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writes:I am 22. My boyfriend is 39.We've been dating for almost four months. He is my first sexual partner. It's all so new to me so I just want sex almost all the time. He doesn't mind...most of the time. ;) But I feel like we're not talking enough. There's still so much that I don't know about him that I should've learned these last few months. What can I do to change that? Will this need ever decrease? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 April 2013):
 Will the need for WHAT ever decrease? The need to have sex all the time? Yeah it will. Familiarity breeds contempt as they say. In other words, once the newness wears off, and you realize you can have it at any time, it no longer becomes the only goal.
The need to know more about him? Yeah as you know more about him then that need will decrease too.
The more time you spend together the more you learn about each other. What kinds of things do you think you should know about?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 April 2013):
 Learning about each other in a relationship is a gradual thing which happens over time. Unless you believe your boyfriend is keeping secrets from you, don't try and force it, and let the sharing and learning be a natural process.
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