I cannot concentrate any more...need to get myself through this but I really don't know how to!
Q. Hey. I've got a really big problem. Things haven't really been going right for me the past few years. I went through a tough period of cutting myself, crying every day and becoming bulimic. I've kind of over that stuff now, although I do have ...
A. 7 December 2008: The boy I like I have slept with twice. I work with him. He is a dead nice guy if you don't get involved with him in that way, but I did. I know hes an idiot, and I really hate the person he is. Yet somehow that makes me like him more.
My family a... (read in full...)
Should I finish with this guy?
Q. Hiya. Right I've been going out with this guy for almost 3 weeks now, not long I know. Problem is, I like these 2 other guys, there is no chance of anything happening with either of them as they are both off to the Marines next year. My boyfriend ...
A. 2 December 2008: Thanks for you're comments. He actually finished with me a few hours after I wrote this question, so I suppose there is nothing left for me to worry about!
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I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: I've been in this exact situation. And I stupidly did sleep with him. Twice in fact. Yeah after when you are just lying there with him, you might feel like he could grow to care about you. But the fact is, he's a pathetic guy, this is what they do. ... (read in full...)
Is a long period a symptom of chlamydia?
Q. I've been on my period for just over two weeks now, I was told this could be a symptom of chlamydia, is that true?...
A. 16 August 2007: I just started the pill, this is my first period since I've started it, could it be anything to do with this??... (read in full...)
I forgave my friend for kissing the boy I've liked for two years. Now I found out she's been doing other things with him!
Q. A few months back me and my "best mate" were at a friend's house, and the guy I'd liked for a year and half was there, she ended up kissing him right in front of me, like it wouldn't be painful for me. We were both quite drunk so when I got home I ...
A. 14 August 2007: This post doesn't give the full story of me and him, but a lot of shit has happened. He knows how I feel. He used to like me. He broke my heart, quite a few times.
Don't you think I've tried getting over him?? I hate liking him, I hate him. Yet... (read in full...)
Why do people think being a virgin at 20 is a problem? IS it a problem??
Q. This isn't a problem, its a question! But why do so many people think that being 20 and a virgin such a big problem?? And why do all the teenagers think they have to have sex at like 14, 15??...
A. 6 August 2007: Teenagers all get pressure off friends to do it. Or even worse, off the guy they are with.
There is no problem with being a virgin at 20 at all, if anything it's a very respectable thing. I'm sure a lot of people wish they had waited.
xxx... (read in full...)
I love World of Warcraft but want a girlfriend and don't want to turn into a geek!
Q. Hi, Im a 15 year old boy who is desperate for a girlfriend. But the thing is i play on world of warcraft ALOT (online game). And i dont want to turn into a geek which i think the girls think i am. I love the game but i really want a girlfirend...
A. 6 August 2007: A lot of my friends play WoW and they are all like 18.. Don't worry, girls won't think your a geek, they'll think your a boy.
Never change yourself for anyone.
Good luck sweetie. xxxx... (read in full...)
I've been dating him a year but where's all his respect gone?
Q. I have been dating this guy for the last past year and at first it was going well until he started treating me like his ex was treating him which was very disreapectful he stopped spending time with me and started being very judgemental, so now he ...
A. 6 August 2007: You have to tell him how your feeling, if he thinks its acceptable to treat you like that then he will you need to show him it hurts you. If he's worth anything he will apologise and stop.
Good luck xxx... (read in full...)
I turned him down, now he's with someone else.
Q. i really like this boy he is so nice and cute he liked me but i turned him down and i no he still likes me but i think he has a girl now and i am afraid of what my friends might say what sould i do????!!!!!!!...
A. 6 August 2007: Maybe you could talk to him?? Say you think you made a mistake.
Forget what your friends might say, if they do say anything, they aren't true friends.
Good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
Is this strange behavior, considering what she did while on vacation?
Q. I am 16 and my girlfriend (16) of 9 months now recently went on a a weeks trip with two of her friends. I trusted her fully with her friends as she was staying with her grandparents. All was well, when she got back I asked her how it went. I ...
A. 6 August 2007: I went on holiday a month or so ago with 3 friends, I was the only single one who went. I had a holiday thing with some lad, and two of my other mates did with boyfriends, however, one didn't, she wouldn't do that to him. Although your girlfriends 2 ... (read in full...)
I don't know how I would be able to deal without my boyfriend!
