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writes:My boyfriend wants me to get rid of my hair in the genital region. I'm not too sure about this. I feel like I have to because he won't find me atrractive if I don't but at the same time, why should I HAVE to do it? The main reasons why I don't want to do it is because I'm paranoid about geting like a shaving rash or having a bad reaction to any cremes I may use. I am NOT waxing cause that would hurt too much. Any advice? What is the best way to do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): I also reckon that you should make a deal with him and get him to have a back sack and crack wax. It is only fair and will give him an appreciation of the pain involved as well.
My boyfriend asked me if I would get a brazillian. The thought freaked me out so I started with a bikini wax and went from there. I have to admit that even though the idea appalled me at first I feel cleaner and sexier and funnily enough hornier than ever before. My boyfriend got a wax as well but only once i prefer him a bit hairy.
There is a brilliant gel called "ingrow go" availuble at pharmacies that prevents ingrown hairs. Exfoliation also does the job. I reccomend giving it a go at least once, you may just love the results.
You shouldnt have to do it but the payoff may be worth it ie he may go down on you for hours, I cant keep my boyfriend away from "down there" so its the best $40 i have ever spent i reckon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): Well, fair is fair. Tell him you will wax but he has to get a back crack and sack wax FIRST. That'll teach him!And if he refuses, then why should you get a wax? And if he has it done first, he might not want you to go through that kinda pain!LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): The reason why he wants you to do this, is because women in porn movies shave off their hair.
They do this for a few reasons - one is for a better camera angle.
Secondly, some men rather mistakenly think they will get a mouthful of hair if they give you oral sex. What rubbish.
Yes, you will get a shaving rash.
Do whatever you please and do it for you. You could ask him to shave all of his off, including his legs, and then say you'll think about it.... see what that gets you
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 Hey you do what you want to do and don't let anyone else tell you any different.
I will however tell you that i have myself done this, which was my own choice, i used a razor and shaving cream which was ok, but if you don't like it which i did not as it made me feel uncomfortable and like a child, then you have to go through re-growth which is hell on earth.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): Hey Im a guy and I find it unattractive when a girl has hair there... I can see were thats coming from but he will most likely have more sex with you if you do and just shave it there and use the shaving cream you've used on the rest of your skin and you won't get a rash trust me.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 I don't think you should shave just because he wants you to. I understand your wanting to be attractive to him, but, aren't you already? My opinion is, if you don't want to, don't.
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reader, love-him +, writes (30 June 2007):
 Hey babe, who is sayin u HAVE to do it? if ur boyfriend is.. he doesnt care about u as much as hes making out.. you dont HAVE to do anything. You most likely will get a shaving rash as most people do (easy way to reduce redness is to wash over the area with cold water, this will close the pores).. i would say shaving is in fact the best way to remove the hair, but make sure u use loads of shaving gel.. mail me if u wana talk x x x x x
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