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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...

Boyfriend's unwillingness to save money is affecting our future and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are complete opposites when it comes to money. He's all about spend, spend, spend and I'm the save, save, save type which is causing problems between us. Any time he works he wants to spend it all instead of saving. We're trying ...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so mean to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - one of my friends has recentally got a boyfriend who i think is very aggroant. he has only talked to me twice and both were mean things. him and my friend constantly give me nasty looks. and today he was telling his friends how ugly and fat i am. ...

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...

My father isn't going to be happy when he finds out how I've been spending my money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - A aunt was supposed to stop by to change my bed (long story). I wasn't at home, so when I got there I noticed she had cleaned my room. Though I appreciate the gesture (even tho i didn't ask her for it), she moved everything around. Including bank ...

My g/f blocked me on fb so her parents can't see my comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - we've been dating about one and a half years my girlfriend blocked me on facebook and told me it's because her family won't stop giving her crap about us and she's just sick of dealing with it she said it's like her parents can see things i pos...

My boyfriend said to not meet for awhile until after his divorce is finalized

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend said to not meet for awhile until after his divorce is finalized (they've been separated almost a year, and he filed for the divorce 3 months ago). He wants a divorce because his wife cheated on him. He told me it shouldn't be any...

Do you think this is a legitimate reason to end an engagement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Is this a legitimate reason to end an 3 month engagement and a four year relationship? February 25th 2013, I’m 23 and my ex-fiancé is the same age. 4 months ago my fiancé broke up with me because of something I did, or rather did not do, a few da...

Should I accept being the messenger between my divorced parents or should I just put my foot down and refuse to get involved? And how do I deal with my fathers behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I'm going crazy. My parents divorced (not officially yet) a month ago, and they both expect me to be the messenger between them. When they separated, my mom told me some things that I felt were very hurtful, so I didn't feel the need to talk to ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi Okay, I'm going to keep the introduction 'til my problem as short as possible. Please bear with me because I could really use some advice. I had a very rough childhood, bullied a lot and extreme. Then a couple of really bad things happ...

My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I...

What do I have to do to make my boyfriend realize that what I do for him/his family is out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Is it possible for someone to never be satisfied with you,rather not see how much you care.. My boyfriend of 5 years never really sees the good in me..I'v been taking care of his autistic sister for the past 4 years not because I have to but beca...

Does my boyfriend have anger issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I'd like to know if my boyfriend has anger issues or not. I was giving driving directions to my boyfriend to somewhere (about 15 minutes away) that he has been to twice before. He didn't really remember the route proper...

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the...

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

Didn't think he was the cheating type but I've caught him in lies and strange women answering his voice in the early am!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I feel like im going insane. I do. I come from a conservative family and always thought I would be with (in regards to sex) one man. I like about the idea of only knowing one person intimately and vice versa. Me and my current boyfriend wen...

My boyfriend's family doesn't like me or my children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I have been dealing with for two years now and it come and goes in waves. My Boyfriends parents dont really seem to like me or my kids. When we 1st got together it seems that they just dealt with me but you could tell by small subtle hints they ...

HELP guy who loves me only for my looks? mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instead ...

B/f can't text me during the work day yet he's on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I've posted about this before on this site, however the problem is still continuing. Every time I text my bf while we're both at work he just completely ignores me, yet he's on facebook posting statuses, liking pictures, just doing whatever. He ...

Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...

I feel like I'm disgusting to my boyfriend, why won't he make love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - I’m a 29 years old man and I’ve kind of a love problem. I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, he’s 25. We’re together a bit more than a year and I’ve to say it has been the best year of my life. He’s perfect, he’s that kind of person I’ve always wanted to ...

Now that she's got a boyfriend, she doesn't shut up about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I have a very good friend and she recently got into a relationship with her boyfriend but now that she's with him she doesn't shut up about him! How can I politely tell her to stop talking about him so much. Practically every time we ...

I need help in dealing with my self-centered father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My dad has problems communicating with people. He has a mental illness, but which one not even the doctors can pin down. Maybe a combination of Aspergers, bipolar personality disorder, and quite a chunk of paranoia. He is very self centered. T...

