Should I confront him at school tomorrow?
Q. I have been going out with this wonderful girl for a couple weeks now. We are in a pretty good relationship. But today after school an aquatance of mine was hanging around with My girl and I and she went to reach to move him away so she could mo...
A. 6 February 2008: Don't continue confronting him to the point that your girl thinks you're obsessive.
But if I were you, yeah I'd confront him.
You don't go after another guys girlfriend, especially when he's right there.... (read in full...)
Could this be breast cancer??
Q. Ok, so i'm 16 and almost everytime i get out of the shower i notice theres this white stuff on one of my nipples and if you kind of squeeze at it some more comes out... could it be breast cancer im scared and dont know what to do... help please...
A. 3 February 2008: I don't know, much about breast cancer, are there any lumps on your breasts?
Is there any possibility you could be pregnant and lactating?
Take a gander at this site, it should help you out a bit http://www.breas... (read in full...)
I'm set to be sworn in as a member on the Canadian Army, but yesterday I got fined for underaged drinking, will they still let me join?
Q. Hey, this isn't a relationship question, but I'm quite curious anyways and hoping someone can answer it. I'm set to be sworn in as a member on the Canadian Army Thursday, but yesterday I got fined for underaged dirnking, and this is the second ti...
A. 2 February 2008: K, I'll check out that site, thanks alot I really appreciate it.... (read in full...)
I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help
Q. God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...
A. 29 January 2008: Both of you guys are in the same boat from the sounds of it, I think you guys need to have a hert to heart about whats going on and whatnot.
You may be cheating for revenge, but why the hell is he cheating? If I were you I'd want to get of the b... (read in full...)
If a guy asks for a hug does this mean he is interested in me?
Q. There is a man at work (different departments, we don't see each other every day) that I have been friendly with the past few months and I believe there has been a spark going on (for sure it has for me, not completely sure about his side). ...
A. 29 January 2008: A hug can be either one really, it's really hard to say.
Did you get the impretion he was being flirtacious when he asked for the hug? If so, he probably was.... (read in full...)
What should I do? I kept my part of the bragin but he never kept his...
Q. I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term ...
A. 27 January 2008: As far as being hurt by the stuff people say about you guys, who cares?
If you like each other, the opinion of others shouldn't mean a thing. People are small minded anyways, so pay no attention to them.
... (read in full...)
Why would a condom hurt
Q. i tried on a condom (i dont know why) i found in my brothers room it kind of hurt when it was stretching and ive never pulled my foreskin back fully before, please tell me if this is wrong...
A. 27 January 2008: You've never pulled the skin back before, it's always uncomforting to di that your first couple times.
Or the condom could be too tight, I find alot of them to be too tight.
Or you could have an allergy to latex.
But my guess is it's just be... (read in full...)
Should I accept his use of pornography whilst we are in this long distance relationship?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in Australia, I am returning within the month to move in with him. About 5 months ago we discussed pornography, he said that he'd delete anything from his computer...
A. 25 January 2008: The fact he's telling you he watches porn when he lives far away and can get away with it shows you right there he's a sincere guy.
Watching porn doesn't mean anything, it doesn't mean he wants to bang the girls he watches on porn, it's just eas... (read in full...)
I want more than just a kiss now and then. How do I initiate it?
Q. Hi everyone! I have been with a guy for 2 years. It is my first bf. It started as a long distance relationship, but now I stay with him. I am his first gf too! He is a very shy guy. The problem is physically. We kiss each other goodbye every...
A. 23 January 2008: tell him you want to go further with your relationship physically, a heart to heart chat is needed is you ask me.... (read in full...)
My husband is crossdressing and it makes me SOO uncomfortable Help!!!
Q. Ok this is going to be complicated. My husband of over a year has started to act a little different. At first I found out that he likes backdoor play, and not on me on him! Then a few weeks ago he started wearing my undies, Telling me that ...
A. 23 January 2008: You need to sit down and talk with him, is there any way he could be gay or bisexual?
Also, as far as you sounding hypocritical, there's nothing hypocritical about that, I've got no problem with cross dressers, doesn't mean I would want to date ... (read in full...)
