My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 21 December 2007: I support Andy... (read in full...)
I feel as though my principles about privacy, property and decency are being compromised sometimes. I don't trust my bf, but I love him.
Q. I am 35 and finding it really hard to trust my boyfriend who I have been seeing for 2 years. It is not just about trusting him around women it is also certain 'trustworthy' issues regarding financial privacy and principles. I have dealt with some ...
A. 20 December 2007: if you want to continue with this nice but lousy man who is destined for personal bankruptcy go ahead.... (read in full...)
I'm a student and I want to have fun. Should I go and work in this german brothel?
Q. i am a young black woman living/studying in germany. german men show me a lot of attention and i like it. a friend of mine (german girl) who works at a place called the sexy inn (a brothel)says i would make a lot of money working as an escort. i ...
A. 20 December 2007: any tips from working girls, especially in europe ?
SHE DOES NOT ASK ADVISE FROM US!!!
Good bye, you know it all---
May God forgive you!!!
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Is there a graceful way out? I cant deal with a long distance relationship.
Q. I started a relationship about a year ago. We got along great and I thought there could be a future. But he took a temporary job out of state and has been gone for over 6 months now and will be even longer, maybe a year before we meet in person ...
A. 20 December 2007: Talking on the phone once a month is not a good sign, it is not a sign of passion which can endure an at least 1 year of long distance relationship.
I would suppose you w would be calling each other every single day but no, it is not case.
And I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is annoyed I did something that he had done in the past. What can I do?
Q. hey. i've been it a relationship with my partner for nearly a year now. at the beginning we were really happy. then about six months ago i found out that he'd been texing someone behind my back. he said some hurtful things about me to this other ...
A. 20 December 2007: He is stupid not you
I dont he has the guts to give up on you. There is nothing to worry about there is no issue to forgive.
So dont behave as if guilty, since you are not, he is...
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How should I be acting at my age of 28? Am I too old for night clubbing?
Q. This is a continuation of my previous question.... OK, so how do I deal with those immature 20 year old students who call me derogatory names, like 'perv' or 'pervert'? I am offended by these insults- I am no 'perv'!! I may be older than the fell...
A. 20 December 2007: 28 is not old for 20. You can perfectly go out, to nightclubbing etc and look to find or meet someone. You can also socialize and mix up with those other students or pub -club goers who are over 18+.
In fact I was 27-28 stayed in a residence hall... (read in full...)
We're friends, kind of ex's, and I'm very confused!
Q. i've met this guy about 4 months ago. we hit it off really, really well. we talked on the phone everday. we hung out almost all the time. everything was wonderful and i was happy to have met him. i heard he tells his friends about me all the time. ...
A. 20 December 2007: Your friends are right. Get this player out of your life please. Everything is wrong with him.... (read in full...)
He's been sending me signals, how do I make a move?
Q. What is the best way to ask a guy? I am on a board and one of the members has been sending me signals. It started with hugs and today he shook my hand and held it to his face. He has not asked me out but I was thinking of asking him to a movie. S...
A. 20 December 2007: No harm asking out for a movie or coffee. Thats the place where you will get to know each other a bit more. Go ahead. (I think you are smart enough to sense or infer that he is available) (A moard member like you comes one in a million, so seducing... (read in full...)
My girlfriend suffers from low self esteem and bulemia, I came up with some ideas to boost her confidence but my friends say I will drive her into the arms of another man
Q. I have been with my grilfriend for a over a year now, she has recently told me she has suffered from bulemia and is desperate to feel good about her self and more importantly to feel sexy again. She is gorgeous and has a beautiful face and the most ...
A. 20 December 2007: there is some truth in what your friends say. You are being too liberal. Words matter. If she said, she is flattered when other guys check her out, it is not a good sign and she shouldnt have the courage to say anything like this to you... Rememb... (read in full...)
I've suspected for some time now that my partner may be having a sexual affair, a couple of days ago I found some intriguing might be evidence and need advice on how to go about confronting her with this?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for sometime now. She is in her late thirties and very attractive. She is a director of a company and socialises a lot with business colleagues and is often away on business trips. I work as a GP in a NHS ...
A. 20 December 2007: He is a doctor for God's sake.
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Isn't it unacceptable to expect a married (or even single) woman (teacher) to share a hotel room with a man-colleague on a business trip? Am I old fashioned?
