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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Worried about his making eye contact with women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - hii...i am married with a guy for 3 yrs... as far as he is a gud person,takes care of me as well... but only thing am uncomfortable is he makes continous eye contact with other women.. he doesnot start it... if others start the play he respond...

My ex is stalking my Facebook, does he miss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for six months. we bicker a lot and this is the 4th time we have split up. I am 4 months pregnant. when we broke up three weeks ago we were still talking, but when he told me he doesn't want to reconcile I changed ...

What can a pregnant women do to keep her husband to pay more attention on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I am pregnant for twelve weeks now, my husband is chatting on the internet with a married women who have a baby already. They talk about everything which makes me really jealous. No matter is day or night, my husband will wait for this women on ...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual function for unknown reasons. He is unable to keep his erections, and he has zero sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I m so disappointed . My husband and me , might be unable to make it much longer together., after 26 years of marriage. I know sex is not everything, but affection is... I really need some understanding and some advice. He is a good man, but he is ...

My husband and I fight all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I cant stand my husband. I know I am lucky cause he is not a drunk or he doesnt cheat or abuse, but the problem is that we fight all the time, even more over such silly stuff or the silliest of silliest stuff. It has come to that point that I cant ...

Should I stay or go? My husband has no clue how to love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? Married 11yrs, together for 21. we've always been off and on. Only stayed cause I thought it was the right thing to do. He is a good man, we have 3 children 7,9,11. But he's never been "with" me, "for" me. we've never ...

No longer sexually attracted to my husband! Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm 24, and married to a 25 year old. When I first met him, I couldn't take my eyes off him, and same with him to me. We dated for a year, then got married when I was 21 and he was 22. He still feels just as attracted to me as when we met, eve...

I'm cheating and should leave my marriage but I can't! I'm selfish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I should leave my marriage but I can't! Husband very fond of me and I do my best but its gone for me and I don't want to cause pain to my grown up child. We get on but NO lust any more.I have a lover of 8 yrs and needless to say I love him tho he's ...

I want to feel close to my husband sexually, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I posted the other day SVC gave me good advice. Although I should have explained more. My husband no longer wants sex as often. I originally said that he would like sex at least once a week, but its been over a week. We are voth in our 20s. However ...

Married for 20 years and been feeling alone for the last 5! Is it time to get out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - Another night of being ignored. Together almost 20 years, and feeling alone for the last 5. I have gotten the excuses "I need to be in the mood (emphasis on I)".....I'm too tired, the proverbial headache, yet her addiction to Facebook and gam...

We both have someone else now so why did we get close to each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - So here I go. I just don't understand a certain situation or how to handle it. Although there is a lot that goes into the background of this, I will just try my best to condense it. About 5 years ago I had a male friend who was in my life at a ...

Is this really cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I'm separated for 3 years now. I ran into my high school sweetheart a few weeks ago and made a lunch date. At our lunch we discussed everything. I told her about my cheater wife and she told me about her bad marriage. Long story short, she asked me ...

My husband doesn't want sex as often, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi all. My husband no longer wants to have sex regularly and Im not sure about what I should or can do about it. Im 24, we have two children together ( toddlers) He works a regular job and has a side job as well. Im currently a stay atvhome mom ( ...

In a relationship with a married man for 7 years .... Is it true love or am I kidding myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I am in love with a married man and his wife knew about us. His son knows too but did not believe it is true. My relationship with this married man is still on going till this date and we could not stop this relationship. We have been together...

Husband slept with gorgeous coworker. Is it unreasonable to ask him to find another job?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - My husband had an affair with a gorgeous female co-worker. He felt guilty and admitted everything to me. I am devastated but would like to work on rebuilding our marriage. Am I being unreasonable for asking him to find another job? They see ea...

Do I tell my husband straight out that I want out of the marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - I´m married for 10 years now and since 2 years ago my mother got really sick and I started to go to my country for some time.Last year I went for 3 months and when I went back to USA my husband was diferente,much loosed.Later on some of his friends ...

