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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, so there's this guy. I have had feelings for him in the past, but he's currently in a relationship. I really don't know my feelings for him right now. I've hung out with him recently, and I've noticed that (unless he wants to set up plans to hang out) he only texts me at night (11 or later). Can someone please tells me what this means?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2011):
 he's busy with his GF till then and then he wants to see you... he's using you, lying to her and cheating on her...
if he leaves her for you, he will do the same to you
and at 11 pm young lady you should be in bed and getting sleep... you need proper rest to grow and develop.
I used to take my teen daughter's cell phone away at bed time as per her DOCTOR'S instructions.
TURN THE PHONE OFF and go to bed... texting after 11 pm solved.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 I'm with Cindy on this, he is busy with his girlfriend the rest of the day, so can't text you then. Why would you be interested in a guy who flirts with you (11pm texts is flirting) when he has a girlfriend? If you were to be his next girlfriend he'd do the same to you.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 He is spending the earlier part of the evening with his gf.. Also, do you think it is fair on his gf if he is chatting you up??
How would you feel if your bf was chatting up another girl? Suggest that you put him in his place and he is really gettin the best of both worlds!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 Probably because he is spending time with his gf, or texting her, until 10.50.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): Hes texting you at 11pm because hes home probably from being out with his girlfriend. This boy has the best of both worlds- a girlfriend to date and then you to text when he gets home and wants some entertainment. Sorry to be so blunt but i was here before and lets just say it doesnt work out the way u want it to(i.e. he'll string you along& keep her as girlfriend). I thankfully got some good advice and got out quick and here it is.... Firstly, take some time out to examine do you like him. Secondly think about the person he is in the relationship with-by u hanging out and meeting him, you are not being very nice to that other girl (put yourself in her shoes for a moment-would you like if some girl was texting your boyfriend late at night?). Thirdly by being there at 11pm you're teaching him that he doesnt have to try for your affection. Stop texting him back. He'll soon wonder why u have and if hes interested in you, he'll pursue you to find out why and if hes not he'll move onto the next girl. Most importantly of all, take care of yourself-the very fact your asking this question means you know its not right. U could be missing out on someone amazing because u are clouded by this boys actions. There are plenty more fish in the sea so start looking!
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