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writes:I've been with my boyfriend about a year now but its suddenly hit me how bad i treat him.We are in a long distance relationship and see each other at the weekends but i have realised i take everything out on him and start stupid arguments for no reason at all.I don't mean to and i didn't realise i was doing it until i sat and thought about it.I'm suprised hes put up with me. I don't deserve him at all and i know it. I just want to know how to stop it and treat him nicely, we do have good times together and hardly argue.How do i tell him i'm so sorry for how i've treated him and make it up to him?Thanks.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 LDR's are hard to maintain at best. The only thing you can really do is by actions, not words, Because we all know that talk is cheap. Do the little things, it can be as simple as a hug some days. It does not mean you have to lavish gifts upon him,.. but why don't you give him the surprise of his life by sending HIM some flowers. As hard as it would be for a guy to admit it, they would enjoy that token gesture as well, I know I do!
Don't beat yourself up over it though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): hi im christina
well i think the best way is to call him..and tell him that u were oblivious to ur own actions and u sound sincerely sorry..i would forgive u if i was in his position..but im sure hell understand cuz hes still with at this point and telling him will make u feel a lot better..to make it up to him maybe the next time u 2 see eachother u can do something special for him..it doesnt have to be money-wise but maybe something like a nice massage or make him dinner or u kno even something small would make a big difference =]
good luck
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