Paranoid about being pregant...could it be possible??
Q. I am so scared that I might be pregnant. My ex boyfriend and I almost had unprotected sex but I backed out at the last minute and when I got my period at the end of the month I thought I was ok. I heard you could get pregnant like that anyways and ...
A. 22 January 2008: You almost did?
Was there any intercourse? If he did have sex with you but wasn't wearing a condom and pulled out or w/e you could have gotten pregnant, but if you had 1 period afterwards I don't see how it's possible.... (read in full...)
I'm gay..he's straight and he seems to pay a lot of attention to me! Advice?
Q. My question is regarding a problem i have and has me crazy. The problem is that a coworker looks at me in a wierd way he gets mad when other people are around me and pays too much attencion to me. The thing is im a gay guy and hes straight. What ...
A. 17 January 2008: I could be wrong, it sounds almost like he's got a crush on you though.
Is there any chance he thinks you're bisexual? If so that could explain why he gets upset when people are around you.
As far as you giving him attitude and not being friend... (read in full...)
Why is my life going down hill?
Q. i am 14 and my life is going down hill first 1.i am a very old (i am 14) 2. my best friend of 10 years is on the edge of moving to canada 3.i have lost my very expensive ipod 4.my sister is a druggie 5.the boy i like is madly in love with...
A. 14 January 2008: I'll try and answer all of 'em for you...
1. You're not very old, you've just started out pretty much.
2. There's nothing you can do f your friend moves, there's nothing your friend can do either if their folks decidce to move away, your best ... (read in full...)
My bf keeps asking for sex but I don't know what to do.
Q. dear cupid, My bf keeps asking me for sex, should i say yes or no? I am 13 and don't know what to do.... helppppp...
A. 14 January 2008: are you sure the guy isn't just trying top get a piece from you?
any descent guy won't beg like a dog at the tab;e for sex if the girl is unwilling, and you're only thirteen, i'd say wait a couple years, or atleast wait until you've dated the guy ... (read in full...)
I'm gay..he's straight and he seems to pay a lot of attention to me! Advice?
Q. My question is regarding a problem i have and has me crazy. The problem is that a coworker looks at me in a wierd way he gets mad when other people are around me and pays too much attencion to me. The thing is im a gay guy and hes straight. What ...
A. 14 January 2008: Well, is he a friend?
If he gives you weird looks he could be uncomfortable around a gay guy, but getting defensive when other guys are around you doesn't seem like something a homophobe would do by any means.
You could ask him if he's gay, wh... (read in full...)
How can I become a more socieable person without being too happy-happy?
Q. Seven months ago I had a social life, a girlfriend and things were going well. Sort of. Beneath that, I was always rather discontent. The relationship was turning sour, and after high school ending my old best friend and I were drifting apart. S...
A. 12 January 2008: Do you drink? If so, you could just goto a bar sometime, you're bound to meet new people, after you get a few drinks in you won't mind using your personality.
But if you don't drink that option kind of goes away. If you work out more and get into... (read in full...)
What are the signs my bf could be addicted to porn??
Q. I recently moved in with my boyfriend that I met in military training. I just recently noticed that he looks at internet porn ALL THE TIME. The wierd thing is that he doesn't try to hide it like most guys I hear about. Usually something like thi...
A. 12 January 2008: Well a hardcore porn addict will watch porn during sex.
Just tell him how you feel about him watching so much porn, I'm sure he'd at least cut back on it.... (read in full...)
How can I rescue this potential relationship after I came off so clingy??
Q. I'm interested in this boy, and up till yesterday i thought he was interested in me. Yesterday, i had really bad PMS, and was feeling really insecure about my body and life. I mentioned this to him, and now my friend thinks i'll have come off lo...
A. 12 January 2008: Next couple times you're with him just act confident, if he brings up you acting so insecure about yourself earlier, just tell him straight up, you were having a really shitty day.
He's not going to hold that against you, not if he's a half des... (read in full...)
How the hell do I get rid of him?
Q. Hi, I have a major problem and its been going on for months. I need to know how do I break up with my boyfriend. Ive been with him 2 years and we moved in together 4 months ago and its like living in hell... He's moody, agressive and nasty and to be ...
