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| | *ethalInjection-x's profile:My name's Laura, &I'm from Birmingham, in the UK.
Admittedly I'm young, but I like listening to people, &I think I'm able to give level-headed, unbiased advice.
People fascinate me, &I'd rather sit back and watch a crowd of people than actually be involved. There's nothing more interesting than how people react to the things around them.
There's been so many times that I've wanted an answer to something, or someone to give me their opinion about a situation, &there's been no one. Which is why I love this site, and also why I make time to listen to others.
If anyone wants to know more about me, feel free to visit my myspace, you can talk to me via that aswell.
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Help!!! I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty.
Q. Last night I got stupidly drunk which I don't normally do. I've never been that drunk in my life and I did something completely out of character. I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty. It was my first ...
A. 28 March 2010: Well you can't change what's happened, only learn from it.
Obviously you can't simply avoid everyone, so instead you have to brave it. Explain to your friend that it was a drunken mistake and that you regret it. If your friend is worth your time... (read in full...)
How do you know when he has cum? Does he pull a face?
Q. hi how do you know when a boy has cum during sex? it just confuses me coz i dont know what face they pull or what sound they make when they get to that moment, i never seem to know when my boyfriend has cum. i feel wet and soaked after sex d...
A. 25 March 2010: Some men don't show it on their face, or make a noise. &It can be impossible to tell whether they have or not. You should talk to your boyfriend, and ask him to let you know when he feels like he's going to.
If you stand up and something "runs out"... (read in full...)
First time questions
Q. Hi I am 21 years old. Tomorrrow, me and my girlfriend are going to have sex for the 1st time in our 2 and a half years relationship. So here are a few questions I want help with from experienced people: 1. How hard or gentle should I be with her...
A. 25 March 2010: Firstly, I think it's fantastic that you've waited so long for each other. Also, that you've been considerate enough to have a look for some helpful information.
I'm assuming your girlfriend is a virgin by the way.
Seeing as it's her first ti... (read in full...)
I haven't been able to bring him off?
Q. Hello people Ive been seeing my new guy for about 2 weeks ,we have slept together and hes never cum when doing anything what is all this about?? I no he does smoke weed and is always drinking down the pub ive just never experienced it with any ...
A. 25 March 2010: Two possible reasons for him not cumming: cannabis, not knowing you well enough.
It's been two weeks.
Secondly, for some men their testicles are really sensitive. I've had exes that LOVED having them played with, and exes that would rather me pu... (read in full...)
Paternity testing.
Q. Is it possible for a child to resemble his/her potential father and the paternity test results come out to be negative?...
A. 21 March 2010: Sure.
Think of it this way, loads of people look just like some celebrities right? Yet they're not related at all.
But, another thing to consider, if you WANTED someone to be the dad, then you'd constantly (perhaps subconsciously) be looking for ... (read in full...)
Correct way of using and disposing of a condom?
Q. What is the correct way to use a condom and how should I dispose of it afterwards?...
A. 21 March 2010: Make sure you have the condom the right way around, so that when it's put on you can roll it down over your penis. Hold the tip between your fingers (the "teat" bit at the end) so no air gets trapped in there. Then, place it on the end of your penis ... (read in full...)
Tried to finger a random girl then she told all her friends
Q. I was a nightclub recently and i was kissing a random girl and i was feeling extremly horny. I attempted to finger her but with no success. She told her friends and i am getting alot of stick about it. What should i do?...
A. 12 January 2010: Not try to stimulate random women in clubs? Just a thought.
What's done is done. Wait for it to pass like everything else.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend wants to videotape me with two other girls!
Q. When my girlfriend and I began to date, she told me she wouldn't mind if I had "women on the side" as long as she was #1. I laughed and dismissed the idea as silly at the time. She is from Indonesia (very smart and a citizen of the U.S. now) and I ...
A. 28 December 2009: I personally think it sounds like she really does like the idea of this. However, don't rush into it, as even though the fantasy appeals to her, the reality may not.. which could lead to problems with your relationship later.... (read in full...)
Torn between my boyfriend and my life long best friend
Q. First, let me introduce you to two men: Boyfriend: He is strong, smart, and the sweetest person I know. He always has great advice and never gives an answer that is anything less than thoughtful, though he is stubborn and will take it personal...
A. 23 November 2009: Firstly, what a very sad situation for you to be in. I think most of us know how it feels to be torn between two people, unsure of who the best choice is.
Your boyfriend may be a wonderful man, but judging by what you've said, he might not be the ... (read in full...)
On medication for depression but using drugs too, could I be causing myself long term damage? Please help.
