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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 1 January 2012: As irony of life will have it you'll meet someone right after you've just had sex, so she wont want you. That tends to be how these things work out when you think like you do. You got to take life as it comes, and if you've decided to wait then ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 31 December 2011: I dont think a virgin who dates a person who has had any number of sex partners looks like an idiot.. And I think you are the only one who would think that. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?
Q. Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...
A. 31 December 2011: I know that feeling! You feel this way because of things he did and lies he told at the very beginning of the relationship. At the beginning is where the trust is being build, and the foundations are set for the relationship. To have a crack in the ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?
Q. Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...
A. 30 December 2011: I remember your post from earlier, about the perfume. Seems like this keeps adding up, little things here and there. But like I also remember saying, these things aren't really "proof" of anything, other than perhaps him not being sensitive to your ... (read in full...)
What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?
Q. I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...
A. 30 December 2011: I dunno.. people wanting what they can't have and enjoying the challenge? Look at yourself and your friend for example, the women treat him like shit and he lets them as well... This is a thing that goes for both genders, some people are trash and ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?
Q. Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...
A. 29 December 2011: I think if he has feelings for her he'd not show it by having his status set as married to her... I mean what message does that send out? Not much. He is right, facebook IS stupid, and it's just a status update... It wasn't serious, and most guys ... (read in full...)
No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months?
Q. No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months? We were casual for the first month and a half. Then we agreed to date exclusively. He swears he wants to be w...
A. 29 December 2011: He is full of excuses. He might not have grown up giving gifts but he isn't dumb is he? He KNOWS people exchange gifts on Christmas, he hasn't been living in shelter isolated from the world, so he knew this. His nationality also does not factor into ... (read in full...)
He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?
Q. I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...
A. 29 December 2011: And NO sex before you are legal. The laws are there for a reason, because the law doesn't think you are mentally developed enough to understand the consequences of sex, nor is your brain developed enough to comprehend to full extent what is ... (read in full...)
He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?
Q. I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...
A. 29 December 2011: Separate yourself from this bully. You are under age. You are not allowed by law to have sex, and when he pressures you he is pressuring you into doing something illegal. This act alone is enough for you to tell your parents what he is doing, and ... (read in full...)
He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me
Q. My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...
A. 29 December 2011: If you have been officially and honestly invited to come with, but don't want to because you don't like the friends, then this is what you need to think about: Is it ok for a person in a relationship to want to hang out with friends, on special ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 29 December 2011: PS. as for "relationship baggage" I ask you again to define what exactly this is. People with real "baggage", and by this I mean complications, often get them from troubled childhood or family, sexual assaults or accidents or illnesses. Not from ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 29 December 2011: Aresu, we would have been doing something else with the wasted time? Waiting or searching for someone special to have in our lives isn't exactly like putting in hard work and time somewhere that could have been used elsewhere... is it?
Yes, ... (read in full...)
After 1.5 years boyfriend wants sex but I want to wait till I'm married
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half now and he told me that he wants to have sex now, but i feel like i want to wait until im married how can i still make him feel loved without going on to have sex...
A. 28 December 2011: You don't need sex to feel loved. But after a year and half and you don't know how to show him he is loved it makes me wonder if you actually do love him. Wouldn't you know by now how to make him feel loved, as you have been together for a year and ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 28 December 2011: I don't understand. You are very focused on yourself and not looking at the big picture. There's no "fair" or "unfair" about things in life, you get what you get and work with what you've got. Some get lucky, others don't, but you can't be sukling ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 28 December 2011: Sadly?... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 27 December 2011: Oh please, you're living in fantasy land. Who ever met their "one true love" or whatever you want to call it while they were teenagers? Extremely few that is. Most meet as they grow older... What, if I was to follow your logic I might as well not ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 25 December 2011: Number of sexual partners and STD's are not linked. The conenction is never between how many partners you've had, the connection is between STD's and whether or not you've used a condom and practiced safe sex. A virgin, or a person just performing ... (read in full...)
Have you ever gotten to the end of your teenaged years and realized you didn't do anything?
Q. I'm actually quite annoyed at myself, i'm 19 and i don't feel like i've lived my teenage life to the fullest! I haven't slept with anyone.. STILL. I haven't experimented or at least tried one drug, something even small such as weed. I haven't had a ...
