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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

Is it possible to really love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Is it possible to really love two people. Me and my childs father have been together five years. Weve been thru alot and i love him he is my best friend. But nine months ago we seperated and i met smeone else. It seems like i fell in love at first ...

Should I move in with her once her husband leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I met that married woman and had a sex with her the same day. Last June we went to vacation together, she came back pregnant had an abortion while still living with her husband. She has told me, once her husband is out I'll be in. The woman never ...

I think he is my soulmate but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I need to know his feelings about me. This man and I have developed a really strong friendship. In fact, I would say he is probably my very best friend. We met by circumstance last year and immediately, I felt this strange cosmic connection like he ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

Torn between two guys. I'm SO confused, what do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So lately I'm really confused. I've been single for 8 months and started talking to two guys just as friends. Then it turned out I started liking them both. I kind of therew off the older one since he'll be in college, but he tells me...

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to ...

How can I stop myself from falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - How can i stop myself from falling in love with my best friend? I'm freely bisexual and so is my best friend. Anyway, we have flirted a lot in the past but nothing had ever come of it. We have only known each other for like 6 months but we just cli...

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...

I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long d...

Boyfriend's tattoo of his ex wife's name on his neck - is it unreasonable of me to want it removed or covered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm 29 and he is 37. We have been together for just over 3 months but i'm already in love like never before. He was with his ex for about 12 years and a few years ago got her name tattooed on his neck in large letters. He has said he thought they ...

Who do I choose and how do I handle this situation efficiently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - The commitment phobic guy who will always cheat or the man who might not be able to fully understand me and my issues. Am a somewhat complex individual with a few issues which means only a few people understand me and can handle my mood swings, ...

Her 16 year old son is ruining our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - after 2 and a half years of dating my girlfriend tells her 16 year old son that lives whith his dad about us and he flips out and tells her if she does not break it off with me he will mever hav anything to do with her again. now she says she has ...

Is my boyfriend's mother too clingy or am I being over sensitive??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 20 and I'm 18. He's just about to start his third year at University and I'm about to start my first University year in the same city. He's an only child, and his parents had him quite la...

Relationship troubles and thinking of another guy.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi i have been with my boyfriend almost 6years now and i am in my early 20s. We argue a lot and he doesnt really treat me well all the time. I recently went on holiday and met a guy out there, nothing happened but we liked each other and since i got ...

I really can't stand her ex being in her life...am I being difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is still hanging around her ex and it really hurts, but I don't want to resort to leaving her, because I do love her and believe that she loves me too. What should I do about this? You see, me and my girl are in a long distance...

Why was she sitting on his lap? is it all as innocent as he makes out or was he cheating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Last year my husband finally told me the truth about what really happened when he was involved with another girl before we got married. We have been married 4 years, together 10 this year, and about 5 years ago he cheated on me with a coworker.. So ...

Should I stay with my girlfriend? Leave her for my best guy friend? Date a different girl? Or go to college single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - So this is a bit of a sticky situation. Over a year ago, my best friend (turning 20 years old this December) was suicidal and I (just 18 this year) was her go to person. During one of her episodes she confessed that she couldn't be with the person ...

Dating a new guy but my ex is back on the scene....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - so there was this guy i dated for almost 4 yrs, we were crazy in love and he meant the world to me,after 1 yr of being together i feel pregnant we were so happy life was perfect for us, when our daughter was born things were great, but she fell ...

Friends with benefits with one guy, and now a second guy has given me his number. I don't want to play them both - how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I have been having a sexual relationship with someone at work. It's been going on for several months and I have no idea how long it will last. I think I have developed feelings for this person but don't want to admit it as I don't want to end the ...

Is a threesome classed as cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to get with another girl cos he thinks it will be such a turn on. I don't mind I said il do It but is it classed as cheating if he was there? And where can you meet a girl who will wanna do it? ( no escorts or anything...

Guy cant seem to make up his mind - me or his GF. Whats going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) - This is long i know so if you're not going to read it please don't answer. I need help. Me and a guy friend since school (we're both 24 now) used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stup...

Torn between two women...I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) - Ok, I'm a 22 year old college student. I am torn between two women. I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down. They both have feelings for me and want to exclusively date. So I have classes with one of these girls 4 times a ...

I love him with all my heart and yet just like Eve, I surrendered to temptation because of my weakness. Is there any hope to reconcile?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we were happy all throughout. We moved in together on our 2nd year and lived together for 3yrs. Ever since we moved in together, we had less and less sex. it would be about once a month.. i would get ...

He said he had a great time with me, yet he ignored me for nearly two months. Why contact me now?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Any insight as to what is going on in this guy's head would be fantastic. I'm pretty confused. In early April, I was an active member on a dating site. A guy messaged me and we began chatting rather frequently. After a few weeks of messaging bac...

My best guy friend is leading me on... Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - My best guy friend is leading me on. He's always looking at me when we're hanging out together, even if our other friends are there. I'll ask him "what?" and he'll say "nothing" but keep looking. We talk all the time and he teases me all the time...

