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writes:My boyfriend has a large penis. I want to satisfy him. I am a virgin. will it hurt ? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 April 2013):
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I would strongly advise you no to have sex just to satisfy your boyfriend but only if you want to as well.
consider that BABIES that weigh an average of 7 1/2 pounds come through the vagina when they are being born.
the vagina is a very wondrous muscle.
the best thing to do if you really want to do this is AFTER you are on birth control (and that's very important as yes you can get pregnant the first time, yes you can get pregnant even if he pulls out, or does not cum inside you and yes CONDOMS DO BREAK and I would not trust one for birth control.
so now you are on birth control
you WANT to have sex with this guy
you are in a long term committed relationship
you need to be relaxed
you need to be aroused
if you are not lubricated enough with your own secretions use a GOOD lube such as KY or Wet or ASTROGLIDE I prefer the more expensive silicone based lubes... not sticky and they last longer. Also if you go a long time you can dry out and you should ADD lube as needed. There is no shame or crime in needing and using lubricant. SPIT is not a lubricant contrary to what some men think.
accept that the first time may be uncomfortable... PAIN means stop.... discomfort you may want to push (no pun intended) past a bit.
OR you can try it the first time and stop if you get nervous
and it will not be romantic.
it will not be perfect
it will not be like the movies or a book you have read
It's OK to LAUGH in bed too.... at yourself...
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reader, R1 +, writes (25 April 2013):
 It might do but only for the first few times. Your vaginia is designed for sex and will adapt itself in time. Don't worry, relax.
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (24 April 2013):
 It probably will hurt a little, or feel uncomfortable. Make sure you are properly lubricated and relaxed with each other. My friend lost hers over about two weeks here he would put a bit more in each time they tried and she said that was a great way of doing it :)
I found it easy with my boyfriend because I feel so comfortable around him I was totally relaxed :)
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