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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I feel I missed out, I've only ever been with my wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I married 20 yrs I know all my wife's sex partners. We went to high school I've even know what they did because she told me year 20yrs ago. I have seen her have sex with one at a party. I cant get it out of my head its driving me crazy . I have ...

We are going to hang out at his apartment, alone, and I'm as nervous as all get out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for two months now and thisnSunday we are suppose to hang out at his apartment, alone, while his roommates are at work. We've hung out before just not THIS alone. And well, clearly I'm nervous as all get out. He is ...

I'm trapped in a loveless relationship. Should I just pay him to leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Trapped in a loveless relationship. I am not married. I've been in a on/off relationship for 8 yrs. my problem is that after a split of around 9 mths I stupidly got back with my ex. He had lived with his mother most of our relationship which had ...

He tells me that he loves me because I love him and it feels good to be loved my someone. Is that enough???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on a trip and we'll be staying the night together at a hotel. I thought we would sleep together (for the first time), but he wanted to get a room with two separate beds. This bothered me because why wouldn't he want to ...

I'm married with 3 children, one of my children may belong to my lover. How can I make everyone happy? I don't want to lose my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I got married eight years ago to a man i seriously thought was my soulmate. Shortly after our wedding he started shutting down sexually and left me wanting for more. Since that time i have had a few affairs, nothing that would threaten my emot...

Need advice! Is he genuinely interested or just wants sex or some action?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This a guy I met at a party who's going to the same school as me next year, and we started talking on facebook. We would talk for 3~7 hours a night and we have really entertaining conversations. I can't tell what his intentions are, and I'd really ...

Does a broken hymen grow back if you don't have sex for a long time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Is it true that a broken hymen heals back into place after a long abstinence?...

Thirty Three Years of Marriage with the last 6 years of no sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I haven't had sex for 6 yrs. I brought a vibrator and love using it... I've tried to make my husband want me by posing naked and doing sexual dance moves ... He is still not moved by my moves, does this means he doesn't want me? ...

I feel isolated and hopeless to ever have a good relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I have been in a second time around relationship with a passive aggressive man. I understand he will not take responsibility for his actions, and will simply be contrary in order to evade "giving in" to me. He had insisted that we become engage...

The longer I'm with my b/f the more I worry about his past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Here's my problem...i need to know how i can stop worrying about my past. Im 19 and in my second sexual relationship....i feel each to their own but my personal feel about sex is that it is something to be done with someone you love..i never had a ...

My husband never wants to have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - i just wish he would come on to me or somebody! I'm 43 and lonely. whenever I try to have some time alone with him he always make sure that he bring someone home with him I've got a friend or something or just blows me off I almost thought about ...

Can a guy have an orgasm while dry humping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I sometimes have dry-humping (we've not had no sex yet, but he had with other girls before me). I often have an orgasm, but don't know if he has too. Can a guy reach an orgasm with dry humping? And if so, does he always wet his boxers?...

Desperate for sexual contact after long time single - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Keeping it brief. Was in a 10-yr LTR that was sexless for last 5 years. My girlfriend always had a low sex drive, I loved her, decided I could cope but it eventually totalled petered out. After 5 years I couldn't cope without intimacy any more, ...

We only talk properly when alcohol is involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 4 months and we have not had sex yet although we have come close to it. We are very shy when we see each other, which is everyday as we do a course together but in different classes. We have a hard time opening up to each ...

If my b/f loves oral sex then why does he so seldom ask for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Ok, I have a few questions about guys' sexual preferences. Background : we have a loving relationship and a fantastic sex life. He makes me orgasm 90% of the time through penetration alone otherwise he'll finish me off with his fingers. ...

I suspect my husband may be gay or bisexual and now he's told me to leave the house! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hi I will be married almost 10 years soon, my husband hasn't taken me out very much, usually we go away a few days once a year. We don't go out socially but he goes out with his male friend. We haven't been sexually active for almost a year! He ...

I am worried about first time sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now, but have yet to have sex. It seems as though we are getting closer to us both being ready to take things to the next level. Unfortunately for me, I'm not sure how that will go...

We are very much in love so why am I beating myself over her past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I'm 45 my girlfriend is 28,which we have been together for 2 yrs and have a son.I have only slept with 1 woman before her, my ex wife who I was with for 23 years. I have this re occurring problem which plays on my mind, she has had about 4 partners ...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...

Settling down? Or just sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - i am a seventeen year old girl who is looking to start dating a twenty two year old. i dont know what he wants in our relationship: to settle down or just sex? he often tells me how attractive he thinks i am and that seems to be all he talks about. ...

Married 19 years and my wife has never had an interest in sex. Why does she not like sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I, too, have the common (and perhaps the oldest) question: Why doesn't my wife like sex? I have been married for 19 years. I've been very successful, we've traveled, and we even purchased our dream house and live a comfortable life. 19 ...

So it that it? He told me he was not looking for a relationship. I thought we had more going on than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I always love to read this website love all the advice now I need some. I'm 24 separated and have 2 kids.now I met this guy in the club. He's 21 and military.. He asked my number and gave it to hi. we started texting then he w...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started ...

Should I tell my boyfriend? Just thinking about sex disgusts me. No desire for sex. Could I be asexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I am struggling with my sexuality. I have been in a relationship with a male for two years but I think I may be asexual. I have no desire for sex, I feel disgusted when thinking about it and it causes conflicting feelings towards my boyfrien...