A. 22 December 2011: Why do you need to have all this stuff done in your teenage years? You have your whole life to sleep around, get high and wasted and ruin your life. Don't worry. You'll get around to do crazy life wrecking things to regret later on. ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 22 December 2011: Well, difference in opinion then. I don't see a person as "used up" at any stage. We're not cans of peas you know... people are people, not objects.
I think you would benefit from digging into this and think about why you feel a person is used ... (read in full...)
Is beauty a blessing or a curse?
Q. Do extremely attractive people have a more difficult time maintaining a relationship? With all their options and the multitudes drooling over them does it make it more difficult for beautiful people to stay in a relationship....
A. 21 December 2011: Personality is a huge factor into whether a person is beautiful or not. If the person is nice they can maintain relationships, if the person is horrible they will not maintain healthy relationships, regardless of looks.
Looks is over-rat... (read in full...)
How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 21 December 2011: Becoming a couple isn't exactly what I define as "playing" someone. If you play someone then all you want is to use them... ... (read in full...)
Is love really worth fighting for? Should you have to fight for love?
Q. Is love really worth fighting for. weve all seen it in the movies where the hero saves the planet defeats the bad guys and tattered and torn he gets the girl or the girl gets the guy.... roll credits. In the movies the hero faces impossible odds ...
A. 21 December 2011: As far as romance novels go it appears they NEVER fight for love.. at least never for the right reasons. They meet and end up happily ever after without knowing each other or without having anything to build a relationship on... Movies makes you ... (read in full...)
FWB said I love you, then took it back?
Q. Today I was talking to my fwb when towards the end of the phone call he said "I love you". I immediately replied with "what" since it was such a shock and he repeated it. I said "no you don't" and said bye and hung up. A few minutes later he...
A. 21 December 2011: Habit? Maybe he recently talked to his mother or something, or thought of someone he cares for, then talked to you and his brain didn't remember who he was talking to when you and him said bye, and he just did in on auto-pilot. Lots of time people ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 21 December 2011: If you can't fight 'em, join 'em? Is that your strategy? You couldn't find someone who is also a virgin, so you need to go to a "used up" woman and get used up yourself?
By the way, even if you did find a virgin to have sex with wouldn't that mea... (read in full...)
Why does this guy only text me after 11pm?
Q. Hello everyone, so there's this guy. I have had feelings for him in the past, but he's currently in a relationship. I really don't know my feelings for him right now. I've hung out with him recently, and I've noticed that (unless he wants to set up ...
A. 21 December 2011: I'm with Cindy on this, he is busy with his girlfriend the rest of the day, so can't text you then. Why would you be interested in a guy who flirts with you (11pm texts is flirting) when he has a girlfriend? If you were to be his next girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Remember the Code (Respect Girl Code and Boy Code)
Q. I'm making this article to remind many people to be aware of "The Code." No, not the code to diffuse the bomb downstairs, but the code of friendship, of love - Boy Code and Girl Code. It seems like everyone forgets what it is. For those of you who ...
A. 21 December 2011: Another girl code, don't know if this applies to boys are well, is that first see has main rights. If a girl has her eye on someone, or likes someone, then that guy is off limits to other girl friends.
An ex of a friend is ALWAYS off limits u... (read in full...)
Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?
Q. Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a ...
A. 20 December 2011: Is there such a thing as glitter deodorant? Never heard of it. While it is WEIRD, sure, it doesn't have to mean anything really. Those glitter things often spread like fire in dry grass. If you as much as touch a glittery table decorator for ... (read in full...)
I am due to fly out to see my bf but he has just dumped me! I am distraught!
Q. Ok so its less than a week before Xmas. I am due to fly out to be with my boyfriend tomorrow (6 year relationship) and he has just told me, out the blue, that he doesn't feel the same way about me any more... and he told me by email. I am totally ...
A. 20 December 2011: Don't go! Or if you go, book yourself a nice hotel or travel somewhere nearby and have a nice Christmas vacation, rather than see him!
You'll regret wasting not only so many opportunities in life on this man, but also your Christmas break on him. ... (read in full...)
How do I lose the fat from my butt?
Q. hi how can i lose weight of my butt? or build more muscle on it?? and how can i tell if my butt is mostly muscle or fat? im skinny (10stone) but i have a huge ass.. i think its genetic cos my dad has a ass (my mum said thats what she was at...
