf flowers from our garden, would that make me seem cheap?
Q. Hi, sorry if this is a really odd question. hopefully going to meet my new girlfriend for the day sometime next week, and want to take some flowers for her. Was thinking of taking them from the family garden, which i thought might be nice, but at ...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, that is a great and very cute gesture.. she may think it is cheap but reasure her you just thaught it would be cute, and maybe take her out somewhere? mail me if u wna talk x xx ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for the pill to be effective?
Q. i just got my first order of birth control pills yesterday (yaz) and will start them mid july. im just a little confused about the time it will take for the pill to take full effect and protect against pregnancy??? is it a week, a month, three ...
A. 27 June 2007: a week i got told when i went on the pill, but babii, ur doc was supposed 2 tell u that before he gave them you, that isnt very good of ur doc, hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, i understand completely where you are coming from, but babii, i aint too sure ur gona get him to give it up, so to speak, its somethin that most men do and enjoy.. they are just pictures and videos, your man will be faithful and is only ... (read in full...)
After sex for the first time, I feel a burning sensation downstairs..
Q. i recently had sex for the first time.since then whenever i pee or masturbate it burns.what should i do?or is this something that always occurs?please help...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, see your doctor.. you could have a common ionfection called, honeymoon disease.. cystitus.. nothin to worry about just make sure u go to the doctor.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
My 3 female fellow students want the 4 of us to go on holiday together but I don't think my girlfriend is too keen on the idea seeing as she wouldn't be going.
Q. Hi! I ask to get some opinions. I study maths and have three female fellow students I used to learn with for the past two years. My girlfriend of just over two years studies history at the same university. She knows this friend. And all of those ...
A. 27 June 2007: Think about this... your girlfriend is going on a holiday with 3 other male friends.. who are all in a relationship.. you arnt allowed to go... take your girlfriend with you or foget it and prepare for the worst with her.. sorry to be harsh but you ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about his virginity
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for seven years. I was a virgin when i first met him and he told me that he was too.But just this past weekend he admitted to me that he had lied to me and that he had actually slep with three other girls before me.And ...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, ask him why he didnt tell you.. but it is completely up to you.. is this the only lie, can you trust him, do you love him enough to stay with him? up to you babii, mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
My partners sperm doesn't stay in my vagina!!
Q. Me and my partner have decided to try for another baby we already have a 4 year old. When we have had sex me partners sperm doesnt seem to stay in my vagina it comes straight out. Please could you tell me why this is....
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii.. thats normal, i saw another question like this the other day.. some will in fact stay in the vagina but if you are worried the go to the docs.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
Can you get your period when you're pregnant?
Q. Quick question my mate is going to get a pregancy test. She hasnt missed a period but is on the pill and says its best to check now and again. She wanted me to do but one too, i said no i use protection and havent missed a period. She told me her ...
A. 27 June 2007: Babe ive just read your other question about you wanting a baby.. just take the pregnancy test, of course you can get pregnant.. anyone can by having sex.. take the pregnancy test because we cant tell you if u r pregnant or not... and yes.. some do ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl--is it normal that I like lesbian porn?
Q. I'm a female--is it normal for me to love and get very turned on by lesbian porn?...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii There's nothing abnormal about it. Enjoy yourself babii, it's up to you what turns you on ;) Mail me if you wanna talk x x x x x... (read in full...)
Are there any concerns with having sex doggy style?
Q. Guys, I just want to know the disadvantage of doing doggy style position because every time my boyfriend and I do it, we really enjoy it...but I just want to know is it ok or will it be bad for me?...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babe doggy to me is a great position lol n i havnt felt anythin bad with it and u said u enjoy it.. its just a sex position.. nothin wrong with it.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I'm kind of embarrassed to ask, but how do I give him a hand job?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this guy for several months, and he and I definately have very strong feelings fro each other. We were friends long before we were dating, so we know each other pretty well. Lately, we've been getting more...passionate, I ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hia babii.. i know some ppl r gona say ur too young so prob wont tell you.. but when giving a hand job.. just wrap one hand around his penis and move it up and down, starting off slow then getting faster.. make sure you both want it.. and dont go ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?
Q. I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?...
A. 26 June 2007: nooo corse not.. its kissing.. if you have sex with her or anything like that.. then aye.. they could but youve got nothing to worry about.. the kissing will be fine.. have fun babii.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
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