I'm a virgin and b/f has a large penis. Will sex hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a large penis. I want to satisfy him. I am a virgin. will it hurt ?...

Why am I now not attracted to my boyfriend of five years!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - So I love this guy we have been through thick and thin together. He's everything I dream of and the best Bf I've ever had in bed. We moved in togther about two years ago. Been dating since we were 16 and we are both 21 now. We have experienc...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

We have sex but he wont consider being my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Atfirst this guy and ibwere together,then we were forced to seperate by parents.Well,now we are allowed around eachouther and we have been sleeping together for about 2 years..i would like to have and call it a relationship,however he says he isn't ...

I found a sex toy in my boyfriend's room.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hi, Today I visited my bf in his house. We don't live together yet. It was a little mess, so I started to clean his place a little. Then I founf this, a sex toy, quite like a simple hole cup. Maybe it was there before, I just didn't noticed? ...

Girlfriend makes me wash my hands after touching my penis because she's afraid of getting pregnant. Could it happen like that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - hi all. i have a big question to ask. my girlfriend and i fool around, as in oral sex. she is afraid while im giving her pleasure with my finger that sometimes i have to readjust my erection and she makes me go wash my hands because she is afraid ...

Jealous that my FWB had sex with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - So there's this guy....we've been having sex lately and I REALLY like it. I mean I know he doesn't care about me like emotionally and I dont care about him like that either. But the sex is really good.....until I found out the next day he had sex ...

Threesome after marriage? I've been faithful in my marriage but often get the urge to revisit my sexually adventurous past!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Hi Cupid, Am 29 and am married for 5 years...I should say that I have have an amazing love life so far and even before marriage I was very active. I happened to be touch too adventurous for an Indian woman and experinced many a things which wou...

He wants me to 'talk dirty' and it's outside of my comfort zone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Well, here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. The sex is great, though he is much more experienced than I am. Lately he has been pushing me to 'talk dirty' and I just don't know how x.x I always freeze up and it ...

Is it normal that girlfriend has never orgasmed with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

22 April 2013 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend, who is 18, for over a year now, and sexually active with her for half a year. The problem is, she has never orgasmed. I just want to know if this is normal, or if i'm doing something wrong...

How do I approach my partner without being hostile and critical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Hey, need some advice on how to approach my partner about how i'm feeling (unappreciated and unimportant) without sounding critical or hostile. We've been together 3 years, live together and have a gorgeous 6 month old baby. I'm on maternity lea...

So do I still have to wait? In spite of the fact that he has now reached his marrying age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - we broke up recently because when we were together, we couldn't control ourselves of being so intimate. As much as possible, we don't want to have sex without getting married.. He was asking me for marriage but i refused because he's still takin...

I feel tired after I have climaxed three times. Yet is it fair that girlfriends have called me a sex addict for wanting more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

22 April 2013 (M) - Hi am 27 years old and something is disturbing me when am having sex with a lady after ejaculating i still feel horny and i can continue having sex without having to rest upto the 3rd round that is when i have a refractory period or feel tired.And ...

So is having a high sex drive good and why do my hormones drive me crazy, is it because of being only 23 years old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - Hi guys, is it wrong that I look at glamour models on website and magazines everyday because it seems the only way to control my urges. It as if I have a high sex drive and I am a virgin, is that a possibility. Obviously, if I met a girl then this ...

My wife is very aggressive in bed, I feel emasculated.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - I have a unique problem. My wife is too aggressive in bed. She has been the one taking initiative right from day one, The first kiss, the first time we had sex, she literally pulled me on top of her. It's been four years, and it seems when we...

I want this to be more than just "One Night Stand". What should I do guys to make this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the ...

He never told me earlier. Is he really gay? If so , why be with a woman to begin with? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and no sex! He was in prison for 15 years before we meet and while he has never told me he had sex or was raped I have a strange feeling. He did try once to have sex with me the first year and I...

My girl who used to have a sex addiction, now thinks sex is dirty and won't be intimate with me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - Recently, my GF admitted she had a past sexual addiction. I was not totally unaware of this, but recently we've been having our own tension when it comes to sex. She now views sex as "dirty." She now is not capable of being intimate with me...

He resents me for revealing to others he is a cross-dresser. Can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - So I completly messed up my relationship. When we fell on hard times over a year ago I told my not so best friend that my boyfriend was a cross dresser. Honestly I am pretty inky I like it. Well she tossed it in his face cats out of the bag now and ...

Is he holding out on me? He's kind and funny. But it seems he might also has Erectile dysfunction.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - So I've met a new partner and everything is going amazing! He's kind, funny, everything I could ask for! Until we got in the bedroom! He's 54 and can't get it up! Well he can because I've felt it and in foreplay he's been hard! There's a bi...

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 ...

Am I crazy to think the man I"m dating is secretly having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I started dating a man 53 whom is newly divorced few days back in Feb 2013. Yet he is always talking about this woman whom helps him with his dad. My guy's Dad lives with him. The woman who helps is also married and is a co-worker of his. This ...

I feel we should be communicating more. What can I do to change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I am 22. My boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost four months. He is my first sexual partner. It's all so new to me so I just want sex almost all the time. He doesn't mind...most of the time. ;) But I feel like we're not talking enough. ...

How can you tell when it's worth getting back together? How do you know whether to believe it if he says he's willing to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I slept with my ex...and it was great... I was actually thinking maybe breaking up was wrong after all, because we get on so great. But then, he started doing some 'old stuff' and I remembered why we broke up. Where's the balance? How can...

I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him ...