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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I didn't notice what might have been her attraction to me and now she seems cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - So there is this girl I know in college, we met the first week but don't see each other much. We ran into each other at a few parties where she sent me signals (commenting on stuff that she likes about me, like the fact that I'm writing a book) or ...

I feel like I'll never be loved or respected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I feel very sad, demoralized and like I should just give up on relationships. I was with my ex for six years. It was a troubled relationship. He was the jealous, controlling type, he was obsessed with my past and thought that I would cheat on him. I ...

Is this a good time to try ignorning her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - So I've heard that ignoring a girl you want to come back makes them miss you and want YOU back. The girl Im talking about is in Advanced Individual Training in Texas and just finished BCT. She says Im her favorite person on this Earth, which I ...

What am I missing? Do women just want to play games when dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - I was having dinner with my guy friends last night, and we were sharing recent dating experiences. Two of us are in our early 30s and the other guy his late 30s. As we shared our stories, a common theme emerged - we were tired of people playing ...

My girlfriends father issues and an affair with a married man whom she stays in touch with daily

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - Hi there, I have just separated from my girlfriend of 8 months.not long I know but it's been one heck of a journey . She is 32 and im 41 ,throughout our relationship she has kept in close contact with several older men. Just lunches ,drinks after ...

How do I tell my girlfriend I let another girl give me oral sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - I have seriously messed things up with my girlfriend and I need advice on how to put things right. Basically a few weeks ago I went out for my friend's birthday, my girlfriend didn't come as she couldn't get the time off work. I was annoyed ...

Why do young girls keep naughty pictures and make mean comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3901 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - hi this is not a relationship question or sex question, but anyway i decided to ask in order to get some feedback from you guys. i've been searching (and viewing)a lor of facebook profiles (of girls) and there is a thing i don't understand. why thes...

He wants anal but it hurts, and he says I'll get used to it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have tried anal sex in the past but I find it painful at times and other times it’s alright. My issue is he won’t stop asking me for anal sex even after I've had some tearing as a result ...

My boyfriend is going on a holiday with his ex wife and their child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Is it normal - or even not so normal but okay sometimes - for a separated man to go on holiday with his wife and son, if the son has been very badly affected by the parents' separation to the extent of showing fairly extreme behavioural disorder, ...

My mother's comments about me hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I overhead my mum tell my aunt that I could be difficult and she'd be surprised if I find a man to cope with me. It's the first ive heard about it, to me she says I'm lovely, just Mr Right hasn't come along yet. I was so upset to hear their ...

My boyfriend wont be nice to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf hasnt said once nice word to me in the past 5 months. He is verbally very abusive, always belittles me, never calls me, if i get lucky he might pick up my calls once in 2 days may be and that call might not last more than 10 min...

It feels I have hired an escort rather than have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half seems permanently short of money, due to a lot of things including job, child maintenance, grasping ex who gave up her own job etc. I am ok for money but not by any means rich, I can afford the basics on my ...

Disagreement about parenting styles is threatening to end our relationship. How should I approach this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I can't even think straight right now. My relationship with my boyfriend of nearly three years, who I love more than anything in the whole world, is on the brink of collapse. This is partially my fault, because I never brought it up before, an...

We can't get married so what happens if he leaves us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I have a relationship with my cousin olmost 8years we have own baby son 6 years old his healthy.... my question what if he found another and leave us alone.we cant be merried? ...

I thought she was neat and together -- turns out she's a slob who turns everything into a pity party

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - im a neat freak so to speak and my girlfriend is pretty much a slob. verry careless in her mannerisms not like when we first met. I was lead to believe she was neet and clean and hard working with herself somewhat together. She was in school on ...

He texts all day but wont be seen in public with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I had a friend who I thought would be more he made me think he liked me and some stuff happened between us. It turned out that the guy is actually gay which is fine I had no issue with that I was happy to be just friends. He would text me all the ...

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and...