Q. I'm concerned about any long term damage i may have done to myself after using drugs occasionally over the last few years. I have tried most things once or twice and have probably taken mdma/exsctasy etc about 15 times in 5 years but now usually ...
A. 21 November 2009: I don't know many facts about the particular drugs you've mentioned, but they're illegal to take for a reason, they either cause lasting damage, put your health at risk, or both. So I'd be inclined to say yes, you could well have caused yourself ... (read in full...)
How to approach the subject of giving and receiving oral?
Q. Hi i need some information on how to approach a girl whilst in foreplay and to either give or recieve oral?? Because im too shy to ask for a blowjob and im scared to pull her pants down and give her orar due to she might freak out and run off or hit ...
A. 20 November 2009: Completely disagree with the anon poster aswell. I enjoy giving oral sex, and I'm female, well the last time I checked I was.... (read in full...)
How to approach the subject of giving and receiving oral?
Q. Hi i need some information on how to approach a girl whilst in foreplay and to either give or recieve oral?? Because im too shy to ask for a blowjob and im scared to pull her pants down and give her orar due to she might freak out and run off or hit ...
A. 19 November 2009: I agree with the initial answer. But I think I could provide some insight from a female point of view. You're certainly right to avoid simply "pulling her pants down" as you put it. When a guy does happen to do this, it can actually be horrifying if ... (read in full...)
Any tips on giving my boyfriend oral? And was my experience last night normal?
Q. Hi, just a couple of questions. My boyfriend fingered me last night and got a different 'spot' to normal. It normally feels really good, but is over in a few seconds, this felt ok but my legs were shaking the whole time, is this normal? Also, I w...
A. 19 November 2009: The initial response gives fanstatic advice on the oral sex issue, so I don't feel there is much to add. However, when you say it felt "okay" and you were shaking.. do you normally orgasm? or have you ever experienced an orgasm? Because if you ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?
Q. Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy ...
A. 19 November 2009: It's only a year, infact, it might not even be a whole 12 months. That's nothing at all, so there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of people make huge age gaps work reasonably well, so you wouldn't even notice the difference.... (read in full...)
What are the best ways to masterbate without toys?
Q. Heyy :) Im a female and im 15 years old.. I like to masturbate quite alot, i want to know the best way to masturbate and the most joyfull without using toys.. please help me...
A. 10 November 2009: No one on here can tell you the best way for you, as every body is different when it comes to things like this, and the best suggestion is probably just to experiment with yourself until you find what works.
For the majority of women, clitoral... (read in full...)
Why would my ex add me as a friend on facebook?
Q. Me and my ex hadn't spoken in over a month. we got into an arguement and told me to just leave her alone so I did. There was no contact between us at all. Well last night she sends me a friend request on facebook. I still like the girl but I'm ...
A. 10 November 2009: I agree with the other answer, that she could just be curious. It could be that she wants to keep an eye on things, a lot of exes use facebook as a type of "spy tool" to keep an eye on relationship statuses, communication with other girls/lads and ... (read in full...)
Fallen hard but afraid of scaring her away
Q. Hi, I met a girl around month ago at college. We were too shy to talk to one another and a friend stepped in, turns out we had both been wanting to make a move. We've seen each other a number of times now, and we would regularly text and msn, sh...
A. 10 November 2009: In all honesty, I don't think there is a way that comes without any risks. The fact your friend had to step in in order to start the ball rolling though means that it could be she wants to make it official too, but is also panicking about things ... (read in full...)
My bf has withdrawn emotionally, now that I'm pregnant! What should I do?
Q. Bf used to spoil me at the start of the relationship -used to give me gifts etc - then I have now fallen pregnant - am half way through - its been on and off for the whole 20 wks so far, however he started to withdraw emotionally etc. I asked him ...
A. 9 November 2009: The way I see it, the pregnancy has scared him, leading to dramatic change in behaviour. It could simply be the idea of bringing a baby into the world has frightened him, as obviously it's a huge thing. Or it could be that he's not ready to be a ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!
Q. This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...
A. 8 November 2009: I never said masturbating was a bad thing for a 14 year old. I meant that reaching orgasm is a pretty hefty target to start with, which if you don't reach it, can leave you feeling disappointed amongst other things. No part of my response was at all ... (read in full...)
How can I lose a lot of weight before Christmas?
Q. Okay i need help my boyfriend lives 2000 miles away and i am going to see him just after christmas the only problem is i haven't seen him in six months and since then i have put on alot of weight and i want to loose weight for seeing him because i ...
