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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 months, anyways it was june 2007 and i already have a baby with my on and off boyfriend and we had broken up again so i went out one night and saw this guy that is friends with the guy i met in 2005. It turns out he got my number from him and called me and he came over, we started going out a lot and ended up sleeping with each other and were doing it all the time but remember about my on and off boyfriend... well somehow we got back together and i stopped talking to him for a couple months but eventually i missed the guy and left my boyfriend and got back with him, i keep playing with both of them and i've been doing it for a long time.It turns out i got pregnant by the guy and couldnt have it for a lot of reasons so i went back with my on and off boyfriend and got pregnat 3 months later and had the second child with him but again i left him and am now talking to the guy from 2005 and it turns out he has a girlfriend now and he told me he was in a relationship and we should be friends but 3 weeks ago we went out and slept with each other and he's been acting different, he doesnt call me like he used to and he wants to sleep with me only?I'm confused. What do I do?
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
Actually, I'm sorry I came across so harshly. I just wanted you to see things the way someone from the outside would see it. The two relationships hold no future for you, really. I wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I want to let u knoe that i do respect my self and my children THEY are taken care of if u only knew why i did that then u can judge me but u dont no one is perfect and i asked for advice not to criticize me i been throw alot THANK ANYWAY !!!!
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reader, tjazzy +, writes (1 December 2009):
You sound like you enjoy unprotected sex a lot. Are you aware of the health risks you're exposing yourself and your partners to? Why not for the sake of your child button up your pants for a while. I assure you it will help you gain some perspective on where your life ought to be headed. Life is more than getting good looking guys to sleep with you. What plans are you making to educate your child? What plans are you making to secure your financial future? Like you said, the two guys enjoy the sex with no strings that you represent, they don't respect you, but it's only because you don't respect yourself enough. Think about it.
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