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Help I got fired for kissing my boss Pleas HELP
Q. Yesterday I got fired from my job for having an affair with my boss. I didn't expect it because we thought we were careful not to get caught but the video camero showed us kissing in the parking lot. has this happened to anyone else and how do I ...
A. 25 December 2010: I know that you are probably now thinking that what you were doing was wrong, so I'm not gonna tell you that you messed up. We all make mistakes and none of us are perfect so we shouldn't judge.
The only thing you can do now is to move on, have a fr... (read in full...)
I just found out I'm pregnant and he doesn't want kids
Q. I need some advice. So i'm 17,my boyfriend is 19, we've been together for over 2 years. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were talking and the subject of kids got brought up. Anyways so my boyfriend said that he doesn't want any kids. Today I just fou...
A. 25 December 2010: Hi there,
The first step is to tell him. It's hard, I know, but it would be impossible for him not to find out so unless you want him finding out for himself (bad idea!) then you need to talk to him.
If you want to keep the baby and he doesn't,... (read in full...)
I thought she loved me but she got drunk and cheated.
Q. Me and my ex were together for a year I thought she loved me but we broke up in november, after she cheated on me when drunk. Unfortunatly we are in the same classes for 17 hours a week, sitting next to each other. We arnt talking at the moment, ...
A. 30 January 2010: Can you not ask to be seated elsewhere? Maybe you could go to your tutor/teacher after lessons one day and ask her to move you to another place. I'm sure they'll allow it if you're not happy. If they ask why, just tell them that you are not getting ... (read in full...)
She dumped me, moved on and has a new boyfriend, but is calling me - why?
Q. Long story short; My Ex and I went out for 18 months. Last month we broke up (she broke up with me a few days after I talked to her about how she is always lying to me and others). We were deeply in Love. We also lived together. Anyways, the bre...
A. 17 January 2010: I don't mean to be rude but, are you absolutely sure she has cancer? Are you sure this isn't an aour attempt to win your attention after your break up?
You were together for a really long time and you both are expecting to be able to get over eac... (read in full...)
I want to add my teacher to Facebook!
Q. I tried to add a teacher that I think I love and I mean honestly love on facebook last year and he declined because he obviously wasn't allowed, but I didn't know that teachers werent allowed to accept students on the site, at the time. He said he ...
A. 5 January 2010: You won't get in to trouble as long as he doesn't accept you. And if he knows what's good for him, he won't accept it for as long as he's at your school and until you leave school completely.
All teachers gets facebook requests from students. It's... (read in full...)
I'm dating my teacher, and I'm confused, Help!!
Q. I have had this enormous crush on this teacher of mine for almost 3 years. Actually it's not just a crush, it has turned into an obsession kinda. I've finally worked up the courage to tell him of my feelings a few weeks ago because I just REALLY ...
A. 30 December 2009: "Should i follow my heart and keep seeing him in secret or should i do the 'right' and safe thing and stop our relationship? wat do i do???"
You have said that you know what the right and safe thing to do is...
So why hesitate?
Like the othe... (read in full...)
Why does my penis not discharge?
Q. i have had 4time sex with different different girls from past 4-5days. but after having sex my pennis doesnot discharge . . . . every time girl come angry that why ur penis does not discharging even girl come very tired?????????? so plzz suggest me ...
A. 30 December 2009: What he means is that he's been having sex with different girls over the past few days and he can't cum for some reason. He says the girls have got angry at him for not cumming but that he doesn't know the reason why it's not happening.
If you want... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?
Q. Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...
A. 4 September 2009: What your "friend" said is not a friend-ish thing to say. It doesn't sound like you'd be losing much if she did bugger off. Anyway, even if this guy is sitll telling you how much he cares, you need to end it. It's not fair to drag it out any ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?
Q. Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...
A. 3 September 2009: You have to end it with Guy B.
If you don't feel for him as much as he feels for you and you're constantly thinking about Guy A, do what's best for him and end it. Don't drag out this relationship because it will hurt you and will especially hurt... (read in full...)
