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36-40,
*urul.hana
writes:Hi there. I feel that im in a confused state. I got to know this guy, age 29 back in 2008. FYI: im 22. We officially became a couple in jan,2009. But we broke up a month later because i was still having flings with my ex bf and he couldnt accept the way i was. I know i was wrong. So we broke up. Then we never contact each other for a month. Later then, he msg me. We went out, as if nothing happen. But what really confused, whenever we out togather, he will kiss me on my forehead. When we go for movies, we will cuddle up and sometimes i can even sense that he smelling my hair. The only different is that, he will asked for my permission before we get intimate with each other. I'm still his wake up call. Sometimes he need to work in the middle of the night. So I will stay up just to wake him up. Basically, i still have that special feelings for him, and i want to patch things up with him.Im doin things so willingly for him, that i jolly well wun do for my frens. He's a great guy. I was just stupid and immature for treating him that way. Is it okay to tell my feelings to him? But how? Is all this signs are really frenly gesture or he has something for me too? Im afraid of rejections. and i dun want to risk myself getting hurt again. Once was enuf.Help.
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reader, nurul.hana +, writes (25 July 2009):
nurul.hana is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi its me again.
Guess what? I took the courage and told him evrything that i felt for him. I didn't went straight to the point. More of beating round the bush then the real deal came out from my mouth. And he said, in a gentleman way which made me felt calm, he told me not to be confused with love and care. He cared for me. And he treasure our relationship more now compared to the times we were togather. I cried a little but felt better after that. He even cheered me up with silly jokes without feeling awkard or anithing. I feel that its better we are like this for the time being. He said something like..maybe if we were meant to be togather, we will be togather. That just another way to make me feel better. But its okay. At least now i know where i stand. Im his close friend.
And i want to thank everyone who replied to my question! Thanks thanks a lot! I appreciate it! =)
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reader, nurul.hana +, writes (14 July 2009):
nurul.hana is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying to my question. it really help alot. But i haven give it a shot yet.
To Satindesire:
He's my everything. He's a friend, bestfren, my personal technician (hehe...he repaired so many things over at my place)and he understand me, not waiting for me to show and say much about my personality. And i love his maturity. The moment of the break up, it really change me. He even realised my change in attitude. Im much much more patience and open minded. Whenever he mention a girl's name,even tho she just a fren,i become jealous. I not the type who feel jealous,easily.And the best part, my parents love him. My family dun really fancy my past bf(s). He's the first. I swear, no other man can be a replacement. I love him so much. And im prepared to go thru every bit of life with him.
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reader, nurul.hana +, writes (14 July 2009):
nurul.hana is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying to my question. it really help alot. But i haven give it a shot yet.
To Satindesire:
He's my everything. He's a friend, bestfren, my personal technician (hehe...he repaired so many things over at my place)and he understand me, not waiting for me to show and say much about my personality. And i love his maturity. The moment of the break up, it really change me. He even realised my change in attitude. Im much much more patience and open minded. Whenever he mention a girl's name,even tho she just a fren,i become jealous. I not the type who feel jealous,easily.And the best part, my parents love him. My family dun really fancy my past bf(s). He's the first. I swear, no other man can be a replacement. I love him so much. And im prepared to go thru every bit of life with him.
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reader, venisonstew  +, writes (14 July 2009):
I'm under the impression he saw you weren't ready the first time around. He did contact you again, which tells me he gave you another chance. He definitely feels something for you, so tell him how you feel. If I had a guy smelling my hair when cuddling up, I'd melt! lol
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