Q. This question and asking for opinions is coming from me and my husband. I am a new teacher, I waited until our kids were all in school to go to college. I am a reading specialist, and received an opportunity to attend a 3 day seminare in anot...
A. 19 December 2007: I agree with you.... (read in full...)
Will him being a Muslim prevent us to... date?
Q. theres a new guy at my school, really nice and flirty hes got my msn. we flirt constantly online and then calm down a bit in school. now i really wanna go out with him and i think he wants to go out with me.... our problem is he is a muslim...an...
A. 19 December 2007: I am a Muslim as I have said elsewhere and I do admit there might be cultural differences, but we all have differences of various kinds in our friendships and you see it here all over the place.
By the way, If you are strict Jew, Christian or Musl... (read in full...)
I've suspected for some time now that my partner may be having a sexual affair, a couple of days ago I found some intriguing might be evidence and need advice on how to go about confronting her with this?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for sometime now. She is in her late thirties and very attractive. She is a director of a company and socialises a lot with business colleagues and is often away on business trips. I work as a GP in a NHS ...
A. 19 December 2007: Why would you confront her? For what reason? A confrontation, I understand is good only if you intend or hope to have a result.
Well because she aroused suspicion, rightly in you, you had the right to look into her things and you proved right. So a... (read in full...)
She was cheating on me, how do I move on?
Q. hi im 22 just broke up with my long term girlfriend after i found out see was cheating on me just carnt seem to get her out of my head and carnt understand why she did it we were so happy now shes dating him and i know hes useing her and think...
A. 19 December 2007: Then just get her out of your mind. A woman who has cheated on you is not worth your thoughts let alone your love. And whats more she is with the guy with whom she cheated on you.
It is over. You must be lucky to get rid of this cheater without ... (read in full...)
Should I invite him out after he broke up with me and called me nasty names?...
Q. I really like jo but he broke up with me and i want to talk to him but i can never get the guts to..................and i really really wanna go back out with him but i dont think that he will because he said i was a cry baby...............and im ...
A. 18 December 2007: Yeah baby. he is not worth it. Let someone else handle him.
Really there are millions of man out there like him.A man calling his woman a whore is himself a pimp. He is a lowly man.
Please don't waste your energy on this miserable butt head.... (read in full...)
I am always the one to initiate sex.
Q. Ok, so I have been dating my girlfriend for about 1 and a half years, and we have been through a lot together. I am a junior (almost senior) in college and she is working at her dad's bank as a teller, so she obviosly gets more money than I do (her ...
A. 18 December 2007: I cant see any problem there. I think she likes it when YOU want and initiate sex and get turned on with your desire and lust.
And the fact that she says I want sex and pronounces it makes even more sexy.
I see no problem here. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure how to react when in my wife's group of friends they make referrence to... her sexual past before myself.
Q. We have recently run into a group of old friends from high school and started hanging out with them occasionally. The problem is, one of these guys is a former boyfriend of my wife. I'm not really comfortable with hanging out with someone my wife ...
A. 18 December 2007: As a proud decent man you have a right to be bothered this disrespectful, childish, insensitive people around you. Also shame on your wife for not giving due consideration to your feelings.
Anyways, you have got stop socializing with them. You don'... (read in full...)
I didn't insist to know her past; now I wonder if she's ever been married or has had kids. How to put my mind at rest?
Q. hi am 25 years of age going out with a women of 35, thats not the issue at hand what is that she has told me that there are things in her past that she thinks will hurt me but i told not to tell me coz they would probbably mess things up, its now ...
A. 18 December 2007: I don't think it is possible she could have hidden it from you if she was married and had kids.
I guess she meant she had rough affairs and may be rapes or one night stands.
You can objectively ask her what was the thing that was supposed to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that a man can ejaculate without his penis being hard?
Q. Is it normal that a man can ejaculate without his penis being hard? My b/f lately has been having problems getting and keeping it up, and so we did it doggy style the last few nights, and it wasn't even up, it was still limp, so it was hard to get ...
A. 18 December 2007: It can happen and it happens.... (read in full...)
I'm too slow to act and suffering the consequences. Can you help me out?
