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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid.It was a LDR but we are livin together now in Gauteng,6months now but we've been in this for 4 years nw.My problem is that-I visited him so many times at his province of residence,he introduced me to his family BUT he lied abt his mom that she is his grand ma and i hv jst found out the truth from his relative bt i still hvnt confronted him.Even 2day wen i ask him that that old woman,he still says she is his granny.He has a little brother,bt he said that it is his aunt's son n i found out the truth from his sister this February.His mom was married somewhere,his dad died n his mom came back to her late parents home.She now built a one room in that area,BUT my bf cant admits it is his mom's house,thats where they stay when dey r back home from Jozi.He said the house is his aunt's.He works as an assistant driver but he lied that he is a driver at that company.I found this,this month.For the first time we met he told that his name is 'B' n hv always known him by that name n all my frnds n family know it but whenever i talk to his frnds n family abt him,callin his name 'B' everyone was so shocked that dey dnt know the name.It seems am de only one who calls n know him by that name.How could he lie to me?Does he really loves me?Now am preggo,he wants to go with me to his place coz he is on work leave.What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 May 2013):
 you will never trust him. I was married to a liar like this... they are incapable of the truth about anything and there is no way to trust them.
being pregnant does not change that you will never trust him... you even came here to ask strangers what to do.
if you can manage it, I'd leave him. If you can't manage it you have to reconcile yourself to living with a man you will never trust.
and fwiw, my husband considered his grandmother to be his mother because she raised him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 May 2013):
 All the lying and drama...... WHY would you bother even thinking about this creep?????
Good luck....
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