A. 19 December 2011: What to do? Get used to it, it's your ass after all, it kinda goes with who you are. Don't like it? Tough luck. We aren't all born like super models, however most of us learn with the years that the image we see in the mirror is often not how others ... (read in full...)
I kissed my 1/2 brother. Is it illegal?
Q. Okay... I will admit and I feel EXTREMELY guilty for it... I kissed my half-brother and I KNOW its wrong.... but I wanna know out of curiousity sakes: is what I did illegal?...
A. 19 December 2011: No. It's not illegal.
A kiss does not have to be sexual or erotic. A kiss can be for friendship, or for family too.
Even if you had a sexual kiss with your half brother, it is not illegal. It is illegal in most countries for you to get marri... (read in full...)
Is inviting friends over to your house during a family get together rude? This is what my cousin did!
Q. We recently had a Christmas get together with family. My two cousins, the ones who lived at the house we celebrated at, made no effort to change their plans for that day. One invited her friend over, whom none of us knew, and disappeared up...
A. 19 December 2011: It's rude. But if the parents didn't teach them right or put them in their place, and I am assuming they are either children or teenagers, then what can you do. I've seen this happen, and I do think it is rude, but it's the parents who ultimately ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not ready to get engaged, I feel I've ruined it! Please help!
Q. Dear all, I would ask that you view this with an open mind. After a string of very bad relationships and heartbreaks on both sides of the relationship, my partner T and I truly believe we have found the person we want to be with for the rest of ...
A. 19 December 2011: I still think it is way too early for any of you to even be thinking about marriage. You don't know each other. No one knows each other as well as they need to to be married after only 7 months. 7 months is nothing. The problem now is that you are ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 19 December 2011: Personally, if you have too little time in the morning to get your things together, you need to wake up earlier. It's not your husbands responsibility that you get yourself out the door on time. If you're running late one day it'd be nice of him to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not ready to get engaged, I feel I've ruined it! Please help!
Q. Dear all, I would ask that you view this with an open mind. After a string of very bad relationships and heartbreaks on both sides of the relationship, my partner T and I truly believe we have found the person we want to be with for the rest of ...
A. 18 December 2011: If you want to marry him by next summer I suggest YOU do the proposing, instead of waiting around for him to do it and make yourself all stressed out about it. When a man says he wants to be the best he can before he proposes he often has ... (read in full...)
Too scared to see a doctor. No male/female connection. no chance of being pregnant. But why no period?
Q. I really need some peace of mind in this and I have been worrying about this for too long. Basically, I've not been on me period for almost 3 months now yet there is no way I can be pregnant as I'm in a relationship with a woman. Its really bot...
A. 18 December 2011: Your body is not in balance for some reason. Could be many reasons, anything from low levels of estrogen to a low metabolism, to illness, stress, etc. You need to suck it up and see your doctor and not be a baby about it. It's your health, do you ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I'm part of his future plans. Are we meant to be together? Who knows what he's thinking?
Q. So the other night my boyfriend went out with 2 mutual friends. We'd had a spat-things I'm just trying to sort through to see where we are in this relationship. They asked him point blank, "Do you want to end the relationship?" He emphatically said...
A. 18 December 2011: I think it'd be a bit pretentious actually, to say OUR wedding and OUR kids including another person with whom you have not yet discussed any future wedding or kids. Sure, if you are currently trying for a baby, he should say OUR kids, but are you ... (read in full...)
I would prefer to see him on Sunday. Am I being mean by telling my boyfriend to get over not feeling well?
Q. hey everyone! Do I have the right to be miffed or am I in the wrong?! Any help is much appreciated!!! I'm going away on vacation Wednesday for two weeks and, thus, won't be here for the holidays. For the past two weeks, my boyfriend and I ...
A. 18 December 2011: What do you mean you wont forgive him since you wont see him for two weeks. The guy asked to see you Monday instead, so you will get to see him before you leave.
I also think you are putting way too much emphasis on the process of "gift giving".... (read in full...)
What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?
Q. I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ...
A. 18 December 2011: If it's a nasty looking shower where you wouldn't want to spend time anyway then of course... who wants to have an intimate or even sexy moment there. That's just like sleeping in dirty and filthy bed sheets. No one wants that, or will feel sexy in ... (read in full...)
I know I am using her, how do I get out of this?