A. 8 November 2009: My motto is always "never change yourself to please someone else". So please think about this carefully. However, you mention wanting to feel sexy again, if it's to make yourself feel better, then - Slimming World, would recommend it to anyone.
P... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!
Q. This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...
A. 6 November 2009: No offence, but being a healthy 14 year old girl, shouldn't you just be concerned with exploring and appreciating you're own body for what it is, rather than have a goal like that?
There's a lot of women that never manage it, even with all thei... (read in full...)
I won't be naked without the lights off!
Q. I had an affair with a guy. this guy i loved him so much. The first time we met i was really shy to look at him in such a way that i could not even take off my clothes when the light was on. I will just wait until the light was off thats when i will ...
A. 3 November 2009: It's common for people to be shy and unwilling to expose themselves to another person, our bodies are a private thing and it's a big step to share it.
I'm sorry your self esteem and self confidence has been negatively affected by other peoples unin... (read in full...)
What Do Some Girls Like about being cum on?
Q. Why do some girls like to be cum on? What do they like about it? Is it true that most girls do not enjoy a man ejaculating on them?...
A. 3 November 2009: It's impossible to answer the last question, seeing as no one can speak on behalf of all women.
There's loads of possible reasons why a woman could like it, it could be because it's seen as "dirty" which is usually a turn on for people, or perh... (read in full...)
How do I get a No-Strings-Attached Relationship?
Q. Ok without going into the reasons why I want one and the up- and down- sides of it: I want a sex buddy. So how do I get one? I can't (and don't want to) ask exes or female friends. How do I even let a women know that's what I want, without co...
A. 2 November 2009: The first response is handy if you cannot be dissuaded from doing this, so I don't need to suggest anything.
However, I advise against this. I personally also feel more comfortable with "no strings" opposed to relationships, as I don't have time... (read in full...)
Do her drunken texts reveal something new?
Q. We all know how blunt or honest we can be when drunk. Here's the scenario. She's 23, at a bar, drunk and I'm at home relaxing from a long day of work. Here's the texts: Me: What's up? Her: I'm at a bar babe... gettin pretty drunk haha Me: Lo...
A. 2 November 2009: Hm, it could be that she does like you in a more than friend way so to speak, but when sober she realises that other things would either get in the way of things being taken further.. or she doesn't want to ruin a friendship. Well, there are many ... (read in full...)
I want to enjoy sex, but he's too big!
Q. My new partner is also a dear friend of mine. Over the weekend we met up and when we came to "doing it" he was too big for me. We had done foreplay beforehand and he was reassuring but i want to be able to enjoy it without it hurting, any advice?...
A. 2 November 2009: I had this issue with an ex, and I had lots of things suggested: more lubrication, "stretching" more during foreplay, different positions.
Firstly, I would suggest trying to lengthen foreplay, and try not to think about what it will be like to ... (read in full...)
Are girls in this country just shallow and racist?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a 22 years old male living in the UK. I'm originally from Japan, however I've been living here for a long time, since i was young. I don't know if this type of things should be asked on here, as it's not directly linked to existing...
A. 24 October 2009: I'm going to reply again. A lot of the answers here have been quite positive towards you and we're all trying to respect your feelings. Your opinion seems unchanged however.
There are two issues it seems, the lack of a girlfriend, and prej... (read in full...)
Are girls in this country just shallow and racist?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a 22 years old male living in the UK. I'm originally from Japan, however I've been living here for a long time, since i was young. I don't know if this type of things should be asked on here, as it's not directly linked to existing...
A. 21 October 2009: Firstly, this site isn't just for questions based on existing relationships, it's generally for most topics.
Don't take this as an insult, but I'm going to have to agree with k_c100 in the sense that you do come across as a little desperat... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife I am bisexual and want to bring a man and a horse costume into our bedroom?
Q. I am a married man looking for some advice on how to break the news to my wife I am a bisexual and that ontop of this I have been attending furry nightclubs. My wife seems to think they are anime conventions, but in reality they are furry meetin...
A. 13 October 2009: If this is actually serious, (no offence if it is, it's just.. things like this often get made up).. then most women WOULD run a mile.
I personally wouldn't run a mile because you're bisexual, or because of the costume, but for the fact you want... (read in full...)
How do I leave my husband so I can have a happy life?
Q. We have been married for 5 yrs now. My husband never flirts with me nor he never takes me out. We always have sex but we have never made love. My husband has got lots of cyber relationships which i have lost count of. Each time i find out we have a ...
