My father is the father of my baby... I'm falling into depression... help!
Q. i dont really know how to put this, most of you will probably be utterly digusted, and wont even be able to find the right words.. but i really need some advice. about a month ago, my mom was out of town for a business trip. i am a only child ...
A. 18 June 2009: Tell someone. Tell your mom tell your best friend preferably both, get support from people. What your dad did was wrong even if you sent him mixed signals he should have set the boundary. The best way to deal with depression is to deal with the ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 15 May 2009: I would tell him. My girlfriend and I just broke up. I found out that she cheated on my over a holiday break and I heard about it but she denied it and I moved past it... sort of. The thing is after a while we started to feel distant. She of ... (read in full...)
Why is she seeming so distant with me?
Q. I am 23 and have been out of the dating game for several years after an extremely hard breakup just before college. Now I've started dating this wonderful young woman and it seemed like everything was going great... But something started eating a...
A. 4 May 2009: You can't just worry about what she may be thinking it'll drive you crazy plus its just unproductive. Have a talk with her since it is important to you. If she's into you and says its more than a spring fling and she sees you potentially dating ... (read in full...)
I just curse myself for being gay.
Q. Hey guys and guyesses! Well I've recently told people that I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. I've told 2 really close mates before now but I've "come out" as it were. People are treating me so different! I mean most guy mates are just acting so ...
A. 26 November 2008: Don't be ashamed of who you are. Some people are insecure and can't deal with ways of life that don't exactly match theirs. If you really feel that they are friends try taking them to lunch and explaining how you really need their support. You might ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he loves me too?
Q. ok i really love one of my best friends and i told him i like him but i didn't tell him i love him. I am at the stage where i can't stand to be away from him for more than a few days. I really want to date him but i am not good enough for him. i get ...
A. 26 November 2008: Please stop cutting yourself. Its addictive and won't solve any issue of depression. The whole self mutilation concept to feel alive or dull the senses it can lead to a road of drugs and other types of methods for coping with sadness.
That ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get back at me by abstaining from sex?
Q. Sorry this may be a little long but I want you to understand where I'm coming from. My boyfriend's birthday is in 2 weeks. It will be the second birthday I've been with him and I want to do something nice. Last year I bought a nice panty set as a ...
A. 26 November 2008: I don't know if he's trying to necessarily get back at you but it is possible. Have you been trying to have sex with him before this or have you not for a while?
Its possible he felt low self esteem when you weren't interested in sex with him... (read in full...)
Realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant from this?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months, we try our best to be responsible and use condoms but occasionally in the heat of the moment we don't use one (but I always pull out and she's been fine).. Well the other night we wanted to have ...
A. 26 November 2008: I would say its very possible shes pregnant. The withdrawal method is only 70% effective when its performed at its best. Meaning when very experienced individuals who have the ability to kegel well and know when to pull out then the percentages are ... (read in full...)
Spermicidal lube vs. Spermicidal foam?
Q. I was just wondering what the difference is between spermicidal lube and spermicidal foam..? and which is safer to use as well as a condom. Answers much appreciated. :)...
A. 28 September 2008: Spermicidal foam is safer because it has greater surface area but both are good in conjunction with a condom.... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 25 August 2008: I think the answer is a yes. He should stop when you tell him to but if he persists you have to show him that its unacceptable. You either stop all activity or grab him and give him a firm No. If you actually don't want him to do it don't let him do ... (read in full...)
Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...
A. 18 May 2008: Alright some guys might think a virgin? I want an experienced freak in bed. But do you want that kind of guy? Wouldn't you want someone who cares about you more than he cares about having sex with you? The guy that you'd be looking for anyway would ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't seem to orgasm when I use my fingers, please help
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know whats wrong every time I finger my girlfriend she becomes stimulated but never actually cums and I'm pretty sure she never actually orgasms she starts moving her hips faster and then stops but I don't think that lasts lo...
A. 28 November 2007: Yeah I want her to have an orgasm. I don't think she's scared about going further but I'm in no rush to move things further right now anyway. How would I ask her whats going on? I mean if I'm in the middle of fingering her and nothing seems to ... (read in full...)
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