She cheated. What should I do now?
Q. I have been with a girl for 4 years, lived together for 3, we have a house together and were raising her two children, things were great at first but overtime our communication broke down and she sought the attetion of another guy, I asked her if ...
A. 28 November 2007: she is really taking the piss you need to tell her to choose between you and the other guy and if she decides to stay with you then she has to promise to forget about the other guy and forcus on you and the children.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me... with a guy.
Q. so, i had a boyfriend and it was going really well...except for the fact that i thought he was gay, he was extremely sweet, borderline genius, and had an incredible bod. he calls me one day and tells me hes so sorry blah blah blah, so i tell him i ...
A. 28 November 2007: i think you should forget about him alot of males don't admit that there gay and that is definately a gay act don't listen to his lame excuses move on a get better... (read in full...)
I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried?
Q. Last Friday I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried? I'm not experienced with sex and I didn't think anything of it until my boyfriend said he was kind of freaked out. I was at my most fertile ...
A. 17 September 2007: no i don't think you should be worried but just in case take a pregancy test... (read in full...)
Can a guy tell a if a girl is a virgin or not?
Q. i was just wondering can a guy tell a girls a virgin or not..when they do it?...
A. 17 September 2007: it actually depends on how experienced the guy is because unless a girl has been fingered her vagina is very tight as the only thing that has beeen there is the menstration waste.... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant even though we stopped before he ejaculated ?
Q. So i just lost my virginity a few days ago and when he first did it we had sex unprotected....he didnt cum at all so we stopped before he did do anything like that.... i talked to my friend and she said that even a little speck of sperm can get me...
A. 17 September 2007: why would take that sort of risk. even though you make think he didn't cum. theres still a little of cum on his penis be for he releases it all
please go and get check as soon as possible.
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I'm 16 and I want a baby!
Q. i am 16 and i lost a baby with my boyfriend who i have been with for 1 year and a half my mam did not no i was pregnant and now she has just found out i am haveing sex and i really want to try for anouther my mam thinks it will spoil my life but my ...
A. 17 September 2007: jade really need to stop thinking like this i mean right now
you may think that babies are cute but they are really hard work. to me you don't even sound ready. your actually refering to a baby as it.
just finsh your education first before you star... (read in full...)
She used to give her previous guy oral, but she dosen't want to give it to me. Why?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months. We have a great relationship, physically and otherwise. But she won't give me oral. Originally she wouldn't even allow me to give her oral, but now it is ok. She seems to enjoy it now, but she has only ...
A. 17 September 2007: can please just ask what is the bid deal on oral sex.
why cant you guys just be happy with vaginal sex please allow me to under stand... (read in full...)
19 and 14 is that ok?
Q. Is it ok for me to date a guy that is 19 and I am 14?. I really like him and don't want to let him go....
A. 22 July 2007: no way cut that off completely... (read in full...)
He's phoned his ex asking for phone sex; this is the third time he's cheated, what should I do?
Q. heya remember i said my bf was complimenting other girls well now i've just found out that he's been texting his ex girlfriend asking her for phone sex !!!!! i really love him but this is the 3rd time he's cheated on me with her what should i do ??? ...
A. 20 July 2007: you should just leave him you deserve much better after all you are 13-15 years old so you wont die if things don't work out between you two. look forward don't look back... (read in full...)
we used protection, but my period is overdue. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone.Around 3 months ago i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time.Everthing was ok and we used protection and stuff but i still haven't got my period yet and am having loads of pregnancy symptoms.Its soo strange though because i've ...
A. 18 July 2007: Well then there’s a possibility you could be pregnant get check asap ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant without sex?
Q. okay. well about 2 weeks ago my boifriend and i had a small encounter we didnt actually have intercourse but i feel like im experiencing signs of being pregnant can you get pregnant this way or is a very very slim chance?...
A. 18 July 2007: I agree with the last writer. But then again depends what you call a small encounter if you were both naked and his penis touched your vagina you could be pregnant but as I said it depend on the encounter... (read in full...)
How can I break up with her without hurting her?
Q. hi, there is this girl that i am currently goin out with and i want to break up with her without hurting her and i really dont kno how. please help! ...
A. 18 July 2007: As some of the other writers have said there’s not such thing as an easy break up unless the other person isn’t really interested or it’s both parties decision just be sensitive about. Think of it like this how would you want someone to break up ... (read in full...)
We broke up recently but I can't seem to let him go!
Q. i had a break-up recently and im having a hard time letting my man go,he seems to move on but im still so hang up on him what should i do? i miss him when and i often gets lonely but he wont answer my calls...
A. 18 July 2007: I totally agree with the last writer. Don’t ring him no more I know it’s had to let go. Girl usually attach themselves more than boys do but you need to de-attach yourself he is obviously not worth it.
Like the other reader said go out treat your... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him?