Not sure about my LD relationship anymore! there is another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Well, this is kind of complicated.. and I could use some advice please.. I haven't told anyone about how I'm feeling and I think I just need to tell someone and get some help. Basically, I met a guy on the internet in February we started going ou...

He asked me for a threesome but I'm insecure do you think I will benefit from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - First of all, I'm single since a couple of months. Now, an acquaintance of mine, a nice and funny guy who's been in a long-term relationship for several years, just asked me if I would be open to a sex experience with his girlfriend and possibly (if ...

Torn between the two !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I am having the hardest decision to have to choose between two great but very opposite guys. This is all since my ex has expressed his feelings to me in a significant way. We have a son together but we went on a break many months ago but I had since ...

What's the best way to make her think, and choose me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I've been fooling around with my classmate for long months now. Each time we went out, we ended up in bed together (not having sex, just petting and cuddling). She's in a long term relationship with someone else. Back when I started to fancy her, I ...

Have I made the right decision by not contacting my lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I'm a married mother of 2 and recently ended an affair with the love of my life. I know most people think this when they're having an affair but he truly was the love of my life. He was my first. We met in high school and 18 yrs later, met again ...

I still love him but he's in love with another girl. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 7 months, we used to have a great time. In April he told me that he was with a girl he met 2 weeks ago, and he also said that it was a joke, nothing sirious. Two weeks after that he told me that he's in love with his best ...

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a ...

How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my ...

My man's kid plays with her kid, and I am worrying that the mum is coming on to my man!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hi agony aunts and uncles, i hope you can give me some advice on this problem i have, i always come to this site for advice, it might be nothing, but from a outside view you will be able to tell me if i am being silly or it needs addressing. I am...

If she doesn’t like boys, why is she still with him? Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - Okay, I’m a gay guy stuck in a sticky situation, no pun intended. I’ve been hanging out with one of my friends from high school recently, and she told me how she doesn’t have feelings for guys anymore, and she introduced me to her boyfriend, whom is ...

I like 2 different girls who might like me too, but they are both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - So... I'm interested in two different women at the same time, and I think they think I'm funny and might consider a relationship with me, except that they're both in one two, though both of theirs is bad... Any ideas? And I'd like to remain friends ...

Do I keep my baby and raise it with a man who won't even let me finish school because he is afraid I will "meet" someone new? Or do I abort it and go back to the guy who possibly fathered my child, denies it, yet wants to rebuild our relationship? ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm not on here to be judged. I'm here to get honest heartfelt opinions from people who don't know me. Here is my story, I'm 18 years old, high school drop out, been through the bad and the good. My life is not one to be judged, I was in court bat...

What did this married man mean when he described his relationship to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - "Being Married but not to each other" When a married man say this about his marriage, what does it exactly mean?...

Torn between my boyfriend and a new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - i have caused a huge mess and i know i deserve every last bit of what i've caused but please, i need some help. i was with someone who was good to me for a couple of years now. i know how much he loves me. he loves me more than anything in the ...

He said she was "just a friend".... should I believe it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Sorry this is long, Im just so frustrated! I'm not sure if I even want to know or not, but this thought has been troubling me for a while now. I recently broke up with my boyfriend. During the relationship I was concerned about him having feelings ...

What if I break up with my boyfriend and regret it and I'm not happy with the other guy? Or what if I don't and I end up completely happy? How do I decide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - So, I have been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years. We broke up after about 6 months because we were both in different places, but got back together afterwards. Since then, things have been great and our relationship turned around so ...

Why isint he sure of what he wants? I'm tired of the mind games...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Ok I am in serious need of some advice here as I am super depressed.. here it goes. Nine months ago I moved from Canada to Australia to meet up with some girl friends and stay on a one year visa to work and travel and have fun. I met a guy almost r...

Can both parties actually get over cheating? Will I stop feeling guilty for what I did and will my BF actually ever be able to forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I recently got very very drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I hardly knew the guy or what was going on at the time, there were no emotional feelings whatsoever, he had a girlfriend too and we were both pretty embarrassed in the morning. I went ho...

Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I ...

His lil sis is wrecking my head with her childish behavior, help !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - I am so annoyed and upset with my bfs little sister. She has really annoyed me because their other brother has a fiancé and his sister has her head up her effing arse! She wrote on her facebook wall. "Beth we should go on holiday. Would be soo cool ...

My ex bf wants us to have some fun and make it our little secret so my Low sex drive Fiance don't find out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - ok well im back with another dilema :( my ex boyfriend (not my bby daddy) has been talking to me. he was always a great friend but when we were together we had sex once and thats all. we stayed in touch after we broke up.he was always a better ...

I want to be with my girlfriend, but everything is pointing to a break up. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - I am 18 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. She is head over heels in love with me, and i thought i felt the same, and i think i still do, but sometimes i'm not quite sure. It's been a rocky relationship ...

I have a girlfriend of 2 years who would never betray me, but then another woman who gives me what I need....who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - i've gotten myself into a terrible situation and i need advice, please. i have been with my girlfriend for two years now. she's been very good to me and treated me well. i know she would move mountains for me if she could. and she's a great pa...