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My boyfriend cheated on me and has now he's with my best mate! I still love him...

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Question - (28 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfrend dumped me about 4 months ago,he is now dating my best freind...I am not talking to either of them and they both hate me. But the problem is I still love him. He cheated on me wit my other mate but i forgave them both for it...what do i do?... love him so much!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

I Think That You Should Just Try And Get Over Him, I Know It Will Be Hard But There Are Plenty More Fish In The Sea, It May Take Time But Im Sure You Will and If Hes Now With Your Friend And Has Ditched You For Her And Cheated On You Twice, He Is obviously Not Worth Bothering Over Beacause He obviously Didnt Apreciate You...

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A male reader, fergiepunk United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2007):

This may be hard to accept but he doesnt love you, so there's no point in it. I know it sounds harsh but it is the truth, you're better going for someone else and ignoring him, and your friend is not a friend to do something that cruel.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntDo not waste your time on your hunni. He cheated on you and is now dating your best friend. I know it's hard because you still care for him but you need to walk away and get on with your life. There is someone out there who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve!

It will be hard at first moving on from this guy, but it will get easier and you'll look back in months or a years time and wonder what the hell you saw in him. I know that doesn't sound likely but trust me it will happen. Just enjoy hanging with your mates and having a laugh. A guy will come along and sweep you off your feet!

xxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007):

SWEETHEART,

Dont waste your precious time on this cheat, I no you must be very upset and i really understand and feel for you so much... But take it from me he isnt worth you, you are worth so much more.. If you did get back he would hurt you over and over again, think of it this way you say he went off with two of your best mates not true these people are not and never have been your friends, true friends would not do this and he is just very hurtfull in his actions. Yes you are all young but its a good thing that you learnt this as soon as you did, Always be proud of who you are never let anyone treat you this way and always remember you are very special and you deserve to be treated with respect... mail me if you want to talk BE STRONG AND DONT LET OTHERS GET YOU DOWN HUNNY you will get passed this and meet someone who will treat you alot better because you deserve it TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2007):

love-him agony auntForget bout him babe, i know it will be hard but forget about them both.. hes cheated, and then finished you and ended up with ur mate, that aint a relationship worth fighting for baby.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x

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