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female
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30-35,
*mamonsta
writes:This coming Friday is mine and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary. I've been living with him for a while now and I love him so much. He means everything to me and we can talk and be together all the time and never get the slightest bit tired of each other. But our sex life sucks... I'm 19 and he just turned 21. I know he used to masturbate all the time and had no problem and he still can without a problem, but when it comes to the act he can't really keep it up. We can't really do any foreplay because when he gets it up, we have to hurry or it wont last which just isn't that enjoyable for me. Sometimes he can last inside me but most of the time he can't.I want to buy some toys and stuff but its kinda embarrassed because we live with his parents and they are kinda nosy, so buying online is out of the question and im embarrassed to go to a store...thanks ahead of time for everyones help :) I do love him and i'll never get give up on him.
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reader, yankit +, writes (18 November 2009):
this may sound mean at first but thee's a point to it. Many men need to masturbate rather than have intercourse in order to have an orgasm. So my advice is to get involved with his action in order to recieve the attention you deserve.
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reader, imamonsta +, writes (18 November 2009):
imamonsta is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually, we were first living together with two of his friends and that is where had our first time. I forgot to mention we were both virgins when we met and are inexperienced. He had more problems there than he does at his parents. I'm thinking it is because he just worries/thinks too much about it. =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): There are many factors to take into consideration here...you live with his parents, the idea of doing it in my parents home is enough to make me be celebate! Have you tried doing it somewhere else where you will have privacy? Try borrowing a tent and camping out together for a weekend :)
Now, there can be the possibility that he has trained his manhood to cum quickly thru masturbation, but that doesn't usually apply to men this young...I think it has more to do with the pressure of your current living situation. Why don't the two of you get your own place? You are old enough to have sex, you should then be mature enough to support yourselves.
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