Am I using him? Am I worthless?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - I want to know if I am out of line. My husband and I have been married for 6 years now he has three kids and I have three . We only have four of the kids living with us because his two older children are adults. I work four months of t...

Why doesn't he want me as a woman ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 31 years. When the children got older in high school my husband cut loving way down. really way down. 4 times a year- then we went to nothing. we do not kiss at all-peck once awhile. no embracing. no loving fo...

How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (?) - Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked a...

Details about my wife's past have made me feel our sex is not new or exciting or different!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

18 June 2013 (M) - I recently found some details of my wife's sexual history and I'm now disgusted by her. What can I do? I mean I know it is "the past" but we're talking about her saying and doing the exact same things she says and does to me. This bothers me a tre...

Husband gets frustrated when I cry about his work hours but I'm pregnant and lonely!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - I'm 23 weeks pregnant and feeling very hormonal and emotional all the time. My husband works 12 hours most days and leaves at 11 and comes back at 11. It breaks my heart so much because I never get to see him and I feel so alone. He has two days off ...

Wondering if I should leave my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - My wife of 5 years is emotionally abusive and unstable. I don't love her anymore and my heart has become totally closed off to her. Should I stay, though, for our daugher? It's not horrible, but I'm unhappy and counseling hasn't worked. Thank ...

Why did my husband leave me after 6 years of marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - Why did he leave me? My husband left my son and I after 6 years of marriage. He wanted his freedom and to be able to do as he pleased. He was having "the grass is greener" issues. He was verbally and emotionally abusive and generally not a good...

Curious about my wife's sexual past

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been together 9 years, and had the whole "how many people have you ******" conversation many years ago. Ever since then, I, like many husbands, still wonder "is that her real number, or is she holding some back?" The history she ...

My husband doesn't put in any effort in our marriage and it's taking it's toll on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do. The situation with me and my husband that I am taking care of absolutely everything regarding our lives. We have business, that I run. All the paperwork, all customer relations, accounting, everything's my responsibility. ...

I promised my sister I would take care of her family, but this isn't what I bargained for

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Few years ago my sick sister made me promise that i would take care of her family if anything happened to her,at the time i didnt really think she would die so young,so the family arranged for me to marry her widower and raise her 4 kids,it was ...

I counted his viagra pills and of course I thought the inevitable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I had to attend a conference that was out of state that lasted over a week. I got a nagging feeling and before I left I counted my husband's Viagra pills. When I got back I counted them again and 1/4 of a tablet was gone. He halves them and ...

My husband and I are not on the same page about how to raise my kids. Please advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I have been married for 8 years it has been pretty tough. My boys are from a previous marriage. my husband came into this marriage knowing how I was as a mom. I do everything a mom would do for their kids, have I made mistake absolutely!!! My ...

My husband looks at other women in front of me. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I just have a quick question. Am i wrong for feeling a certain way that my husband looks at other women in front of me, he says he dont but I look right at his face and catch his wondering eyes, i take that as disrespect cause i know that men look ...

My husband has become very vulgar during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I have been married several years and our sex life has definitely taken a turn for the worst!! It's was great and all the time in the beginning but now it's good but very far between. Over the years my husband has made very rude comments during s...

Husband stays out until 4 am..........and wonders why I am upset about it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - My husband went out last night with some work colleagues for a work dinner. He said he would be home in a few hours. Well, he came home at 4 am this morning drunker than a skunk, no keys and lost his $700 cell phone and had the nerve to ask me this ...

My husband is jealous of my ex husband and acts foolish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I have two boys from my ex husband he is a good dad provides well for his boys, truck for 16th birthday we didn't pay a penny no insurance, we help when and if he needs some. Child support is paid early...our boys are loved and taken care. We ...

My wife cannot have sex because of a medical problems and I need relief!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

13 June 2013 (M) - Hello, My problem is embarrassing, but it is affecting my life very significantly now, and medicine seems not to be of help. My wife is everything to me. We met in college and fell in love, and everything went okay. We didn't have sex before ...

Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

12 June 2013 (F) - I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...

My much older husband treats me terribly. The only reason I stay is for the kids. How long will I have to live like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

11 June 2013 (?) - I have been married for 4 1/2 years now. For the past 3 years I noticed that my husband started complaining about every little thing in the house. Eg if I put my laptop on the table and my daughter spills water in it he would scream at me in front...

My wife spent over 37 hours talking/texting/sending nude photos and says I'm selfish because I can't move past it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

11 June 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. 6 months ago I caught my wife talk to a guy she meet on a online poker game. She told me they're just friends on a game but when I checked the phone bill and it was more than talking. In a month they ...

Husband refuses to prove that he isn't texting other women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - My husband has been texting/facebooking other women. When I realized he was I asked what they talked about and he couldn't remember and he deletes all messages. After seeing hundreds of messages I was making myself crazy wanting to always check the ...

Men: how reasonable is it to think that they sent over 500 sexually explicit messages in a month, that they were only together twice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I found out after 9 years of being with my husband he cheated. He didnt come clean, I just so happened to find out one day and confronted him about it. At first he lied over and over until he decided to "come all ...

My husband cheated told me 10 months later and I can't get past the bitterness and hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Husband of 26 years got approached by a prostitute when he was in Makati City, Manila. She asked him if he was alone and would like some afternoon company. He said sure and then go back to the New World Makati Hotel and have sex using a condom. He ...

Do I give up and move on to try to find happiness? Or do I stay? We have 2 children together.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Please help! I will get straight to the point. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and together total for 10. In the beginning of our dating and married relationship I tried my best to be the best wife I could be. Obviously I know ...

Trust, once lost can you give it to anyone again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (M) - Quick background info: been married since '99 and have two children (9 and 12). Wife stopped being intimate with me Jan '09 citing many reasons (thyroid, loss of her father to cancer, mother getting cancer, subsequent loss of her mother, ...

I really want to leave my husband, but how can I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Modnote: please advise your country too, as it will= more culturally appropriate advice.Some countries have better support resources than other countries - available to a woman facing your issues. .... ..... ..... ..... ..... .... ....... ..... .....

I'm tired from working so much and husband says he'll go elsewhere if I don't want to have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - So here i am back here again... not sure what to do anymore... i been with my husband off and on for 17 yeats but have only been married 6 months .... i work all the time to support our family and hes been getting upset with me cuz im not in the ...

My inlaws want my husband to send me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - have being married for two years nw bt there is issues between me and my inlaws,what i say and what i didnt say my husband sisters told my husband parent and my husband parent told my husband to send me out of is house but my husband didnt accept ...

We've only been married a year but I have to beg for anything to be done! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - I am getting worn out. I have addressed issues which have gone ignored. If he disagrees on issues which matter to me, mostly relevant issues, he procrastinates. I give it time, and bring it up again and the process continues until i give up or he ...

I want a child, my husband doesn't- feeling terrible about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

6 June 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I really hope you can give me some advice. Or perhaps just support. Either way, I really need to vent. I am 36 years old and my husband is 42. We have been together for 15 years. Our relationship is really good and strong and I ...

What am I doing wrong?? He watches porn. I try to accomodate his needs. He seems not to care,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

6 June 2013 (F) - Okay, lets start off my husband and i have been together snice he was 15 and I 16. We are now him 20 and I 21. we love to have a good time always. I plesure him any time he wants.we have AMAZING sex (so i thought) but he has a porn addition...

How will I ever get over the other woman that I fell in love with?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

4 June 2013 (M) - I'm married and fell in love with another woman. It was a deep love that I never felt or can explain. Although cheating and leaving went against everything I believed in, I truly felt I found my soul mate. I never felt my chest and heart in every ...

So my problem is my husband says I must convince her to move back. Or he is divorcing me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F) - My problems with my 25 year old step-daughter have once again reared their ugly head. She moved in with us about a year ago and it was very difficult living with her. I wanted to sit down before she moved in and discuss, like 3 grown roommates, how ...