Q. How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him? He says that he wants to be with me but he has not come back home. What do I do because I am still ...
A. 18 July 2007: No, he can’t keep on telling you that and not doing anything about it. I think he's saying what he knows you want to hear so that you’ll never get over him. I think you should be brave and not listen to what his got to say because he's lying. He j... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that he is cheating on her or going to hurt her in the future... any advice??
Q. One of my very good friends has been dating this guy for a little over 6 months now. I personally think that they moved too fast, and I'm not 100% sure what I think of this guy. Recently a mutual friend of mine found my friends boyfriend's ...
A. 18 July 2007: Well it has been 6 months so I think you should tell her but be very sensitive when you are doing. But before you do that weigh out the pros and cons
For example what if he just couldn’t be bothered to take it down. What if you ‘re reading to much... (read in full...)
When is the right time to have kids?
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for 2yrs and we are madly in love, we also know we are going to get married soon. we plan on having kids. but my problem is when is the right time to have kids?? while im in college or after?...
A. 17 July 2007: i8 think you should finish your education first children can wait and remeber things and people can change at anytime. so just have the book behind you ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and he's 16; can we still be together if we don't have sex?
Q. My boyfriend is 16, I'm 13, in England the age of consent is 16, if we have a non-sexual relationship can we still be together? I know people will say I'm too young for love but I know I am in love with him, we've been through so much, but I don't ...
A. 16 July 2007: yes you can be in a relationship with him but as you know if you do have sex he could get into alot of trouble so be careful and don't amke that mistake.
anyway your not allowed to have sex yet so don't worry about it... (read in full...)
I don't come when she gives me head. Am I a bad performer?
Q. hello, i'm 16 have been going out with my girlfriend for a few months, and recently we've been exploring things sexually, and she's performed oral on me now, but i don't orgasm when she does this! i feel really bad about this can anyone help please? ...
A. 16 July 2007: nailglitter18 i don't believe you should be giving out website for people at 16 years old age.
it doesn't make you a bad performer it's just mean that your body isn't responding to the particular way she does it.
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We want to wait until we're engaged or married before we lose our virginity; what can we do in the meantime?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. ...
A. 16 July 2007: i agree with sweetie. you can massage each other you can find out what both of your bodies like by fondling each other. all i can say is try and get to know what your body and his body like s so when you do have sex it's very enjoyable x x x... (read in full...)
If someone cheats on you, can they still really love you?
Q. if someone cheats on you...can they still really love you!!?...
A. 16 July 2007: yeah you could but it would be very diffcult. cheating is not right stick to one lover thats what i say.... (read in full...)
Update: I cheated twice on him but I want to work it out if he does
Q. hi its sweetie here again. after reading all about my love life{ CHEATED TWICE ON MY BOYFRIEND BUT LOVE HIM EVER SO MUCH} what would you people out there do? would you try to work things out or would you leave it and say to him if you cant see your ...
A. 16 July 2007: Well to be honest with you I don’t really think you do love him ever so much otherwise you wouldn’t have cheated twice. I mean once can be passed as a mistake but twice you knew what you were doing. Why don’t you think of it like this if he cheated ... (read in full...)
My cousin and I are so comfortable together... what to do?
Q. I have strong feelings for my cousin. We both get on so well with eachother. We've got on well for the past 12 years and in that time we've both had relationships. however we're both single and lately gone out with eachother for meals in and out, ...
A. 16 July 2007: your situation is kind of tricky. i'm wondering if your blood relation or related through marriage. Either one is wrong. You need to try and stop or have control over your feelings. What if you turn around and tell her how you feel and she doesn’t ... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs without intercourse?
Q. A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it....
A. 13 July 2007: yes you can get STDs without intercourse. you can get it through oral sex and if someone had an mouth infection due to an STd it could be passed on so be carefull
x x x ... (read in full...)
How do you make love? How do you make it pleasurable?
Q. I have a really basic question. How do you make love? I'm a virgin, and I've learned from health classes and such in schools about sex. I understand biologically what is supposed to happen, but that's not quite what I want to know. How do you make ...
A. 13 July 2007: sex is a natural thing so theres no way of me tell you want to do. for the first time your going to be uptight and nervous but try not to be. try to relax as much as possible. make sure that you take it slow so it last langer and guided your partner ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with us fat girls?
Q. Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...
A. 13 July 2007: some boy or men like thin girl personally i think girl with curve and meat on them look better.
i'm curvy and junky and i wouldn't changed my size for the world so don't worry about it somebody will come your way ... (read in full...)
When you masterbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?
Q. When you masturbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?...
A. 13 July 2007: you may need to use more lubricant.... (read in full...)
We're using the "pull out method" and I have some worries...
Q. ok me and my bf have sex alot and we havent been using condoms lately. he pulls out instead. well when i go to wipe his semen off of me i noticed i acidently used the toilet paper i wiped it off with and wiped my "area" soon after. can you get ...