A. 13 October 2009: He may be doing all these things for fun, but it's only him that's actually having fun. It's a horrible and selfish thing to do, particularly when there's a child involved. He may have even thought of it as harmless in the beginning, but if you've ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?
Q. After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she ...
A. 11 October 2009: If you really cared for her.. you'd see that there's a reason she's not taking the calls from you, and that blackmailing her into answering is completely unfair.
Also, even if her reason for not answering is nothing to do with her feelings abou... (read in full...)
Am I in a love triangle?
Q. hello dear readers, so i sposted allready lot's of questions.The story is like this i've been seeing a girl for 4 months, and beetween us is real serios.She loves me and she does everything for me, we went o vacation together, she slept at my house ...
A. 11 October 2009: Well you obviously don't want to be in a relationship with the girl at the university, you made that quite clear. So you need to make it clear that you're not looking for a girlfriend or anything similar. If she is inviting you often because she ... (read in full...)
I've Known Her 5 Years...And I Really Like Her
Q. i have been best friends with this girls for 5 years ( im male and im 16 btw) and when i first met her i was really attracted to her, my feelings for her wnet away eventually but they have came back stronger and i dunno what to do. also latley my ...
A. 21 September 2009: Hmm, in these situations it's hard to say whether you've genuinely developed feelings for the best friend.. or whether you think you have simplay because they're so "familiar" to you.
I wouldn't advise you to spend less time with her in order to s... (read in full...)
Am I a squirter? Or just peeing?
Q. Hi okay recently I started masterbaiting not with fingers and once I got the urge to pee it scared me so I stroped and now I tryed something els I masterbait until I get to that point and then stimulate my clit (sorry for being graphic) and I ...
A. 20 September 2009: When masturbating, the urge to pee is usually a good indicator that you're close to orgasm. Hmm, when you "squirted" did you get a sense of relief? &I don't mean like in the sense of going to the toilet.. it's more like a wave of relief.
An orga... (read in full...)
"piercings make a girl look slutty"
Q. guys, do u like tattoos and piercings on a girl?? is a tongue piercing trashy? i want to get my tongue pierced for my 16th birthday in a few months but my boyfriend, who is covered in tattoos but no piercings, says that it will make me look slu...
A. 20 September 2009: If you want to, go for it.
Relationships don't last forever (usually) and this should definitely be taken into account. It's your body and providing you've reaserched what you want pierced &still want the piercing(s), then go for it. If he can'... (read in full...)
Met someone on the internet, but now I think he is gay!
Q. Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first ...
A. 8 September 2009: I can't offer much advice, so I apologise.
However, I will say that using beauty products and looking in the mirror is not a sign of homosexuality, just vanity. Generally vain people are very aloof and perhaps even arrogant in some cases, which coul... (read in full...)
I think I love my boyfriend, but I'm dying to experiment with a woman!
Q. I'm 18, and just about to move away to university and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 21. The thing is i'm very confused at the minute. I think i love my boyfriend - but i don't think i'm completely happy with ...
A. 7 September 2009: It's hard to know what to suggest to be honest. How long have you felt like this? As although I hate to hear this myself, I know it can be true that there are such things as "gay phases". If it's only recently that these thoughts have been going ... (read in full...)
I'm not due for my period, and yet here it is! What happened??
Q. hellooo(: i am slightly confused ! i am not due on my period for another two weeks but yesterday ( while masturbating) i started bleeding like i was on my period! what happened ?? by the way i am a virgin. thanks your comments will be ap...
A. 7 September 2009: At such a young age periods are well known for being irregular. It's perfectly normal to get a period early.
You mention the fact you were masturbating and that you were a virgin, are you hinting at the fact you think it may be due to your hyme... (read in full...)
How do I choose between friends?
Q. Hey.. so recently ive been going to my friends house often and he has an older sister (called celine) who is almost 15, my friend and I are 13. While I was there his sister had a friend round too called catherine who is almost 15 too.. so basically ...
A. 7 September 2009: You don't actually have to choose either of them, and it would probably be better for all parties if you didn't choose either. As like you said, the other wouldn't be very happy.
I doubt anyone will hate anyone else for it, as it's not a huge thin... (read in full...)
I don't want to be unhappy in my life, nor do I want to lose the "one"
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, Please help me. I have been having serious doubts about my relationship for some time, but instead of acting on these feelings and breaking off the relationship I worry that perhaps I'm giving up the love of my life....
A. 7 September 2009: It could be that you fear breaking off the relationship because he is everything that is familiar to you. Steady relationships provide comfort and are a constant in your life, so it's hard to give them up.. even when things are no longer working.
T... (read in full...)
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