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writes:Okay, lets start off my husband and i have been together snice he was 15 and I 16. We are now him 20 and I 21. we love to have a good time always. I plesure him any time he wants.we have AMAZING sex (so i thought) but he has a porn addition. He watches porn almost every day. He just locks him self in the bathroom for hours (we only have one which is very fustrainting) he doesnt care if i and our son is about to pee our pants. This has been going on for years! I dont mind porn, i really dont! But when im here wanting him and hes jacking off to a cell phone screen i cant help to feel a litle betrayed.i would ride him for hours.i try what ever he wants. I found out he has a foot fetis from his porn so i keep then sexy and soft and rub him with them. What am i doing wrong?? Is it wrong to feel wanted.
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reader, lil foxy +, writes (7 June 2013):
lil foxy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thnks guys. Much help.(: he knows im done with the bull and we'll get threw this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2013): This is too big for you to handle alone. Please read yourbrainonporn.com and any other resource you can find and get educated and seek out professional help for him. This has nothing to do with you, or anything you are doing wrong. He has an addiction and porn is something he is going to have to give up entirely amongst other things for him to fight this. But he will not be able to do it alone, the two of you together will not be able to do it alone. He's in way too deep. Best of luck with this...and know, this is becoming more and more common to read about these days, with free porn so readily available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2013): This aunt has links to all the resources you'll need to discover ways in which he can beat his addiction.
http://www.dearcupid.org/people/person12345
OP you're not doing anything wrong, I like porn too but if it ever had a negative impact on my life and I kept on using it then that's called an addiction and like heroin, gambling etc. it's irrational and 100% a personal thing and nothing to do with my partner.
He needs help to beat his addiction if he can't do it alone.
OP read up on all those links, do your homework on the subject of addiction not solely related to porn too and then you can approach him and tell him from a standpoint of knowing what you're talking about that enough is enough and that he has to find a way of stopping as its having a very bad effect on your relationship.
Just one thing you need to remember throughout and never forget this OP: It's nothing to do with your attractiveness, your desirability or how great a shag you are. You did nothing to create this and you're not to blame in any way for any of it, it's an addiction.
Spend the next week or two studying those links, study 12 step programs for alcohol abuse etc. Look for local places that can help him beat his addiction and once you know what you're dealing with, know ways in which it can be fixed then approach him and tell him how serious this has become and that it stops now as your marriage can't go on like this.
Best of luck OP.
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