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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We are fighting over our on and off sex drive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have gotten in alot of fights over sex. We used to do something every night but now its maybe once or twice? She wouldn't be turned on and I wouldn't be turned on as well. We got in a fight once a really bad fight. She told me ...

Is it worth staying in a relationship when its difficult to get along?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a solid 9 months. He is older than me. I am 18 and he is 27. HE is an illegal immigrant and he has a 1 year old daughter with his ex. I found out about his daughter and literatly unbalanced ex 2 months ...

I'm getting mixed signals from ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - So, me and this girl broke up about 9 months ago. I've met and dated other people, lived my life in the meantime. Yet I can't get over her, my mind keeps going back. We still meet every now and again and get along great. People who don't kn...

Are there income disparities in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I moved to another state to be with my fiance after he asked me to move in with him. I sold my house and moved away from all my friends to a small rural town. I am from a big city. I got laid off, lost my husband--all life changing events. He r...

I honestly can't envision a future where its not me carrying the bulk of the load. What do you advise I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I've been in this relationship for about a year. We were together for like two months, before I broke it off, and then maybe half a year passed before we got back together, which is where we are now. Its not all bad things that I have to say abou...

Am I overreacting about his annoying habit of 'liking' his female Facebook friends' photos?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now but we've known each other for years and everything is great except there is one small thing that's annoying me... He likes a lot of his female Facebook friend's photos. They vary in c...

I have a phobia of being left behind or abandoned. Nothing I've tried is helping, and I'm afraid it is going to tear my relationship apart.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I have a phobia of being left behind or abandoned, and it immensely effects many of my relationship. My current girlfriend, was originally my best friend for three years and on the fourth year she asked me out. When she goes out with her family, ...

Stress has caused us to fight a lot lately, and the last one, he got a little violent. I don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - So here is the thing. We have been in a great relationship for almost 3 years. I love him with all my heart and he is the type of guy who brings me flowers for nothing in particular. We moved in together about 7 months ago and things have been going ...

What can I do about my grandma showing up at our house all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I'm living with my father, because of my parents recent divorce (I'm ok with it, I could see it coming for a loooong time). My dad and I were alone, we needed to learn how to do the stuff my mom usually did - making soup, for example. So we k...

How can I be more patient waiting for him to propose? Why is he taking so long to take the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have been with my SO for 4 years. I am in my mid 20s and am fully ready to start a family. My SO is almost 30 and says he wants he same thing. I genuinely believe him, but he's been saying this for the past three years, and I cannot help but ...

Should I be jealous or get used to the relationship that my B/f has with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I am with my bf about 18 months, I really love him and I can see he loves me,we plan living together etc..Everything would be ok, if he wasn´t still friends with his ex..I mean very good friends. They´ve been in one group of friends ...

Tormented by jealous thoughts - please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I'm really struggling to deal with my paranoid and jealous thoughts at the moment. I've been with my partner for over 3 years now and we got engaged in November, but for some reason I just can't stop thinking that he is cheating on me or up to no ...

I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...

Do you think he loves me, or do these signs suggest he is sleeping with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend asked me out wen I was 14..we have been dating for 4 yrs now although he is 12years older than I am and I lost my virginity to him.I love him but in our first year of dating I found out his supposed ex gf was pregnant for him..I was too ...

Should I postpone our wedding? Things are so tense at the moment with his kids and I don't want to move into that kind of environment....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hi there. I'm engaged, my boyfriend is a bit older with sons of 14 and 12 who live with their mom and visit at weekends. Everything was fine over past 2 years, but recently he has huge rows with kids, I guess their age etc. Things get so tense it's ...

If we get together it will be a LDR, she is worried about our age gap and she already has a FWB....should I leave now before I invest any feelings into someone I have no chance with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - Hey! I am 27 year old male with college degree and stable job. I am financially stable and have established lifestyle. I met a 20 year old girl on facebook and have been talking on the phone and through text. She is from Texas and I am from ...

Is my boyfriend trying to punish me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I was with my exboyfriend around 10 months. In this time we broke up 3 times. Firstly he broke up with me after 4 months because I couldn't go to the cinema (i have a one year old and my parents couldn't baby sit) but I could on the thursday but ...

He does not want to talk about the things bothering me in our marriage. Should he be willing to talk? Or do I over-analyse too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - modnote: earlier question -posted August 13 2012 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-just-learned-my-husband-fathered-another.html Further to my question dated 13/8/2012, the tests reveal it is his child. This woman made my life a living he...

Can you help, please? I don't know how to ask my friend to the dance !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - dear cupid, i have a friend who i havent talked to in a while... It's not because things got weird or something, its just that we dont have classes together anymore and i hardly see him! I really want to ask him to a particular dance ne...

How can I move on now? I am still as miserable the day I discovered his cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have gone though hell! Ater 23 years of marriage I found out my husband was secretly meeting a younger woman who was previously a lesbian for walks and hitting on her a year and a half later I feel like I've had no closure and am as miserable ...

Are my own actions becoming part of the problem in our relationship? I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have so many trust issue, that it is going into my relationship with the person I am in love with. I really want to marry this man, but i find my self pushing him away from me. I have been hurt so much in my life and i have hurt him. i think he...

I lost my virginity to him, but now it seems he's ready to move on. Do you think he is breaking up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and dated for two and half months. I loved him and thought he loved me and I lost my virginity to him the second month and three weeks later he sends me a message saying he hasn't been feeling hisself lately and that he is overwhelmed ...