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writes:Atfirst this guy and ibwere together,then we were forced to seperate by parents.Well,now we are allowed around eachouther and we have been sleeping together for about 2 years..i would like to have and call it a relationship,however he says he isn't into that type of thing.He says its becauce he isn't boyfriend material.How do i get him to understand i like him the way he is and get him to concider a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico +, writes (24 April 2013):
You are giving him sex w/o the need for commitment - a young mans nirvana. What incentive does he have to change a thing?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 April 2013):
 I’m sorry sweetie but you can NEVER make someone love you. And having sex with a boy will NOT make him want you as anything other than a sex toy.
He understands just fine that you like him just the way he is. There is nothing you can do to get him to consider a relationship with you.
I think for your own peace of mind and wellbeing you need to stop having sex with him or giving him any sort of physical contact (no sex, no blow jobs, no hand jobs) and accept that he’s just not that into you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 April 2013):
 He does not want a relationship, at least with you ,he wants to be free and sleep with you without committment.
He did not mean that he feels is not got enough to be your boyfriend, he knows you like him as he is, otherwise why would you accept to have sex with him without getting the relationship that you want. He just means that he does not want to be a boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): I wasn't a "relationship kind of person" or "girlfriend material" either. However, when I met the right person, I didn't care about that. I'm sorry, but this guy just likes to get sex from you. He probably thinks that if he says its a problem with him, you'll keep having sex with him. I doubt he wants to be with you in the long run though. He knows you like him the way he is. In fact, he knows you like him so much that you'll let him treat you like shit, and he takes advantage of this. I'm sorry, but I'd get far away from this guy if I were you because you'll probably just get hurt in the long run.
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