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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We have children. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. Will he ever change? All his money goes on his lifestyle and we struggle at the best of times

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I guess like a lot of girls do, I thought I could change my boyfriend. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. His friends are no good and he doesn't look after me or our children as he should. I don't work as my youngest is 3 weeks old, and my olde...

What do we have together? He will not confirm if we are in a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi cupids any chance of a little help?? Been seeing a guy for 5 months now, it’s been ok-ish. I've began to fall for him and I’m not sure I’m doing the right thing allowing myself to as he's so complicated. He’s got a lot going for him, he ...

How do I go about getting rid of my lazy unmotivated Bf? But how do I cope with his threats to harm himself if I do leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - In my last question I had asked what I should do about my lazy, unmotivated boyfriend. Well, I'm at the point where I think I'm almost at a decision. But now, I need help in a different way. No matter how loving and nice he is to me..I just don'...

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

How should I resolve this situation? My husband's Rock music addiction is causing me problems and now even the neighbors are complaining.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - On here, you often hear about partners with gaming addictions, well, how's this for an addiction; rock music ?? I knew my husband liked music, of all types, had nothing against it, but now he's missing out on sex with me, work, time with friend...

How can I help my Bf? He was sobbing uncontrollably after spending time with me. He admitted he has problems at home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Last night my boyfriend came over to my house. We talked, ate dinner together, then watched a movie in my room, we did make-out once and then we fell asleep. When I woke up it was about midnight and he was sleeping with his arms around me and I no...

He keeps reminding me that I gave my virginity to someone else who later ended up dumping me. What can I do to improve our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - i have been in a relationship since 5 years.in between a guy came in who seemed more promising n committed proposed me.he seemed very serious.and i lost virginity to him.i was deeply infatuated with this 2nd guy and later i was dumped.the first guy ...

How to deal with being hurt in the past so it won't ruin my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I would like some serious advice on dealing with past trust issues. I've been in three major relationships. One of them ended because I broke up with her over her getting into some things I found unacceptable - drugs and self-destructive behav...

What can I do to make my parents be okay with this relationship? Or break up with him because they say he is no good for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi Guys, So me and this guy are in a relationship since a month now. I really love him a lot and he says he loves me too. I'm pretty sure he's telling the truth. We have know each other a long time and it's amazing what is happening now. ...

How do I forget about her and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - My question is how do I get over a hard love feeling ? I've been in love with her for period of 4 months but lately I discovered that she is in love with another man though she says she is still loving me at the same time she spend most of her time ...

I'm worried my boyfriend will soon start thinking I'm fat and stupid the same way that my ex did.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - First of all I've been in a very happy relationship for over two years (on and off for 2 years previous to this), my boyfriend is great, he cares and he loves me, he knows I have bad self esteem issues and always tries to resolve them. In the past ...

He re-arranged my furniture because his kids wanted it that way! They were guests, surely they should have left it alone?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Please help. I have stayed over at boyfriends place before, when his two kids of 9 and 7 were visiting as well. (They live with their mum.) There were no real problems. He had some time off to look after them when they had a couple of days off ...

My overweight family keep calling me fat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - My family keep caling me fat, My younger sister is at least a stone or two heavier than me (atleast 14lb heavier than me for those who aren't from the uk). My mum is overweight, my dad is overweight and yet all they ever do is call me names like fat ...

Her boyfriend saw the message I sent to her telling her I missed her, and now she claims I've ruined her life! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - So this girls boyfriend of 3 1/2 years dumped her last year and said he never wanted to speak to her again. We started seeing each other and hav been seeing each other constantly the last 10 months but it was never a relationship, always in ...

Does low self-esteem lead to infidelity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - Just trying to make sense of something that probably isn't easy to make sense of. I recently broke up with my longtime gf of nearly 6 years after catching her in an inappropriate text/email/Facebook "flirtation" and the subsequent lies she made in ...

We've just got back together but he's changed his Facebook to 'Seperated'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - dear cupid, this may seem a trivial question but is really bugging me. Why would your partner who ive have 2 kids with and have recently in the past 6 mths gotten back in a relationship with change his relationship status on facebook to seperated? ...

I'm not convinced the girl I'm dating feels the same way about me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - Been seeing this girl for the last two months and even though we get along very well and I am quite fond of her, I'm not that convinced that she feels the same. She always tells me her troubles or drama going on in her life and I patiently listen as ...

Were we right to breakup? Should I try to get back together with my ex? We broke up after Christmas.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - This is kinda long ... thanks for slogging through it. My bf and I broke up right after Christmas. It was a mutual decision after several years together. He's kind, funny, generous (would give the shirt off his back to a stranger who needed it), ...

What should I do about this seriously selfish relative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - i would greatly appreciate any views on this situation. My mother has an aunt who i can not stand. She is the most selfish narrow minded women i have ever met. Completely opposite her sister, my nan, who is such a beautiful person. When ...

How do I get past this traumatic abusive depressing relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I finally broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I started dating him during a very traumatic time of my life and I was looking to be saved and he was a charmer. Soon into our relationship I noticed very possessive jealous behaviour. He was not ...

My girlfriend wont get engaged to me unless I get her a 20 000 euro engagement ring

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some more advice please. I ve been agonizing over this for some time, would be really interested to hear what others think.. My girlfriend w...