A. 12 January 2008: Just tell him the truth, you feel after the last 4 months you guys have just grown apart and it wasn't meant to happen.... (read in full...)
Will we do it wrong?
Q. Hiya, This is two of us speaking we're 15 and 16. =] Okay, we're really confused about some sexual things so wondered if you could help us with our problems. 1. We're both thinking of going further with guys, that we like, but we're worried ...
A. 12 January 2008: I'll try to answer each question for you
1. If you don't like shaving that's understandable, I'm a guy and I don't like shaving either. But what about trimming? It is a turnoff to go down there and find alot of hair, but if the hair isn't too long... (read in full...)
Can you dye your pubic hair?
Q. Can you dye your pubic hair? Mine's so light, I want it darker!...
A. 12 January 2008: I don't see why not, I think you'd have to have a fair amount of hair in order for it to work though.... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 12 January 2008: Also, in my opinion feeding him shell fish won't do much good, personally I've never made that connection...
Asking him to do it with a mint it a better idea, if he says no to that he's either selfish or has some sort of a phobia.... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 12 January 2008: Personally I never saw fault with going down on girls.
Sure the taste isn't great, but if a girl is willing to give me oral, well I doubt us guys taste any better. So eye for an eye in my opinion.
Most guys who complain to me about it just comp... (read in full...)
Dumped my ex for being too clingy...Now want him back....and I'm being the clingy one! AAAH!
Q. Ok i'm only 17...still young and still have my whole life ahead of me...i know! ...but right now theres only one person i want to be sharing my life with. My ex. We went to primary school together and then re united when we were 15/16. we were ...
A. 12 January 2008: Tell him you made a mistake and ask him back out.
It sounds to me like he's trying to play it safe, he's scared if he gets too attached to you he'll get clingy again, and you'll end up dumping him again. I bet that's it.
... (read in full...)
My brother is addicted to grafitti and refuses to see the problem. What can be done before he tears the family apart?
Q. Not technically a relationship question... but advice would be appreciatied as I just don't know what to do. My little brother, 14, is addicted to graffiti. Completely addicted- to the point he can't last a day without going out and tagging, e...
A. 12 January 2008: Drawing can be a way to vent out frustration and anger, could that be it?
On the up side, it's probably a phase.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 12 January 2008: It's not normal, harsh as this sounds if you keep that up your going to end up in trouble for having child pornography on your computer, or maybe even something worse.
Which is an instant pass to jail, and I'm sure you've got a good idea what hap... (read in full...)
Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?
Q. Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...
A. 12 January 2008: In my opinion you should just let it slide.
When I have a girlfriend I still look at porn, and I'd never cheat on anyone. Looking at porn in no way means he doesn't care for you, when you're not around he just has to satisfy his sex needs, a... (read in full...)
Do boyfriends discuss their relationships in their friends' circle, as girls do? What about?
Q. hi this is for guys about 13-20 with girlfriends. do you discuss your girlfriends with your mates? i know girls talk about their boyfriends, how much they like them and stuff. but do boys do the same? and do boys comment on their mates girl...
A. 12 January 2008: With all the guys my own age and my friends too whenever the topic of a buddies girlfriend comes up the guys usually want to know how far they got with her, and if they actually like her not.
And although it's not the right thing to do, guys wil... (read in full...)
I found my brother and his business partner making out, they are both married, should I say something?
Q. I just went by my brother house to pick something up of mine, I have a key, so I went on in the house. When I opened the door, he was making out with his female business partner. I played it off like I didn't notice, and I don't think he or she ...
A. 9 January 2008: Telling your brother might be a good idea.
But in all fairness, it's really none of your business, personally I think I'd just let it go if I were you, nothing good can come of you bringing this up.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be involved with your 1st cousin?
Q. Is is ok to be with your 1st cousin ? i live somewhere where it is legal, but is it really acceptable in todays society, please give me your honest opinion. Thankyou....
