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Archived questions from: 25 February, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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He's hot and cold and I'm shy! How do I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - Why is he hot and cold? I really like him:(? So I've liked this guy for months now. It all started when whenever I'd look up he'd be watching and would look away when I catch him. He'd talk to everyone but me. Now we talk and sometimes he a...

Can I shake off these feelings of detachment or are we destined to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (M - Hi There. I have been in a relationship for just under a year and a half. It has been the best relationship I've had in truth. But something has changed and I'm not sure why. I'm in my mid-twenties and have had several relationships since I wa...

My boyfriend disrespected me by walking away with another girl after a party infront of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I have been a relationship for 4yrs, we have had some rough patches such as last year I attended his birthday party and he disappeared then i learned he disappeared with another woman. This year,he held another party and the woman was there, d...

Was breaking up the ideal solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (M - Hi everyone. Here goes. I broke up with my girlfriend ~1 month ago. We are both university students. She is an undergraduate student and I am a graduate student; I work full-time all year and I get 3 weeks off. We had been dating for 14 months. E...

I don't understand my girlfriend's behavior and I'm worried that something is really off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (M - i don't have a clue what to think about this situation and i'm incredibly confused about what's really going on. i have been with my girlfriend for about three months now, but something in the pit of my stomach tells me that i'm missing somethin...

We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3866 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he ...

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or n...

How can I make my dad understand my college situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I got into college last September. Although my college has many, many, ridiculously too many parties, I never went to a single one. I tried to get in the whole college spirit but I just don't enjoy getting stupid drunk and hangover. I went EVERY...

What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. ...

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

She keeps finding fault with me. Though not afraid to ask for presents.Help please, because I am confused about what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (M - My gf and I have been dating for 2.5 years. We spoke today over the phone, and she asked me if I want to know what she feels right now. I said yes. She said that a few days ago, I had put her down. I asked how. She explained that she felt hurt wh...

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...

I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...

He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...

He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

25 February 2013 (F - I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

25 February 2013 (M - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...

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