Funny little marks under my breasts! Would it be unattractive to men?
Q. Okay. This question is mainly for males becuase im wondering what they think. I have little spots (not freckles or beauty marks) probably irritated hair follicles or something under my breasts. there not very dark at all but they personally bother m...
A. 12 August 2009: If they're decent enough, babe, they wouldn't mind. Try not to worry because it sounds like you've got ingrown hairs and I know how much of a pain in the ass they are. Have you tried gently exfoliating the area and then moisturising? This might ... (read in full...)
My dog bit me! Will I have a scar?
Q. hi i just got bit by my dog i went to kiss him and he must have panicked or something and bit my lip hes never done this before. anyway it hurts but not too bad my lip has doubled in size due to swelling the cute doesnt seem to be too deep a...
A. 24 June 2009: Have you had a tetnus jab, hun? You need to make sure you don't catch anything from that nasty bite.
I'm sure it'll be looking a lot better by next week though, and like satindesire says, keep it clean so that it doesn't get infected.
I hope it ... (read in full...)
My gf wants me to choose between her or my family (with my handicapped brother)
Q. I wonder if you guys can help me on this matter. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've started to talk about marriage and moving in together. I currently live with my mum and my twenty year old brother who is in a whee...
A. 13 April 2009: I wouldn't even consider moving in with or even staying with this girl. She sounds incredibly unreasonable.
Anyone who tries to make you decide between them and your family is asking for trouble.
In my opinion, if you turn to your girlfrie... (read in full...)
Period Cramp Advice Please!
Q. Hi to all cupids out there. Ok i need any tips or tricks of the trade for this question. Ive been getting really bad period pains/stomach cramps and wondered if anyone had any good tips they could give me on how to reduce the uncomfortable fe...
A. 3 April 2009: Heya,
I used to get seriously bad period pains that led me to me to collapsing and being sick. I'm assuming that your periods are not as bad as this but I have a few ideas that might help:
-Maybe you could try taking two ibprofen painkill... (read in full...)
I think my teacher is in love with me!
Q. i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. first i want 2 say i do not like him other than a teacher and nothing more. but him i am not so sure about. he always is staring at me and flirts with me. one time i was absent for like a ...
A. 28 March 2009: You have posted this question before and if you were told then that you should speak to someone of high authority about this and you were told that it was just in your mind, I suggest you take the advice given to you there and stop wasting your time ... (read in full...)
Help please, my ex is starting to scare me!
Q. Ok, so im a 14 year old freshman in high school, my ex boyfriend, who is 17 and a junior, and with whom I went out for a little over 2 months. He thought our relationship was great but it wasnt all i ever did was bend over backwards to keep him ...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm glad it's being dealt with appropriately.
Take care and best of luck.
x x x x x... (read in full...)
I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here.
Q. Hey there, I'm wondering if anyone can help me here, my girlfriend has told me that in my sleep I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here. I'm a nice guy, never anything bad about me but this is out of ...
A. 10 March 2009: Thank you for the advice, I'll see how it goes and if it gets any worse I will consult a doctor about it to see what the next step is.
God bless
x x x x x... (read in full...)
Sickness Phobia
Q. I am 17 years old and I have a fear of other people being sick, I've had it as long as I can remember. When I was younger I was scared of being sick too but I've kind of grown out of that, I don't like being sick but I am not terrified of it half as ...
A. 28 February 2009: Hey hun,
What a horrible thing to have to deal with. I've heard about this kind of thing before and as Jessicarabbit has said, you're not alone. I think it's called emetophobia, but don't take me up on that.
Have you spoken to your parents ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!
Q. My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends ...
A. 27 February 2009: I agree with the other two, I think it is probably because he doesn't want to be tempted into trying it on when he knows you're not ready.
I know that when I sleep next to my boyfriend, he's always wanting to have sex when we go to bed and agai... (read in full...)
Once she's had her orgasm, that's it! The sex is over!