Q. There is a little bit of background to this so bear with me. I have been at university for a year and a half now and last year I met a girl. We had some stuff in common (we are part of the same society - it was how we met) and whenever I saw h...
A. 18 December 2007: You missed the train. I wouldn't like to be in your position though. It is I know eating you up. But ''c'est la vie".
Move on...
we all missed these kind of opportunities.
You never know, may be it wouldnt have worked as good between you and ... (read in full...)
I deceived a married man to get me pregnant and he wants to be there for us, but I don't want him near us unless he leaves his wife, what is the right thing for me to do in this situation?
Q. I'm a single mom who had been seeing a married man for two years before his wife found out. After she found out, he broke it off with me, and we were both devestated. Then I called him a few times, and we started to see each other again, but ...
A. 18 December 2007: To me you have no right to hide the baby from him and you have no right to ask him to leave his wife.
But he has got to support his kid try to be a good father as much as possible.
How is he going to work it out with his wife I do not know. ... (read in full...)
She want me, but she wants other people as well. What should I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for the last 13 months. In the beginning, she was seeing other guys, which I did not like, but dealt with it as I wanted to be with her. About 8 months ago, she told me she was stopping seeing the other guys and that ...
A. 18 December 2007: This is not called a relationship. I mean, say, if i had an agreement with a woman, that, in return for no love, no commitment, I would sleep with a woman occasionally, on the basis of an understanding. Well hey if you call it a relationship, you go ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 18 December 2007: Andy
isnt it good that we are not talking about your ex anymore.
:)... (read in full...)
He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...
A. 18 December 2007: Jenna you seem to be an educated girl and don't be upset. You know it is your choice and you made your mind up already. S.... (read in full...)
He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...
A. 17 December 2007: By the way, circumcision has almost become a standart practice in the US and doctors advice it.It appears the whole US society is mutilated!!! see below:
Circumcision statistics are difficult to obtain because of the large number of location... (read in full...)
He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hey, I definitely respect your wish and I am completely with you. i think that there are still people out there with some common sense, who would understand a partners reasonable and legitimate wish is a wish to be respected.
As a circumsized man ... (read in full...)
Is it just a phase that I should wait out to see if my husband becomes all he once was to me? I only have sex with him because it's expected - and love the man I have an affair with. Please advise.
Q. Ok, for background on this, please look up my only other question. I still am in love with my soul mate...the love of my life. He is everything that I want in life. Still, we refuse to leave our spouses for our own selfishness. We have thought abo...
A. 17 December 2007: You have put your case so forcefully that we have left nothing but to advice strongly to leave your husband at once.
As a man I would never ever want to be with a wife who is in love with another man and making fake love to me.
I certainly think, b... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past torments me, especially the visual side. She didn't know for ex. she was giving me a sex show (organised) by the time she dated my friend. Please help.
Q. ok here it goes, i've been with my wife for 13 years and we have a 7 year old son. when i met her it was with my buddy who met her the day before i did and he was ALREADY engaged to another girl. To make a long story short we all were friends and ...
A. 17 December 2007: I understand your agony. Once one of my exes told me, when drunk, she had once (years before me) sex with the guy (whose dick was so small they could not do it on vagina so they did it anal) whom he met few hours ago. Apparently my ex was too young ... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past torments me, especially the visual side. She didn't know for ex. she was giving me a sex show (organised) by the time she dated my friend. Please help.
Q. ok here it goes, i've been with my wife for 13 years and we have a 7 year old son. when i met her it was with my buddy who met her the day before i did and he was ALREADY engaged to another girl. To make a long story short we all were friends and ...
A. 17 December 2007: I understand your agony. Once one of my exes told me, when drunk, she had once (years before me) sex with the guy (whose dick was so small they could not do it on vagina so they did it anal) whom he met few hours ago. Apparently my ex was too young ... (read in full...)
I've been with my wife for 16 years now, but I have never seen her naked! Is there anything we can do so that she can feel comfortable being naked in front of me??
Q. i've been with my wife for 16 years now and we've been married for just over 7. Just when we were ounger she was very nervous and felt very insercure about being naked in front of me. Shes recently admitted that she still feels the same and gets all ...
