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*ichael06
writes:hi all. i have a big question to ask. my girlfriend and i fool around, as in oral sex. she is afraid while im giving her pleasure with my finger that sometimes i have to readjust my erection and she makes me go wash my hands because she is afraid that i touched it and will impregnate her just because i touched my erection. is it really possible i could get her pregnant just by touching my fluid from my erection and inserting into her? i hope that makes sense. i really need help. i don't want to impregnate her but tired of worrying if i touched myself or not. thanks.
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reader, michael06 +, writes (24 April 2013):
michael06 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I have talked with her about berth control and she has told me no. We are staying virgins until marriage. I haven't talked to her about berth control lately. So maybe it's time to talk about it again. And I still will wash my hands. Just to be extra safe. I just don't want her to think I'm pushing for sex. I'm not, i just want to be safe with foreplay.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 April 2013):
 Yes if you have live sperm on your fingers and insert them into her vagina she could potentially become pregnant.
why is she not on birth control?
Precum if you have had an orgasm and not voided (peed) afterwards could still carry living sperm cells.
while it's not likely she will become pregnant this way, it is possible and if you are as afraid of her getting pregnant as she is, then yes I would still wash your hands. Perhaps you can compromise and keep wet wipes by the bed so you don't have to actually get up and rather can just cleanse your hands in bed.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 April 2013):
 Maybe she needs to consider getting on birth-control so she doesn't HAVE to feel so freaked out every-time you two "play"? and maybe consider some flavored condoms for that kind of play. I can't even imagine how she can enjoy it when she is scared of getting pregnant.
And I agree, with C. Grant, respect her fear - go wash your hands.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (24 April 2013):
 Yes it is possible.
When you are aroused, as you surely will be during foreplay, you will produce pre-cum. This is a secretion from the Cowper's gland:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulbourethral_gland
Pre-cum may, or may not, contain sperm. If sperm happen to be present, your finger can introduce them into her reproductive tract. Which can end up fertilizing an egg.
It's not likely. You'd both have to be remarkably fertile for it to happen. But it is possible. And since the possibility has introduced a buzz-kill, respect her fear.
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reader, R1  +, writes (24 April 2013):
 It's very unlikely but technically possible.
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reader, michael06 +, writes (24 April 2013):
michael06 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am 26. Ha. The thing is I don't have cum on my finger when I insert the finger. It's more the liquid which I think is maybe called precum. I just bump it and that wipes some of it on my fingers. But I love her and respect her. And I just wanted to know is it really possible from even a tiny amount of liquid or precum that she can get pregnant. No matter what,
I'm still going to do what we have been just to be safe. Just curious if it could happen. And thanks guys for commenting. Really helpful.
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reader, loony10 +, writes (24 April 2013):
your gf is definitely a smart girl and i give her MAD PROPS for sticking to her guns. how are you 26-29 years old and you don't know the answer to that question??? of course YOU CAN GET HER PREGNANT if you have cum on your finger and then insert that finger inside her. what is sex?? you put your cum in the vagina, is it not? that's exactly what your doing when you readjust and touch her, except with your finger. to be quite honest, the chances of her actually getting pregnant are not insanely high, but anything is possible. if it makes her uncomfortable don't do it, it helps that's totally 100% correct in this situation.
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reader, xgod +, writes (24 April 2013):
 The only way for her to get pregnant is for you to insert your penis inside her and ejaculate. If you have no sperm on your penis, there is no way you touching it and then inserting your fingers into her vagina could ever get her pregnant. If you do have sperm on your penis and touch it and then finger her vagina, there is a 1 in a million chance she could get pregnant ONLY if she is ovulating.
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