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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I tell my boyfriend to be himself and not who he thinks I want him to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is pretending to be someone he's not... I smoke pot, He knows that and he's fine with it. But after I told him, he never shuts up about "how much pot he smokes", and "how high he is right now". I don't know if he's lying just to seem ...

My boyfriend has been taking me for granted since we got back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy from past 6 years. we broke up for a year but got back together again. We both love each other a lot but from the past 6 months he has been taking me very casually. He cuts the call in between when ever he ...

He keeps promising to marry me but seven years later...nothing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years an we've even bought a house together cause we were both tired of him renting small places. My problem is he forever promises to marry me an when the time comes he become agressive. On the past 4 months I...

My boyfriend's lack of ambition is taking a toll on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says he's lost his lust for life. And I can see a serious lack of motivation and drive but because Ive only been in the picture for two years I dont know for sure if this is a recent thing or if he has always been this way. He is a ...

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have...

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me ...

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't de...

It was supposed to be just the two of us, and now its me, him and her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Okay... So I just found out this guy I like likes me back, so I invited him to come hang around with me at the weekend but my friend tagged along too. They recently exchanged numbers and have started telling each other secrets and my friend even ...

My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...

Grass isn't green on any side it seems...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - So here is my Story, I am in school for Police Foundation and I would one day like to become a cop. I met this girl in my college that seems to also be going for the same thing i am in seeming we are in the same classes. So we start to talk and it ...

I haven't heard from him for a long time, and miss him a lot!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Thanks for help first. I knew a man three years ago from a party. Since I was married at the time, we never talked and saw each other again. I am separated now. Since I was lonely, I went to sing and met the same man again. I told him I wo...

My only problem with him is his parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but ...

Is he just a total liar? Why would he put up pictures that are found online? And make out that they are him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - There's this guy I know and who hits on me a lot. We've hooked up quite some times. He tells all this stories about being in the military, being deployed, being hurts in battle, the military training, the special courses he has, that he wakes up...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

Was it my fault that she broke up with me? Was I wrong falling in love with a recovering alcoholic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I keep hearing I should have left her alone during her tweive step program, but we were together for three months. I don't know if she drank before I picked her up to go dancing, movies, walks in the parks, trips, picnics. I stopped drinking...