| A
age
41-50,
writes: This is something I would love to share to everyone, especially for most female who are constantly questioning why mr. wonderful turns to Mr. houdini. I Know some might find that I am over reacting but no I'm not. I'm just being realistic. We cannot sugar coat things that are obvious and live in fantasy. As I always say men are so easy to read. No confusion on how they act, because they are so transparent. If they're not calling you, because your Not on his mind. If his consistent and stops communicating with you, Your Not on his mind. I might have missed mr. wonderful but I know i have saved myself from Mr. Wrong. BIG TIME.So read On.. How to save yourself from the Stress of Mr. Wrong in your Life.Today, i woke up with a big smile on my face, can't hardly wait to write because I am so inspired.What inspires me? God, my family, my work, myself, music,fashion and my friends.No men in my life. I am so happy that i chose not to have one.For the last 6 months it has been like a hobby for me to reject men.Don't get me wrong, I'm not a man hater. In fact I love men. I don't have problems making friends with them.They are fun to be with, however dangerous too.I hate living a dangerous life.There are some girl's who are jerk magnet. Unfortunately I think I belong to that category.But the good thing about me is that, I make them work too much to get me.Its like No pain, No gain. Because of that, I only have 2 serious relationship my whole life.Meaning I professionally manage myself away from Mr. Wrong.What makes a man Mr. Wrong?1. If his flattering you too much. Smooth talking is a sign that your dealing with a player.2. If his consistently calling you and text you then he STOPS.3. If his giving you math. His Cheap.4. If his showering you too much attention, then he STOPS.5. If he promise or said something he could not keep. His a Liar.6. If his hiding something fishy.7. If he is married. or has a Gf. He is Taken.8. If his super rich. spoiled brat kid.9. If he emails you, Its definitely Mr. Wrong. Just don't message back.That's why it takes a lot of courage and will power to stay strong and get away from Mr. Wrong.This is for all teen age girls, young ladies, for all women out there who was blinded by this attractive creatures. Listen to me, and read this carefully.It's better not to try having someone in your life that will just hurt you mentally, physically, financially and emotionally.We all have hopes and dreams, but we all know that life is ain't a fairly tale. I'm not saying be bitter, hate men and stay away from them. Just with Mr. Wrong. You can early detect that. How? Give him a hard to time, you may like him, but not too much. Remember the act of disappearing guy is also a Mr. Wrong.If your giving him a hard time to be with you, he still stays around. It only Means he's INTO YOU.Just because your giving him a hard time it doesn't mean you can't have fun together. When you talk to him make him feel his the only one. Make the conversation light and funny. Enjoy each other.Don't be too available. If he ask you out, go out with him and have fun, Just don't think too much about kissing him. Don't call him unless he calls you first. Never text him unless he does.I know you have to be strong to do this, just think about those women who are having problems because of a bad relationship they are into. Men who just leave women without the courage to say why or some decency to make the break up official. Men who leave because they found someone new. Men who leave because your pregnant. Men who borrow money from you.Its really the cheapest thing of all. Men who do drugs. Men who have STD's.Never jump into a relationship without thinking 100 times.never look down at yourself.Feel Beautiful and Sexy.Say to yourself i deserve to be treated right.I deserve respect.I deserve Mr. Right.I believe in Love but not the kind that will stress me.Besides, its a lot easier to let go of something you never really had. So don't just jump into a relationship, just because. Well, that's it for now. I hope every girls learn from this.
View related questions:
cheap, drugs, kissing, liar, money, player, std, text Reply to this Article
Share |
You can add your comments or thoughts to this article A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour welcome. some people though think its a very bitter article.
But were living in a tough world. So we need to be brave. I am happy to know you find my article helpful.
I hope you find the right one for you. I believe there are still a few good guys left. Where you will never find yourself wondering about his actions.
But I hope you don't get so uptight like me. Sometimes i really get so uptight. Control Freak. Because you Might Missed mr. right.
Take note, Mr. Right is not perfect. I have to find myself the real description of Mr. Right but Not perfect. Once i find him, I will definitely share it to women like me.
A
female
reader, deirdre  +, writes (2 June 2013):
thank you, I love this article particularly the points towards the end that you say we should repeat to ourselves. its true, too many people nowadays sell themselves short and I am guilty of having done the same in the past. (Im 24 now) I know people who are in dead end relationships, take all kinds of crap yet refuse to admit defeat and leave because they are scared of being alone. we need to remember we were born alone and we will probably die alone, we are a whole person already and dont need someone to complete us as much as we might like that. so thank you again, I will save this in my watchlist to read over again.
...............................
|
