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writes:hi a guy whom I had met last year, recently indicated to me that he was interested in getting to know me better. He finally asked me for my phone number and email address, since we live in separate countries and he said that he would like to keep in touch with me. I came back home since September because I went to his country for a wedding, his sister's wedding actually. He hasnt called me and has only added me to facebook, and emailed me twice, since those two emails he only emails me if I email him, or sometimes he does not even answer at all. He comes on facebook and never says hi to me, he just does whatever and never acknowledges me. Please I need your advice to help me understand this. Because why would he say he was interested and then play this game, I dont understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): I agree with DirtBall, if he's interested he'll contact you. When he asked for your email/number he probably did it with good intentions at the time but now you're back in your own country reality may have set in for him. Don't think too much about it just carry on as you were before any of this happened.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 This guy isn't that into you. If he was, he would be pursuing the correspondence with you. Maybe you weren't what he was expecting when you came to visit. Maybe he realized that LDR's are doomed so he didn't bother to start one. Whatever the case I would suggest you move on and try to find someone close to you who you can be happy with.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Maybe he has had time to think about this situation and realises that its not worth the hassle when you are in a different country or else maybe he is just really busy. Either way leave the ball in his court now you have contacted him so leave it at that if he doesnt phone or email you then just forget about him.
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