Q. I'm in a very difficult situation right now. I've been dating a girl now for 3 months, she's more of a rebound gf since I just got out of a long term relationship prior to meeting my new gf. The problem is I don't love her at all. I think she's a ...
A. 18 December 2011: You just need to be honest, if you are certain feelings will not grow for her in time. I think the reason number one why you aren't feeling things for her is because you are still hurt by your ex, and haven't healed enough to love again. Not just ... (read in full...)
Guys! What are the motivations, excuses, reasons, justification for men who are cheating?
Q. I'm trying to better understand motivations for men cheating. So all the men out there... IF your woman is very attractive, always sexually available and ready for you, gives you massages, regularly cooks meals, works and pays her own sh...
A. 17 December 2011: Danger, this guy has tons of red flags. Ideally you would drop this man and move on right this minute. However I know, we want to believe in the best in people, and we NEVER learn from the mistake others made. And "everyone deserve a chance" and all ... (read in full...)
What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?
Q. I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ...
A. 17 December 2011: Ever had a boyfriend?
Showering together is intimate. You can ask the same question as to why would people sleep in the same bed together, after all they are there to sleep, snore, and maybe even fart in sleep. Plus you typically sweat in your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not ready to get engaged, I feel I've ruined it! Please help!
Q. Dear all, I would ask that you view this with an open mind. After a string of very bad relationships and heartbreaks on both sides of the relationship, my partner T and I truly believe we have found the person we want to be with for the rest of ...
A. 17 December 2011: OP, you do have a problem in the relationship, that is why you came to this site, and the questions need to be tagged one way or the other. "troubled relationship" was probably just the most fitting category to tag the question under, so don't take ... (read in full...)
Am I being controlling, or am I just being cautious and protecting my marriage from further destruction?
Q. Hello, I need some advice and opinions. My wife and I have been married for 16 years and its been a pretty tough marriage from the beginning. We have both been faithful over the years, but not real happy. I just recently realized that I've been a v...
A. 16 December 2011: So what if she does? Let her go out and get smashed, it doesn't give you a headache in the morning. ... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: Just ignore her back.. not as a game, but as a matter of fact. Game playing is immature and annoying. Just be happy you didn't get more serious with her as she is this sort of woman. ... (read in full...)
Guys! What are the motivations, excuses, reasons, justification for men who are cheating?
Q. I'm trying to better understand motivations for men cheating. So all the men out there... IF your woman is very attractive, always sexually available and ready for you, gives you massages, regularly cooks meals, works and pays her own sh...
A. 16 December 2011: They'd cheat because they pity themselves no matter what. If I remember correctly, there was an interview study in Cosmopolitan where they talked to cheaters about cheating, and the reply was that men who cheat cheat with women who are LESS pretty, ... (read in full...)
Am I being controlling, or am I just being cautious and protecting my marriage from further destruction?
Q. Hello, I need some advice and opinions. My wife and I have been married for 16 years and its been a pretty tough marriage from the beginning. We have both been faithful over the years, but not real happy. I just recently realized that I've been a v...
A. 16 December 2011: I also think you are being controlling. You are trying to think for her, be her brains, make the decisions on her behalf, chose what friends are good for the marriage or not, control when she goes out and at what time she comes home, where she will ... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: I don't think this is about being flaky at all. Being flaky is going back and forth and not sticking to it, while you and her never seriously dated, you had a girlfriend, and you were just getting to know each other. So she figured out something ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: Oh joy, lets make it into a tit for tat game, that'll solve your problems. Two wrongs doesn't make a right. Who ever said the chivalry bit was to follow after a woman in a snow storm. It used to be opening doors and pulling out chairs, if you want ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: Lets do a count and see if this thing is worth fighting for, or if you should be happy with what you got and not let a minor imperfection on the "knight in shining armor" ruin the fact that he saved the princess.
-You called and he came to your ... (read in full...)
He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?
Q. I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...
A. 14 November 2011: You liked him since you were little. He starts texting dirty with you. Dirty texts does NOT mean he likes you. Dirty texts means you are good enough for free porn. Its using you, it's lack of respect, and it is rude.
You like him, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 3 November 2011: If you care about him then you can't play him. The only reason he can play you is because he does not care! So he will always have the upper hand, because YOU care.
If you want to play him you have to not care about him, have him fall in love wit... (read in full...)
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