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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am with a guy who is completely in love with me and wants to be with me and I don't know what I want. Is there something wrong with me? I hear about all these girls who turn 30 and who are still single and can't find the right guy and here I am with a guy who is head over heels for me and I am lollygagging in the relationship not knowing where I want it to go. We're long distance and he wants to take the necessary steps for us to live together but I am worried about him changing his life for me if I don't know if he's the one. I know I am so lucky to have found someone who loves me but I am scared committing because I have just been hurt really bad in another relationship.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 July 2009):
HMM DO YOU LOVE THIS GUY cif not can you see you self falling in love with him? It sounds like your letting a past experience interfere if this man is as good as you say it seems like a good deal express your concerns with him maybe hes willing to take things slower
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