A. 8 January 2008: People are bound to poke fun, but people are small minded, so who cares?
If you love your cousin, if it's legal, go for it!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has walked away over jealousy of my ex boyfriend, do I try to get him back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, we've lived together 9 of those months. We have been friends for 10 years, so we know each other very well. 3 months ago, he broke up with me, and because he pays all the bills, asked me to move out. ...
A. 7 January 2008: It sounds to me like he's thinking the worst when he thinks of you working at a club, with your ex around.
Most guys would probably feel a bit uneasy with their girlfriend in that position, I personally would, especially if he's seen guys coming o... (read in full...)
I'm shy - how do I get her number?
Q. im 20 and i like the 17year old cashier that works at the same store as me, its a little "corner store" type place. My problem is im too shy to actually ask her on a date or for her number, i can talk to her and make jokes with her but i just cant ...
A. 6 January 2008: this is what i do, get into small talk, then ask what she's doing on the weekend, ask if she wants to hang out, if she agrees say "alright i'll call you friday (or w/e), what's your number?"... (read in full...)
How do testicles change during puberty? Is it painful?
Q. when you go through puberty, do your testicles actually drop downwards? and is this painful? please help!...
A. 2 January 2008: You'll hit puberty any day now, most guys hit it between 12 and 15. I was a late bloomer and never even started puberty until I was 14 or 15.
For me I did get the occasional ache in my testicles when I hit puberty, but my friend told me the same... (read in full...)
We broke up. I'm scared of what my exboyfriend might do with some nude pics of me!
Q. I'm kind of freaked out. My boyfriend broke up with me and he wants his stuff back (just his games though, none of his childhood things), and I want all of my things though. The other thing I want is for him to delete the nude pictures he took of me ...
A. 2 January 2008: The guy is perverted and sounds abusive.
For future reference, never give out nudes.
My advice would be to tell him you'll goto the cops if he doesn't give them back, and maybe go to the cops.
Not to mention if you're under 18, and he ... (read in full...)
Are we in love?...
Q. Last night, new years eve, i was on the phone with my bf. he was at his cousins and one of them, who i know, got on the phone and started talking to me. shes only 12. she said to me "(his name)really loves you (my name). he didnt stop talking abo...
A. 1 January 2008: How old are you? Most people under 15 don't end up marrying their boyfriend/girlfriend, or even lasting in a relationship for a couple years.
So the odds are it isn't love, if he's been talking about you non stop he probably really likes you and ... (read in full...)
Happy Xmas from DearCupid
Q. Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...
A. 25 December 2007: Cupid, merry Christmas man, have a good one.... (read in full...)
I'm still skeptical about real love at my young age(16), but everything I've read about love applies to how I feel about him. Is it possible?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18, about to graduate and join the Navy. We've been going out for 3 months now. We're so happy together, and I catch myself thinking about him all the time. I feel like I'm living in a fog when I'm not with him, and when I ...
A. 24 December 2007: I figure someone can fall in love at 16. I mean back in the day people got married at 16, and some of them stayed happily married right up until their 80's, if that's not love I don't know what is.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me 4 times and I'n furious but I can't let go of him.. Advice needed!
Q. Last night, I my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years confessed that he has cheated on me 4 times in the past. We have been in a long distance relationship for a good chunk of it because we are both very ambitious people. I travel a lot and he is in the ...
A. 22 December 2007: He's cheated 4 times, I can tell you right now any guy that cheats 4 times isn't ready to settle down. Drunk or not, if you really like a girl no matter how drunk you are you have a mental block against going with someone else.
Sounds to me like ... (read in full...)
I spy on my next door neighbour and want to watch her have sex with her boyfriend, is this ok?
Q. Living next door is a beautiful girl my age. We are both 18. We have been friends and have flirted and done other fun things. My bedroom looks over at hers. I have sometimes seen her undressing and doing other sexy things. The other night I saw ...
A. 20 December 2007: You sound like a pervert, but in the given situation, I can't deny I might act the same way, as would just about any guy. To answer your questions, if you don't want to get caught, don't look at her, and if you do watch her having sex with her boy... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??
Q. My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I ...
A. 20 December 2007: Probably just spam.
My mother gets them, and I've been getting them for a while too.
And although I might look at porn, I highly doubt my mother does.... (read in full...)
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