We are yin and yang sexually!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - my boyfriend just doesnt get me sexually. He likes it hard and fast and athletic and it takes him a very long time to come, I like it soft and slow. I try and guide him but he just takes over!! and Im swore and eager for it to be over :( tried to ...

How can I get over the guilt and open wound from a year ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - A year ago, I was going through a rough time in life. I had lost my job, which put a strain on our relationship. I/we were not talking much about our feelings and our self-worth. The relationship was strained. I had a lot of low times and did ...

My bipolar boyfriend keeps disappearing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2136 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. I know that causes mood changes. Every time he gets paid ( he is on disability benefits ), he disappears. It's usually for about three or four days. Sometimes, he texts and calls me during that time, but sometimes ...

Her awful childhood has led her to a lot of problems, I don't know whether I should try to help her and stick around. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - This is a long winded story but I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible. I've known my girlfriend for 4 yrs and we have been dating for about 2 months but we started really talking a month before that. Word around town was she was a easy ...

Would you apologise again or just leave things as they are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - Long story short, I made a bit of an ass of myself at my friend's 40th birthday party at the weekend. We all got together on Saturday and spent the weekend together, I only really know the husband and wife who were giving the party, the other...

What kind of games is she playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - I am in love with a girl which happen to be sitting close to me while we were writting our s.s.c.e exams in 2010,but I didn't tell her then not until august last year,that's 2 year after we left the secondary school.when I first called her on the ...

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...

Is this how boys are? How can I get over this betrayal? He told me his actions are "part of being a liar"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup... When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me. I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to m...

We broke up but it hurts so much. If I leave it too long, to contact her, will she will settle in with her new choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - So i was in this wonderfull relationship, with my girlfriend for 2 years, We are both in our 20s Over the past couple months our relationship has gotten worse. We were not very close, i tried to do what i could but i guess it wasn't enough or the r...

The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

27 February 2013 (?) - I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...

What can I do? I'm scared my boyfriend's just gonna be like this the rest of his life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 24 years old. He dropped outta High School due to severe insomnia. He has no license, no job, and syill lives with his parents. He has big plans for his future but it seems he doesn't care to do anything about yet he always complains ...

My g/f likes to flash her guy friends just for fun?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - My gf likes to flash her guy friends just for fun I don't care but she continueisly says that she feels bad and that she dosent want to do anything that we as a couple don't agree on she asked me if I mind and even though I say I don't care she says ...

Should I worry that he still sees his ex and thinks of her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - hey all im 24 and pregnant with my second child, this one is with a man that is 49. we have a great relationship and im proud to have found a man that treats me like a princess. however, we got together the wrong way and i regret that i took him...

Help me understand him. Is he a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Dear lovely aunts, I need your help.. I've known this guy for 20 years, not close friends but families are close friends, his mom always wanted us together ever since we were kids. I was always emotionally unavailable and never considered him. We ...

Any tips on coping with the stress and co-parenting with a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Majorly stressed out with work. I work from home so my son doesn't have to go to daycare full time-but this means that 4 hours of my work day, he is here (makes it very hard to get work done!) My job is very stressful and doesn't pay well. Anyw...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...

Should I just wait to hear from him? He's digesting the news that I used to be an escort

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - A few years ago I fell into hard times and began escorting. I did it for 2 years off and on and just enough to get by. I eventually quit and have since than went back to working a real job and a normal life for a few yeArs now. A few months ago I ...

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my ...

Girlfriend stood me up on valentines day and now says she's too busy to make up the date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - my girlfriend stood me up on valentines day saying she needed to study for exams. i had made some pretty big plans and felt really horrible. at first I didn't tell her about this but she realized something was bothering me so i finally told her...

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, bu...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

Relationship Questions. Here are a few to answer or ponder on. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi folks,could you please answer the following questions? 1. Do you agree with this statement? -- "Men do not want female friends. They have their friends, and aren't on the lookout for new females to add to their circle, unless, of cours...

Married friend is mad at me because I told him I won't get messed up with a married guy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I will make a long story short. I am friends with a married guy. We work together. We are attracted to each other but have not crossed the line. Recently I opened up to him that I was involved with a guy who was married once and...