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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Was I wrong because I asked my g/f to let me know what's going on rather than making me wait for hours to find out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I had plans with my gf last night, that we had made weeks in advance, to meet up at ten pm as i was winding down from work. I'm a bartender and Thursday nights are crazy. And she was going to come when she knew we were going to exchange shifts and I ...

how can I keep my "old self" on the surface without all the overthinking ruining everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts! First of all let me tell you, you people are amazing. You do your best to help everyone and u do a really good job at it. So, to the problem. I used to be a bit unsure of myself but also i was naive enough to just live in the mome...

Boyfriend quit his job, I'm the only one working. He's angry because I bought something for myself!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend quit his job because he hated it so much. We are in week 7 of him not having a job and I don't feel that he is really making much of an effort to look for one. I am paying his mortgage (my name is not on the house) and the food for the ...

Can I live with my BF's selfish streaks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I need help understanding why all my relationships eventually disappoint me. My current relationship of 5 months was so great in the beginning. My BF was doting and treated me special. Now - it seems his priorities are shifting back - or maybe I'...

Am I an idiot for being annoyed that b/f drank at party and pushed aside our plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 6 years, and we are both 24. Neither of us drink, due to past issues in both families, and sharing the view that we don't need alcohol to have fun. Last week, a guy in his work was leaving, and so the offic...

Girlfriend broke up with me for the 4th time. I owe her money, do I leave a note with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - Even though ive been a man in the relationship and paid for our one year anniversary weekend away as well her birthday very recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for the forth time. Dont get me wrong, she has been very good to me such as littl...

What is the best way to leave this man? I cant possibly stay with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I'm been in a relationship for 6 years now I've decided to move out of new York to Florida with him left my children in newyork with my parents until I get settled out here in Florida but it doesn't seem to be happening because of him . I get paid ...

Am I too sweet and he's just not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Long Distance Flirtationship Me and my best guy friend's(we'll call him Pal) brother(we'll call him Huck). Huck and me met about a month before he deployed for 9 months in Bahrain and there was this unspoken attraction that we both fought know...

I think he's got a girlfriend after seeing a photo of them on the internet. Do I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Hi to all people here n dear cupid..I met this guy his 30 he really seems nice and gentle we been texting 2 weeks b4 we go out for a dinner he's cool guy .. we still texting now and planning for a 2nd date.but I found out tht when I search his name ...

How to cope with moving in with a SO.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, I made the grave mistake of moving in with my boyfriend. In my defence, he seemed like a solid, responsible guy, and he is! He currently carries most of our financial burden. Since he is working, and I am looking for a job so...

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relation...

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the ...

How can I get my bad temper in check, and make it clear that I love him so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am with the love of my life and I never want to loose him. He is my everything. I feel like I will loose him because of my anger. I have bad anger and a short fuse. I love him to much to every loose him and if I do I may just go craz...

Our conversations always end up in fights?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, and lately I feel like every time we talk, it ends up with us getting angry at each other. I know, I am responsible for some of it but he just acts so frustrating sometimes. For e...

My parents doubt and don't seem to believe in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, i hope someone out there can give me some help on a pretty personal issue. I am a 22 year old girl who lives with her parents. I attended University for 3 years and lived away for that amount of time and changed into a wonderfu...

What is my fathers problem? And why does my mum put up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - What is my fathers problem? And why does my mum puts up with him? My dad gets on my nerves!! Since I can remember he's always been such an @sshole. He treats my mum like ****. She pays the bills and everything in our house whiles my dad sits ...

My gf doesn't want me to please her because she thinks I expect the same back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - Hi there. I have a girlfriend and I love. I sometimes do nice and cute stuff to make her happy. And I usually expect to be rewarded for doing so by her as well. As it appears, she doesn't share my point of view. I offered her to make a romantic...

Fiance walked out on me while pregnant, I found out he's living with his ex. He wants me back but I can't get over the hurt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - he walked away without a word and left town when I was pregnant. two days later said he left to give me space. I was hurt so I didn't allow him to come right back. then I had the baby he said he was so sorry about hurting me the way he did by ...

Is it reasonable for your fiance to demand that you never speak to any exes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I recently got engaged, mostly due to the fact that I got pregnant. We were having some problems but when we found out, we decided to work on it. It hasn't been easy but things are slowly improving and we're both excited about the ...

What do I do if she comes on to me? I don't want to be on her "list of resentments"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - Hey all, I need some help! For some backstory, understand that my ex, lets call her Sue (names changed obviously) and I were a great couple back in high school and at the beginning of college despite going to schools that were 500 miles apart. Whe...

Can a man who lies to me about everything be a keeper? Should I carry on with him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid.It was a LDR but we are livin together now in Gauteng,6months now but we've been in this for 4 years nw. My problem is that-I visited him so many times at his province of residence,he introduced me to his family BUT he lied abt his mom ...

We all had plans to do stuff this summer, and now I'm not going to be invited to any of it. I'm really sad and feel lonely now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I had a falling out with the main person in my friend group I guess you can say. It was just a little argument over something really silly, something I didn't even do, but I apologized and he still won't speak to me. Well since the...