A. 17 December 2007: Why? She feels comfortable this way and let her be this way.
It is OK. It is like, we are comfortable at the beach half naked but not at home. She is ok being naked in bed while making love but when in normal situations she wants to be decent? I ve... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm being denied close physical contact. Any suggestions?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for approx. 8 months. I go to college, and she remains near her home town, splitting an apartment. Although emotionally we have developed a great deal, and we get along great, physically, she might be classif...
A. 16 December 2007: It must be something to do with her breasts or vagina. Nothing else comes to my mind.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? He looks at gay porn on the internet but insists he is straight.
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Our relationship has had its ups and downs, as most relationships do, however, I think my boyfriend might be gay. 6 months into our relationship, I found a lot of gay pornography ...
A. 16 December 2007: isn't it clear you two have no future at all. I guess you know very well what is going on and insist on being optimistic because simply you love him. He is some kind of gay and you cannot have a normal relationship with him.
Now this kind of love ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend worries about his penis size, what can I do to reassure him?
Q. My boyfriend's too shy about sex cos he thinks he has a small penis (5 inches) and cums too quickly. I love him a lot but i dont understand why its bothering him so much when i am happy with him. What can i do to make him overcome his shyness? ...
A. 16 December 2007: Penis Size Around The World
Country
Flaccid Length
(inches)
3.4
Erect Length
(inches)
United States
5.0
Germany
-
5.6
Spain
-
5.3
France
4.7
6.2
Japan
3.1
5.1
Brazil
-
4.8
Italy
3.9
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend worries about his penis size, what can I do to reassure him?
Q. My boyfriend's too shy about sex cos he thinks he has a small penis (5 inches) and cums too quickly. I love him a lot but i dont understand why its bothering him so much when i am happy with him. What can i do to make him overcome his shyness? ...
A. 16 December 2007: What can safely be said is that concern about penis size is almost always misguided. Great sex is much more than the sum (or length) of its parts. Hopefully learning more about what researchers and regular folks have to say about penis size may help ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a bad reputation, should I be worried?
Q. I date a physician .He cheated on his wife with his mistress.He left her and is dating me and I'm a nurse were he works.The rumors at the hospital was he cheated on both xwives.Should I let this bother me?Everybody looks at me weird when I go to ...
A. 16 December 2007: To cut the long advice short, it looks a typical, doctor using his position to get one other girl thing. It is your turn now, and who know who's next.
Yes most probably your reputation will go down with him and you will be another point in the scor... (read in full...)
I like him but his english is poor, what do I do??
Q. I am 22 and i have in medical school. There is this guy that likes me but i did not take him seriously at first cos i thot he was not a serious fellow. Now getting to know him i think he is ok. THe only problem is that his English is poor and i ...
A. 15 December 2007: LOVE TAKING TIMING
RELATIONSHIP NEEDING UNDERSTANDING
CARE MEANING HELPING
... (read in full...)
He's only with me because I'm white!! Should I be offended by this?
Q. My boyfriend of nine months told me that he's only with me because I'm white. Should i be offended? [He's half Bangli and half English]...
A. 15 December 2007: yes. he must be a shallow man with inferiority complex.... (read in full...)
Do Men like it when Women make the first move?
Q. This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about it then....
A. 15 December 2007: i would have no problem with that. in fact it would flatter me.
but of course if i liked her.
so make sure he has liking towards you at the least. ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 15 December 2007: Patience and moderation Andy.
You wont like to scare the ladies off by hasty moves...... (read in full...)
Where do I find decent girls with morals? Do they still exist?
Q. Hi all, I have been a little troubled lately. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy 4 years older than me online and I found out that he is a rich sex hound. Sex-crazed, no morals, rich, conceited and he doesn't give a damn about screwing around....
A. 15 December 2007: To some people morality and decency are 1950's concept and there is no difference for a woman or a man to f...around with 10, 20, 30 and 40 or more men or women.
to them you can f...around without your morality and character tainted or changed ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 15 December 2007: Yes. thats it you had a great evening with a possible affair as a by product!
It will get even better, I am fully sure Andy!
And when the ex factor calls, you will really really be busy:)))... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 13 December 2007: Yes Andy, you are my friend, and I am with you. I will tell you again, ye sstop contacting her, do not let her see you as your friend and agony aunt. The fact that she knew him while you were together, in my view, is little more distressing. So ... (read in full...)
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