Q. I have a small problem with my other half and I. We have been together for 5 fantastic years now. Been engaged for 6 months now. When my other half and I fool around she likes me to go down on here, which I like doing. I give her an orgasm...
A. 25 February 2009: I really don't agree with the anonymous reader on here... I don't think you should take that advice, plainly because there's obviously a problem that she isn't discussing with you and if you go up to her demanding explanations, she will be even more ... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage after the wedding, I'm so depressed and thinking about divorcing!
Q. I had a boyfriend for 4 years and he was amazing but i felt like i needed something new so during the summer i met someone i really enjoyed being with and i broke up with my boyfriend and started dating this other guy immediately. 2 months after ...
A. 25 February 2009: Ignore " He deserves much better" from the anonymous poster below. What an awful thing to say to someone who's been through so much. And it is cowardice to put yourself as anonymous and think you can say whatever the hell you like.
Besides this... (read in full...)
Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and ...
A. 18 February 2009: PS I have to say Guillaume's advice to this question I think is an ideal solution. It's worth a shot!
xxxx... (read in full...)
Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and ...
A. 18 February 2009: In the three years I've been on this website, that is one of the nastiest answers I've seen, JsaiyaSavannah. What you have said is truely disgraceful and like satindesire said, you should be ashamed of yourself. 30 years old is not even old! And ... (read in full...)
He stood me up, now we're on a break again and I worry it's over for good!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for neerly 4 months we started out great but just after christmas we started to argue really badly, he wasnt spending no time with me he went weeks without answering to any texts and when he sed he'll come ...
A. 10 February 2009: Honey, I think you'd be a lot better off without this d*ck in your life. You deserve better that that!
Think of your ideal guy. Would he be standing you up? Reeling you in only to chuck you back? Blank you?
I know the answer to these is no. So d... (read in full...)
Help please, my ex is starting to scare me!
Q. Ok, so im a 14 year old freshman in high school, my ex boyfriend, who is 17 and a junior, and with whom I went out for a little over 2 months. He thought our relationship was great but it wasnt all i ever did was bend over backwards to keep him ...
A. 8 February 2009: I seriously disagree with the anonymous person on here. Do not talk to him, it'll add fuel to his fire.
As pvtguy has suggested, you need to talk to your parents about this and conclude what the next best step is. I think it would be that you shou... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 6 February 2009: Congratulations! :D xx... (read in full...)
What should I write in my letter to my Army guy?
Q. my boyfriend is in the army and i want to write him a letter but i just dont know what to say i want to say something cute, loving, caring knowing im here for him and that i miss him but i just dont know how to write it can anybody help me write ...
A. 25 January 2009: Hey,
I'd suggest that you write about how your doing, what's going on around you to do with your family, people he knows etc.
Then I'd go onto talking about memories that you have of being together - the most important ones and the moments where yo... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 21..what happens if someone finds out?
Q. hi, im 15 and im seeing a 21 year old. what would happen to him if any one was to find out? is it really that bad ?...
A. 25 January 2009: Hello fellow Manxie :)
As the others have said, you are not over the legal age of having sex with anyone. This is not to say that you can't have a relationship with him, but I would say that it just remains friendship until you hit 16. If he's dece... (read in full...)
What do people think of this age gap??
Q. ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...
A. 24 January 2009: Awww! Glad you're happy!
It's nice to hear a bit of good news on here for once :)
All the best,
xx... (read in full...)
I'm the one left out
Q. I am 15 years old. I know I am not ugly,or fat, but I am self concious about my looks. I have never really been asked out in my life except once for a joke. It makes me feel lonely and rejected what should I do? At primary school I was always the...
A. 18 January 2009: What I'm gonna say may seem difficult, but I've been where you are now and I think this might help you.
- Look in the mirror every day before school, put on empowering music - music that makes you feel you can take on the world and say to your... (read in full...)
Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....
Q. Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this tim...
A. 18 January 2009: That niggle won't go if you go out with him, in fact, I'd say it would get worse.
I think you should just tell him straight "You lost all chances of being with me when you cheated on me. If you keep nagging me to go out with you, you'll push me away... (read in full...)