Q. I am 22, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. During these 5 years, he has always lied to be about his “addiction” to weed and chewing tobacco. Before we started dating, he knew that i would not date someone who smoked etc…Everytime i would ...
A. 6 August 2007: you need to decide if this problem is so bad it can't be overcome, if you decide that you have to leave him, threaten him first. Maybe then he'll actually see what he's doing to you.
About your friends and family, they will understand, and if t... (read in full...)
I have been sleeping around, but wonder if this will turn off the guy I really like
Q. Hi. I'm 16 years old and I have slept with 5 people.. All being within the past 3 months. 3 of which were on holiday, so they don't matter to me. However, 2 were in England, one being one of my good friends (we've discussed it and have decided to ...
A. 2 August 2007: Thanks everyone.. Thats actually what I really needed to hear (not being sarcastic..) I'm gonna stop being that way, and save myself for a guy who's worth it.. Hopefully one will still want me. xxxx... (read in full...)
He as nice to me on the bus, but then sent nasty instant messages on the computer
Q. This boy who I sort of like is always flirting with me on the bus and on Thursday afternoon on the bus back from school he tried to get one of my best friends to move so that he could sit next to me. He is really nice to me on the bus and he also ...
A. 21 July 2007: Guys are complicated to understand, he's probably just being your typical boy and being difficult about the situation.
Asking him to hook up probably isn't the best idea, as it might seem a bit slaggy to him, even if you didn't mean it that way... (read in full...)
I'm really confused because he said he doesn't fancy me anymore but today he seemed to act different although he's still not talking to me.
Q. This is really complicated but I'll try explain in as few words as possible. I've just split up with my boyfriend (it wasn't a proper relationship and barely lasted 3 weeks, we are on good terms and are still mates) because I liked my friend of ...
A. 9 July 2007: I take it as by telling him you don't like him anymore you were lying?? To be honest, this guy could be telling you the truth by saying he was only messing around, sometimes guys can be idiots. However, he could actually have meant what he was ... (read in full...)
I'm really confused because he said he doesn't fancy me anymore but today he seemed to act different although he's still not talking to me.
Q. This is really complicated but I'll try explain in as few words as possible. I've just split up with my boyfriend (it wasn't a proper relationship and barely lasted 3 weeks, we are on good terms and are still mates) because I liked my friend of ...
A. 7 July 2007: Try talking to him. Life is too short for not knowing what to do and how others feel as well as yourself. You never know what could happen, and you should always take the risk otherwise you'll find yourself wondering what could have been. Take... (read in full...)
I have some sex questions
Q. er this is kinda an embaressing question. but everytime i have sex i make a noise down below like a fart noise its really embaressing. also i been sleeping with my boyfriend for 5 months and i still havent come. and i also have a really stron...
A. 5 July 2007: The best advice I can give you is to go to the doctors, I know its embarressing, but you can't risk doing nothing if there is something wrong.
Doctors are trained to deal with stuff like this and see it all the time, don't worry, they will be ... (read in full...)
He told me I was too young but we got drunk and kissed; am I doing the right thing?
Q. hi,im 16 and i really fancy this lad for almost a year now, only thing is, hes 20,i told him this a while ago and he said i was too young but that it was a shame because he thought i was the perfect girl. i was at a party in his house and we both ...
A. 4 July 2007: Did you kiss him again today?? Sounds to me like he does like you, but can't do anything about it because of your age. A drunk mind speaks a sober heart. Maybe have a talk to him about how you feel and find out exactly how he feels, but he mig... (read in full...)
How can we pleasure each other without having sex?
Q. okay...me and one of my really close guy friends started talkin bout sex..but i already decided not to...so now how can i pleasure him w/ out having sex w/ him? and how can he pleasure me w/out gettin me pregnant?...
A. 19 June 2007: Theres always oral sex and masurbation, but sometimes that is still classed as an act of sex, in which case it is illegal until you are 16 here, not too sure about America though, I think it varies in different states??
Anyway, think of what you... (read in full...)
What's the difference between using condoms and having sex without them?
Q. im just curious if its true when my friend tells me that i will enjoy sex much more when my boyfriend and i start not using condoms. we have always used condoms but in about a month i will be on birth control and eventually im sure the opportunity ...
A. 19 June 2007: Firstly, you also need to think about how condoms protect you from STI's. (not trying to say that your boyfriend has them like though..)
I notice no difference what-so-ever with or without, apart from the fact that I feel safer with knowing ... (read in full...)
I was too shy to ask out my crush; how can I manage next time?
