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writes:Please help,I don't know what to do.Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up.My bf, has some family issues which he can not tell me for a month so it must b serious. Here are the things he told me on msn:- --- l?v??g ---- Fs???a - says: ill tell u in a months time ---- l?v??g ---- Fs???a - says: sorry ill tell u in a month ----l?v??g ------ Fs???a - says: cause its confidential ---- l?v??g --- Fs???a- says: its bad --- l?v??g --- Fs???a- says: let me change it -----l?v??g ---- Fs???a - says: its really bad family problemsseems pretty serious to me. Like I don't know whether to finsih it with him to like give him space or stay with him. Like, my dads left, we cant afford to keep some of our pets, ie 2 dogs 5 cats, mah gran is really ill and to top it all off, this with him and his family. I want to be there for him but I don't know how if he wont tell me whats up. Like his parents have told him he isnt aloud to go out anywhere for a Month, basically all through my summer holidays.Please help what shall I do?
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 I am going to tell you this, because recently the same thing has happened to me.
I am rather open about it, because of how horrible my mom treated me, and all the rumors she spread about my dad and me just setting it straight.
However, i can understand why it could be hard for him and you. And i sympathize with your situation. You just have to give him time, and like bowsandcherries said, dont pressure him. In all honesty, it could end up driving you apart.
Bowsandcherries has it right. I hope everything workds out for you.
If you need any help, just message me =)
Nick
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 July 2009):
 the only thing you can do hun is let him know you are there for him should he wish to talk to you
don't pressure him into saying what's wrong he'll tell you in his own time.
just make sure he knows you'll be there when he wants to tell you and you'll be waiting to listen to him and help him in anyway you can he'll appreciate it and perhaps just leave the problem alone until he decides he is ready to tell you he will appreciate that you have left him alone for a while.
i mean still talk to him just don't mention what's going on in his life as he'll probably appreciate you just leaving it until he's ready to tell people.
hope this helps hun message me you want to talk further :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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