Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he still smoked weed but his mom didn't know. I told him to quit and he said ok. His mom did a drug test on him 3 months into our relationship and he tested positive but she told him not to tell me. He said he would stop drugs because my mom said she would make us break up if he didn't and he didn't want to let me go. Behind my back for the rest of our relationship he flirted with girls in his class but would tell me they liked him but he didn't like them. One girl even bit him on the arm but he told me not to get mad at her. Also he was doing drugs behind my back without me knowing. Then one day my birthday came and I turned 17 and he was still 15. His mom told me her son was to immature for me and I need to break up with him. I didn't because I thought I loved him. She even told my mom the same thing. She complained to her son that his girlfriend was 17 and would probably leave him for an older more mature man. After I turned 17 he started acting different with me like when I would go to his house he use to always stop what he was doing and be with me but then he starting avoiding me and whatever he was doing he wouldn't stop to talk to me unless his mom made him at school he acted like his normal self. This went on the last month of our relationship. My good friend that is a guy and also kinda sorta his friend told me to dump him because he was no good for me. Well I never did but my boyfriend broke up with me after 10 1/2 months. He did it over a text message. After 3 days of being broke up me and my good friend are boyfriend and girlfriend. Now my ex is trash talking me to people at school. I would like to know why he is doing that and why did he break up with me. He gave no explination. Now when he sees me at school he hides behind friends and runs out the door. Sometimes I catch him starring at me.

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