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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now. And the one thing on the back of my mind, is his best friend. I've started developing feelings for him, and it's just come on so randomly. There's just something about him, that clicks ...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

She likes me but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4945 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - see there is this one girl who likes me and i like her to but she has a boy friend but she does not want to hurt his feelings what do i do?...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

Complicated... a married woman, a dance partner and my love of dance !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - This is COMPLICATED !!! I'm a dancer, I dance on stage as a demonstrator to an instructor teaching others how to dance, I'm very popular because I have a sense of humour and I'm very strong ! (don't consider myself attractive) I am in a position...

I never thought I'd be in this situation caring when he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice... I just recently divorced my husband of 2 years. Because of that and some other reasons I moved to another city to start my life all over. This is a city where I've had lived before and have some friends. The thi...

I have a sinking feeling that my bf is in love with another girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have a question, my boyfriend last night told me that he was sorry about being snippy at me the last couple of weeks. He then went on to tell me that he has been snippy because he is confused. He went on to say that he didn't want to tell me about ...

How do I get my girlfriend to realize this guy isn't backing off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend (18 y.o.) and I (19 y.o.) have been dating for 4 years. It is a long distance relationship (about 3.5 hours distance), but I drive down to see her every weekend. I grew up with her (I've known her for 7 years), so I sho...

Should I go back to the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told ...

We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...

Do I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so heres the deal. I'm pretty sure I am falling for one of my speech and debate team mates. I am a jr. in high school hes a senior. My car is broken down so after practices hes giving me a ride home (twice a week). There is only one problem, he ...

Encouraging words for when your boyfriend has a "girl friend"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hello all, I’m sure this topic come up a lot here. Well, I’ve been with my guy almost 2 years, we have a good relationship, and we enjoy sex / exploring our desires. I see him on weekends only. I love him dearly. I try not to think he would ever ...

Torn between my ex and new dude

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I ...

I like the new guy but he's got a g/f, wonder if I should get back with my ex, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I've liked this guy for around half a year. He was single but i was in a relationship. Two months ago i broke up with my bf (not because of the guy i like). he tried to kiss me only about two weeks after the break up but i backed away, because it ...

I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relatio...

What should I do about this mess? And how do I get him out of my system for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - I'm writing this as i've been in this situation for too long now, just over a year in fact. I feel like i'm being manipulated and would appreciate any feedback. It all started when i got back in contact with somebody i knew from school, it ...

I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i really like this guy he is so cute but he is already with someone else!!! its so not fair he's noticed me and everything and he allways teases me and talks to me if its fair to say there relationship is coming apart but the girl is my best frien...

He has a girlfriend but I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i am in love with a guy who is in a relationship and i don't know what to do. we can call him J. we went to high school together and spent the second half of our last year together all the time. we kept in touch during our first y...

I don't like my gf's guy friend, but I don't want to overreact . Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I'm feeling jealous. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, and for the past 3 months our relationship has been long distance. I will be visiting her in about a month. When we weren't apart, it was obvious that one of her male ...

My best friend wants the boys when I like them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - This all started a year ago when I meet this boy I really liked him We became good friends and he liked and we made out couple of times but then my best friend said she liked him too and she also made out with him and she told me to stop talking ...

I don't know which of the two men to choose from!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So here's my problem, 5 months ago I met this guy (GUY B) at work and at first I didn't really get attracted to him. But after like 2 weeks of working with him I got attracted with his physical appearance and personally I usually get attracted to ...

My boyfeiend keeps going back and forth and I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So i have been with this guy since our 7th grade year and i am now a freshman in college. We had our ups and downs like normal relationships. During our 9th grade year he kept breaking up with me and then 3 weeks later we would get back together. ...

I’m trapped between three guys with no way out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It seems like a life time ago but it was merely two years when I fell in love for the first time with my dream boy (Boy N), however when my best friend turned on me and told him I didn’t run away I started to talk to him. He showed little interest ...

Should I let my wife's relationship with Matt bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Should I let this bother me? My wife is in nursing school. The past two days she's mentioned having lunch with the same guy. Matt. When she first mentioned him back when school started I casually asked about him. She said he's married but havi...

Should I confront my bf about the inappropriate text messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years, last year, he lied to me about texting another girl because I would get "jealous", when I confirmed I wouldn't, he apologized and now tells me when he texts another girl. This morning though, ...

My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married ...

Is my husband in love with his best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...

Was I just second best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so i was a bit bored the other day and decided to look through the guy im seeing's facebook not to check up on him or anythin just out of curiosity really. So anyway we've been seein each other since the beginning of the year but we started ...

There is no room at the Inn for our best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I have 2 best friends, named Ashley and Mary. Ashley has a job and is going to school, and Mary doesn't have a job and is doing an internship and not getting paid for it, and I have a job and I'm going to school. We have all been talking about mo...

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would ...

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, ...

Why would he get sent to jail, and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Moderator Note: Two questions combined from same asker. So me and this guy I'm "talking" to and have been for 3 months, go to diiferent schools. They are in the same city and county and stuff just diffrent highschools. Well we ate in a sexual r...

Dating a week and his already in love ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been dating for very long (one week) and hes already told me he loves me. my problem with that is..i dont feel the same way. i care about him and love hanging out with him and our friend who for now im going to name c. also ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

Yikes, do I rekindle the old flame or cultivate the new one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have an old love (over 20 years) that I reacquainted with this summer after finally ending a messy divorce last year. My old boyfriend lives far far away and works in remote jobsites so he is rarely available. In the months since I last seen ...

I like this girl but her friend likes me! What do I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I really like this girl, so much I think I'm starting to fall for her, she likes me too, but the problem is that her friend likes me too. The girl I do like has said she feels bad and stuff cos of her friend and I dont know what to do, should I try ...

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...

Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we ...

How can I show her I'm telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this ...

Two guys, one me, big problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I think I've messed up. I am recently divorced after 14 years of a miserable marriage that I was never happy end. I have also recently gotten back in touch w/ some old friends. One of the guys tried to kiss me a few months back (before the ...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I like this other guy ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend. He is amazing. Sure, we argue sometimes. But he is AMAZING. He loves me so much, and thinks I look beautiful no matter what. He will do anything to make me happy, and just would do anything to make sure we never break up. Well ...

Confused about my feelings for this older guy vs. the guy my age

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I left school in June this year. I suffer with depression. I loved school an awful lot and missed it unbelievably. I was delighted in September when I heard from a teacher, asking if I'd like to assist in teaching a year 7 class every Friday ...

Love VS Like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I think I really got in over my head this time everyone. So I feel in love with this girl that I have known for a few months but she was going through a lot of thngs with her ex boyfriend. I felt as tho she was not ready to pursue a relationship ...

Getting over my ex 11 years later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been married to my current husband for almost nine years. We are a very happy couple, always together. We both have a child from a previous marriage. The problem is, that I still to this day cannot fully get over my ex. Is it because ...

I am having an affair with my first love ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I've being married for 8ys but so much in love with my first love who's with someone. We meet and ended up in bed. I just went him bac. Please help...

I met Helen, who was seeing my friend John, while she took a break from Tim

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - In March 2010, I met a lady(Helen,29) who worked as a waitress at a bar I frequent. During the following months we would talk and it seemed as if there was a strong connection and chemistry between us. Unfortunately, Helen was not available as she s...

I invited her out but she wants to bring a friend ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I know a girl for sometime and we do share some chemistry between us. Now I have invited her to come out for a coffee which she agreed to. Unfortunately her friend from overseas is also over to c her (didn't c that coming) and so she wants to bring ...