Fiance had feelings for old school friend, how should I have handled this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am a 23 year old woman, and am about to get married to my fiance, but I have an issue. He has some feelings for a girl he used to go to school with, and I let my insecurity get the better of me and caused this girl a situation where I humiliated ...

Huge row and now he isn't talking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - HELP me and my bf are 15 and been together for nearly 11 months, its now the half term and me and my bf had a huge row Friday night because I saw him hug one of his female mates, I texted him asking why this happened he told me she hugged him b...

Why is my brother so LAZY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - So, like my previous posts, this is again about my brother. My brother has Asperger's syndrome. I've learned to accept that he is and probably forever will be socially awkward. But I can't come to accept how lazy he is. As the older sister, you ...

She didn't value our friendship enough to let this happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - hi everyone! I am a long time lurker of this website. anyway, my question is- a few months ago, my friend M started inviting me to hang out wiht a group of people who she si good friends with - they are from our school but i am not as close wit...

Do I stay longer to see or do I leave now with my heart still intact relatively??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half now and we recently had the talk of where it going. He said he not an emotional guy and doesn't form attachments easily. Has had relationships in the past of few years long and was still not ...

I feel confused as to what he is thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I need help my new relationship confuses the hell out of me! I have been seeing someone for four months and I don't get my relationship!. I've been divorced twice have three kids. I started seeing my little boys friends Dad in January he split wi...

Ex sent a facebook request, is there a hidden agenda or is he trying to make me more miserable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My ex-bf broke up with me a month ago. As soon as dumped me he blocked me in facebook, messager, phone..... He was verbally and emotionally very abusive towards the end of the relationship i.e. for past 6 months. He called me wors...

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...

Why does he keep trying to communicate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me 3mths ago. I get to find out he had another woman beside me, and when it became public cause he and I works the same place and the lady comes to him and will be in his vehicle. That's when I realize that our ...

I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...

Is marriage a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...

Cross dressing boyfriend...help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and about 1 yr ago I found erotic pictures of him on the computer cross dressed. I was so upset and freaked out! He said he didn't need to do it. Well, I kept finding new clothing. When he started ...

Attracted to a married man. He is making me feel guilty because I pulled away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I had a falling out with this man I work with. He is married. I am single. We have been friends all along but there is an attraction between us which changes the friendship aspect of the relationship into something more and potentially something ...

I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated: I am not sure if I want to be in love. I mean, I enjoy being loved and to love, but it seems that every man I was with had a tendency to cheat or lie, or...

Is it even worth it to have my mother in my life?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I'm at breaking point in my relationship with my mother. We've never had the best of relationships anyway but I'm seriously considering cutting her out of my life. My mother has never liked or loved me as a person. I certainly have never felt it or ...

Need advice after having sex with my co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - My co-worker and I have known each other for a couple of years and been flirting since. He has a long term girlfriend but I didn't know this till a year later cause he never mentions her, so a long time after I developed strong feelings for him. ...

Should I try to work things out and see if my feelings come back for him or should I just cut all ties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I need some advice as i'm still a year and a half later struggling to move on from my ex, i don't know whether this means i should be with him still or not. So me and my ex have been on and off for 11 years now i love him and think about him ...

How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have...

I have a live-in mother-in-law who criticizes everything I do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hi, This is my first post. please be kind to me and excuse me for long boring passage. I have a mother in law who criticizes everything I do or say. It goes from a simple recipe to how to take care of my baby. She lives in with us. My husband...

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but ...

I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to ...

We've been together for 8 years, passion is wearing thin and I miss romance. Please advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - So I am really confused and desperate for answers. I have been with my partner for 8 years. I am 24 and he is 27. We are engaged to be married. Obviously we are very young but this is not unusual where we are from. We moved from home and emigrat...

My bf is cold and hurtful after I had a miscarriage. Any advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hi i was just wondering are these the actions of a man who loves me. My boyfriend said he needed space after i had a miscarriage. The next day after this i was very upset as i could not understand how he could turn so cold towards me. He came back ...

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...

I'm trying to take care of my children and my brothers and sisters because my father is an alcoholic. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am losing my mind. I am taking care of my two small children by myself as a single mother and on top of that I am also taking care of my Dad's kids. My brother and sisters. They are driving me absolutely crazy. They have no parental supervis...

How to save yourself from the Stress of Mr. Wrong in your Life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (?) - This is something I would love to share to everyone, especially for most female who are constantly questioning why mr. wonderful turns to Mr. houdini. I Know some might find that I am over reacting but no I'm not. I'm just being realistic....

My boyfriend doesn't keep me informed without me asking and it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - dear cupids, i have the most amazing boyfriend ever who takes every thing in his life seriously , his work , the scout and for sure me, but when it comes to telling me about it, he simply never does, even when his work involve issues that are ...

I am so happy with my boyfriend, but his roomate/ex/best friend hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys! The people on this site have helped me loads in the past and I'm hoping you can help me again with your advice. I got out of a very bad LTR last year which started when I was very young, for almost 4 years I was cheated on and manipulat...