Cheating by text X 5
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for about one year and 5 months. Everything would be ok, except i have caught him cheating on of by texting 5 times. I feel like i cant trust him anymore. I get so much anxiety over it i get sick. Hes says he wont ...
A. 16 January 2009: Hun, you know what you have to do. If he's got away with it five times and even after apologising continues to do so, you know you can't trust him.
This is not the way a relationship should feel - you feeling sick and anxious about everytime he look... (read in full...)
First time sex.... what can I do to blow his mind?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex soon. The thing is I love him really I do. Knowing that we are both virgins and that he is taking it very seriously, well in the sense that he wants everything to go right. He planned everything to the ...
A. 16 January 2009: Honey, I'm afraid that first time sex rarely ever goes according to plan!
When me and my ex had sex for the first time, we'd planned it all and everything, just like you. But I'm afraid it never really goes the way you want it to!
The most lik... (read in full...)
I don't know what our status is?
Q. i met a man on the internet and originally it was just for slightly kinky sex which neither of us had tried before, this didn't really get started as we soon were contacting each other daily and seeing each other weekly.over the past 2 months, and I ...
A. 14 January 2009: I think you should just ask him. It's the only way you're gonna find out.
I was like this with my current bf. We didn't have sex until we were in a relationship but we did talk about such things before it began.
I just said "What would you say ... (read in full...)
My b/f brags about girls to see if I'm jealous
Q. How do I know if my bf is just trying to be honest with me, or if hes really bragging and trying to make me jealous? My bf constantly tells me about all these girls who are flirting with him, trying to hook up with him, making moves on him, wa...
A. 14 January 2009: Wow. He seems to think he's God's gift to women and I can assure you that this all is probably not true.
It would seem to me that he is very insecure and he feels he needs a reaction out of you so that he knows that you don't want any other girl... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my g/f & I at the university
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 2 years now, we are both on our way to university this year although i'm really worried about it. I do really love this girl, but whenever were both out say at a pub or a nightclub we always fight, ...
A. 14 January 2009: I'm afraid to say, university is a big obstacle in a lot of relationships and as you both have these insecurities already, it will be even harder. I'm not going to lie to you. COMMUNICATION is the key in this situation. Lack of communication will ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!
Q. My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?...
A. 14 January 2009: As Griffo has said, he's in his comfort zone and is currently having his cake and eating it.
I suggest that you give him a shake up by saying that you are going to break from him for a while so that he can make his mind up. I think this is a good... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 31 December 2008: I was brought up to be a Christian in my family. I still believe in God because I do believe that there is comfort in times of grief that comes from beyond this world.
A few years ago, I was a very strong Christian. I didn't swear, I didn't drin... (read in full...)
We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?
Q. After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...
A. 31 December 2008: If you used no form of contraception and you ejaculated inside her, then yes it may have been sperm coming out of her vagina.
However if you wore a condom and it definitely didn't split, I'd expect that it was just that she was still wet from when... (read in full...)
Cramps and period pain...
Q. Hey I have a question. So I'm kinda scared I might be pregnant. I havn't had my period yet this month I started on the 27th last month and the 28th the month before that they both lasted about 7 days. I've been cramping and my boobs hurt but they ...
A. 29 December 2008: It would seem quite unlikely that you are pregnant if you have been careful about it like you have said.
If you are experiencing period-like cramps, I should think that your period is on it's way. Stress can cause your period to be late and it may ... (read in full...)
Whats a guys fave nail polish color?
Q. ok this is probably a weird question but here it goes. is there any nail polish that guy especially like on a girl ? I know guys may not pay attention to that stuff but I'm going on my first date this weekend and I want everything to be great and ...
A. 17 December 2008: I agree, my boyfriend loves it when I paint my nails red.
xx... (read in full...)
What do people think of this age gap??
Q. ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...
A. 12 February 2008: If you're happy, your family and friends should all be happy too. There's nothing wrong with that at all! :)
Don't let anything stand in the way of your happiness.
Take care xx... (read in full...)
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