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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well me and my boyfriend went out for 10months, before he broke up with me due to not missing me when we werent hanging out.Then like 2 weeks afterwards he told me he found another girl. They went on like 5 dates, and even hooked up. But even during these 2 weeks he told me that he didn't know if he should go out with her or come back to me, as he did miss me.Then he told me like a couple days after he said he was going to give it a shot with her .. he came back to me and told me that she doesn't compare to me at all and that he needs me backSo then I took him back, after a month of not being togetherBut this chick he went out with still flirts with him! And I've told him so many times that I dont like it. But he tells me that he has no feelings for her at all, and that they are just friends. And he has told me that he does love me and only me. I do believe him, but i just do not like how this chick is actingI just cant help to worry that if she keeps flirting with him, his going to change his mind. Any advice :( ?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Be confident in yourself. The more you accuse, the more he will think about it. Does he flirt back?
Really, you have no control over what she says to him. You do have a say in how he reacts if he wants to stay with you. Don't be the jealous GF, but let him know you don't like the flirting, especially because of their history. Communication about such things is incredibly important to a healthy relationship.
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