Q. OK well this year i really liked a girl and i never really tried to ask her out becuz im shy at times or i couldnt think of anything to say that wasnt cheesy...But next year im going to try to ask this girl out how should i ask her out Im 13 and ...
A. 19 June 2007: First of all, never refer to a previous relationship as a "mistake" refer to it as an experience =].
Secondly, I had the same problem as you, I was so shy around all the guys and couldn't pluck up the courage to say anything to them. Just tell thi... (read in full...)
I want to know if i should risk putting myself out there again, if it sounds like he is actually wanting it back,
Q. My name is Danielle. I don't have 1 particular question I want to ask, so I'm going to give some detail about the past of my relationship with Greg. Greg and I met about 4 years ago, he was 15 turning 16 and I was 16 turning 17. We met through ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey darling.
Well thats quite a story, and you've been through a lot with this lad. To be honest, I think that you need to move on, you can't trust this guy after all he's done to you and all you've had to put up with. So many guys out there wo... (read in full...)
I like my best mate's little brother.
Q. i am hopeless with love, even when it comes down to simple things like who to choose. i really like my best's mates little brother, and i know he did like me back, he is 2 years younger and even though i want to tell him how much i like him, i never ...
A. 18 June 2007: I suppse you never know until you try. Maybe speak to him and see what he really does think, but then before you let anything happen talk to your mate about what she thinks. If shes a true mate, she will be happy for you.
If you know he did like... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend there's a possibility I might be pregnant?
Q. Hi. A few days ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I know i haven't caught any STI's off him...but i think im pregnant. Im not stupid and on normal circumstances i would never have had unprotected sex but i was drunk and as a result had ...
A. 18 June 2007: I think that you shouldn't mention it to him until you are sure if you are or not. It could cause unneccessary tension or hope.
Leave it a few days, take a pregnancy test and be sure on what you're thinking.
Good luck.
xxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with this man when I go back over in July? He's 16 years older than me.
Q. I have a problem, I'll start from the beginning, when i was 13 i met this man who was 29 and we hit it off, he didn't know i was 13 since he never asked and i looked older for my age. He lives in the Phillipines and i live in england, and go over ...
A. 18 June 2007: To be completely honest with you, no I don't think you should. You don't have to prove your love to him by sleeping with him, and if he says otherwise ignore him.
If he is a close family friend, then he probably knows how old you are, in which ca... (read in full...)
Absolutly head over heels for my girl, but I know she's been cheating. What should I do?
Q. Ladies any advice will do. Well here it goes well i'm a male in my 20's who for the last 2 years have been in a realanship on and OFF. I'm madly in luv with this girl, the problem is that she walks in and out of my life 4 the last two years. I know ...
A. 18 June 2007: You need to tell her this, at the moment she thinks that she can treat you like this and you're still gonna stick around. Threaten her with not getting back with her next time, see how much she really does like you. If she still messes you around ... (read in full...)
The guy in the store looks at me in a way I've never been looked at before. I found him on Myspace, should I message him?
Q. I've had a crush on a guy for almost 3 years. I really like him, and I'm not sure if he likes me. I'm 16 and he's 22. The first time I saw him he looked at me in a way I've never been looked at before. I left the store he was working at and he ...
A. 18 June 2007: Add him as a friend first if you already haven't and see if he says anything to you first.
If not then go ahead and message him, the worst thing that could happen is he'd say no, and judging by the way you've described him that seems quite un... (read in full...)
We both want to kiss eachother but we're both to scared to make the first move!
Q. There is a guy I like. He is friends with a friend of mine. He has been known to get around a bit in the past but apparently around me he is shy and nervous. He wants to kiss me, I want to kiss him but neither of us can make the first move. His ...
A. 18 June 2007: I think what he's doing is really sweet, he obviously really does like you and has respect for you.
Try spending time together and getting to know each other, like you said. He sounds like the sort of guy you do want to stick around for, there ar... (read in full...)
19 and got prenant, my boyfriend was so excited... I miscarried but now I'm pregnant again he hates the idea! (+ my mom has kicked me out)
Q. I am having a hard time right now and I really don't know where to turn. I an 19 years old and was with my boyfriend for a little over a year when I found out I was pregnant. He already has a 4 year old son and I thought from the start he wouldn't ...
A. 18 June 2007: To be honest, I think the only reason that your boyfriend has said that is because he is scared of the same thing happening to this baby and he really doesn't want to get attached. Maybe try ringing him and talking about it?
I really do feel for... (read in full...)
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