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writes:I'm been in a relationship for 6 years now I've decided to move out of new York to Florida with him left my children in newyork with my parents until I get settled out here in Florida but it doesn't seem to be happening because of him . I get paid biweekly and I see my money more than him who gets paid weekly but all he cares about is gettin tattoos and when his money done he comes to me and leaves me broke but when I want to do something with my money like wash my hair at the hair dresser he all no we can't afford it right now we need the money I been out here for 2 months and I have washed my hair once and since I been here he has gotten over 5 tattoos and we living in a hotel instead of us trying to find a apartment and is so frustrating living with somebody who is not on the same level as u he is lazy dirty don't cook clean nothing throws his clothes all over the room leaves dishes in the sink leaves his wet towel on the bed and is very disgusting the only reason why I'm still here is because his temper is ridicoulus . The day that I finally washed my hair he was rushing to go home cause he works nights only for 5 hours unlike me I work nights and I work 9 to 12 hrs shifts and I still walk around like I got a full 8 hr shift and he acts like with his job you need a whole day of sleep . When we was in the salon he was rushing me and catching a attitude on front of people talking about I'm selfish because I only think of myself when we left he drove off in the car like a mad man and I didn't have my seatbelt on so he was raging and yelling at me only because I decided to finally to wash my hair to the point he told me to get out of the car he swirled to the right and hit a parked car and I fell out my head hit the window and shattered it and my foot dragged on the ground where glass and debris got into a cut that had happened to the point where I ended up in the hospital for 5 days and I had to get surgery to get the glass out and debris and I had gotten also fractured bones so my foot right now as we speak is In a boot until it heals that's y I'm still here but he blames everything on me he blames the accident on me he blames me for everything and he takes no responsibility for himself now we going well he going to court cause they charged him withwreckless driving and in the report I told the cops THE TRUTH about what happened in the car and now he wants me to save his ass so he won't go to jail and say that what I said was a lie all I want to know is what's the best way I can leave this person cause i CANNOT deal with this anymore a marriage is suppose to be 50/50 with everything and in this case is not
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 June 2013):
 Hello, I'm not sure why you are still there? He seems very selfish and it appears as if he doesn't particularly care about you or your feelings. Based on what you have written...he seems to do anything to get his way and I'll be bold enough to say that he has the potential to be abusive. So I would be careful.I'm confused as to what is stopping you from packing your stuff..and leaving while he is at work....just in case he decides to get violent if you try to leave when you are there.As a mother, you wouldn't want to bring your children into that environment...and you wouldn't want to leave them with your parents either forever. Take stock of what is a priority to you, pleasing this man or getting your life together for yourself and your children. Pack your stuff and leave for your sanity and your survival. He will drag you down to the ground with him.End of story.Good Luck.Ana
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