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writes:Well, here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. The sex is great, though he is much more experienced than I am. Lately he has been pushing me to 'talk dirty' and I just don't know how x.x I always freeze up and it makes me completely uncomfortable. What do I say? I am such a introverted, shy person. I have enough problems talking normally xD hallp? What am I supposed to say, and how do I make myself feel less awkward saying it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 April 2013):
 is he talking about talking dirty during sex or he wants sexting....
I don't sext. I find it rather uncomfortable... texts can be shared and I would not put it in writing for anyone to share....
if he's talking about during sex... well then that's different and you can tell him it's not natural for you and it's not something that will be enjoyable for you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 April 2013):
 I think you should talk to HIM about what it is he wants to hear and if you are STILL not comfortable with it, tell him. What might make it easier if you role-play, but I don't know if that is something you want to try.
Personally, talking dirty is not for me. And I would be annoyed if hubby all of a sudden would want me to. To me that belongs in badly written porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2013): If its just not you then tell him that the mere thought of talking dirty completely turns you off, so the chances of it leading any where is zero because to you it kills the mood.If you feel that uncomfortable about it that's what it'll do. He should respect the fact you don't want to and over time maybe you might start and like it or try and decide it still makes you uncomfortable
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2013): If you’re looking for a few examples on sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend or husband, just use your imagination and mix these lines in! # You make me so wet # Your shoulders look so sexy # Gosh, it feels so big! # I love the way you feel inside me # Ohh… don’t stop that! # This feels so good! lines that DONT sound good while talking dirty # More, more, more! *trust me, he’s trying his best already!* # Is that all you got, big boy? *are you trying to emasculate him?* # Screaming *really, how many people actually enjoy screaming?* # F##k me… *seriously, what IS he doing to you?* # Harder… *You’ll make him feel like he’s inadequate unless you compliment him for it after a few seconds of harder thrusts* # Say something dirty to me / Call me a bitch *don’t ask him, just say it* im a bitch! make me ur bitch! :P
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