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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello dear cupids I need your help please!There's a guy at work, who I get along very well with and always have.We seem to be making a lot of eye contact with each other and always seem to sort of gravitate towards each other.Lately I have noticed that he comes over,or even seeks me out especially to talk to me. Most of the time it's only general chit chat but even more recently there have been the odd very nice obvious compliments about the way I look, smell,dress,work, and other stuff.He does get in really close to talk to me with his face close to mine, and does his best to be where he can see me most of the time.I think he knows I like him,But I'm not sure if that is why he is acting this way or if he actually likes me as well. The thing is that some days he seems a bit quiet and/or just friendly,but he always blushes when he first sees me and asks what I did since I last saw him and also just as I am leaving to go home he blushes again. He seems kinda sad when I am leaving.When I say blushing though, I mean scarlet red with a kind of surprised look about him.I can't think of anything I have said which may have left him feeling embarassed around me.Oh yes, the other day I looked over now and then as I could feel him watching me(I FEEL THIS A LOT) and noticed he was copying everything I did. It kinda freaked me out a bit, and I wasn't sure if he was doing it on purpose to get a response or not.I have since noticed that if we have lunch together he does the same thing, copies whatever I do. I can feel him watching me if I'm reading or something.Does it sound like he likes me too? Is he scared of me?Or is he some kind of freaking stalker?He has put his hand on mine before, and stood close enough so that his arm is touching mine as well.Should I just keep smiling,and being nice to him to make him feel comfortable with me?Oh and he is ten years older than me.Thanks in advance for your help
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Well he's not a stalker that's for sure. A stalker is someone who gives you unwanted attention. And you are accepting the attention by liking him. A stalker is not someone that does one or a few weird things. Everyone does weird things or makes a fool of themselves around the people they like. Some girls giggle a lot around a bloke they like, some blokes would think that's very weird and dismiss her instantly, but some blokes would like it and flaunt it.
Maybe you need to loosen up a bit an have a bit of a laugh. Don't get too serious, and don't "think" too much. Ottherwise you'll think yourself confused.
Lastly, if you like him, why don't you ask him out. Ever tried that?
Good luck.
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