A. 12 July 2007: okay so obviously you weren't taught that in your sex education classes? of course you should be worried just listen to this before the male climaxes there is semen on his penis already it's called pre-ejaculation. if you want to continue having s... (read in full...)
He always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight.
Q. I have this guy friend who is also my baby father who always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight. Should I just let him go?...
A. 12 July 2007: i don't think you should let him go but you should ask him why his always accusing has he got something to hide. but if his constantly accusing you then maybe its from a guity conscious
if you need to talk more email me ... (read in full...)
After our daughter was born he totally changed and we broke up; how do I make him take some responsibility for her?
Q. i left my fiance 2 months ago after my baby was born becauz he changed. he wasnt so caring and loving and got very lazy. he didnt help out with looking after our daughter and seemed very distant. half the time i was so frustrated and angry that i ...
A. 12 July 2007: well you tell him that he wasn't lazy when it came to jumping on top of you at the end of the day you didn't make your daughter by yourself after all it takes 2 to tangle. so i would tell him to sit up and take resposibilty for your daughter or it's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I have a strange discharge; do I need to see a doctor?
Q. My boyfriend says that besides being overly wet, I sometimes have a "foamy discharge" during sex, which he has never seen before. Does this ever happen or do I need to see a doctor? Thanks....
A. 12 July 2007: just remember everybody bodies are different i don't see this as being abnormal but just to make sure do go and see a doctor just incase ... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not ready for sex, what should I do?
Q. i am only 13 years old and i am very scared in a way but i love him to death!!!!!! 333 but i think that he really wants to have sex with me :( and im NOT!! ready for SEX!! what do i do????!!!!!!!...
A. 10 July 2007: don't give in your really young you are only 13 years old your not even legal to have sex yet.
i really don't understand when you enter a relationship there'e not contract saying you must have sex with your partner.
tell him that you are still yo... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend be able to tell that I am a virgin?
Q. My Boyfriend Thinks I Have had Sex But Im A Virgin Will He Know?...
A. 10 July 2007: yes he will know because you will still be very tight down there what i suggest you do is tell him there's not point in mis-leading. imagine this because he thinks your not a virgin he may not be as gentle as he would be if he knew you were ... (read in full...)
I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?
Q. I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...
A. 10 July 2007: no it's fine i'm very glad that you want to wait until your in a serious relationship.i think that great there not a right age to have sex it's different for everyone. so just stay level headed.
x x x ... (read in full...)
Worried that when we have sex, it will hurt her given our experiences so far!
Q. My girlfriend and I are getting to the stage where we are ready for intercourse but I am worried as when I tried to finger her before, as soon as I entered her even slightly she was lots of pain. If my finger hurts her when its not even going in, ...
A. 10 July 2007: well to honest with you it probably is going to hurt her. you have to try and understand that females bodies are completely different from males.
the only thing i can tell you to do is go VERY slow ,try and make her relax and keep on reasuring her ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?
Q. okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel ...
A. 10 July 2007: i want to tell you that i really respect your decision. there's not a lot of people out there who want to wait to have sex when there married. so well done as for your boyfriend once again tell him your decision to wait until your married and if he ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends
Q. Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...
A. 9 July 2007: yes love of course they do. now just because everyone say they've had sex doesn't mean they have they could just be lying to fit in to. you should be proud 2 still be pure because once it's gone you can never get it back. so enjoy being untouched. ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait
Q. Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your ...
A. 6 July 2007: sex is not the only intimate sexual thing that could bring you and your g/f closer. don't rush her or you'll only push her away from you do you really want her thinking you only want her for sex. you need to respect where she is coming from. i know ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with my mother!
Q. I came home from work the other day early and found my boyfriend who is 39, having sex with my mother, aged 69, on my bed. My parents live with me, as does my boyfriend who moved in last year. He does drink a lot as he is having problems with post ...
A. 6 July 2007: i have been reading the other reply you need to get rid i don't think you should give him another chance think of it like this if he could sleep with your then he could be sleeping with plenty of other women behind your back his not worth it your ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he loves me like I love him, advice please!
Q. i emailed my crush and at the end of the email i put love ya and then i checked my email and at the end of his it said love ya 2. but i dont know if he loves me like i love him....
A. 6 July 2007: i agree with penta just remember tapping it is the same as actually hear it. just wait love takes time to develop don't rush him just take it one step at a time ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I don't fancy him anymore
Q. I love my boyfriend and have been with him for 4 years, but i just dont fancy him anymore. I dont want to leave him i want our relationship to work. Hes sweet and kind and he loves me too. How can i get the desire back for him physically....
A. 6 July 2007: i think lauraE advice is great. i just think because you've been together for 4 years your a bit bored. try doing something exciting with him. try buying him an outfit you would like to see him in. or even buy an outfit you think he'd like to see on ... (read in full...)
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